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Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was enormous. By far the biggest I've ever been with. Sex was hit or miss. Sometimes it was good and sometimes it was uncomfortable. A lot of times we could only fuck for a few minutes at a time before I needed a little reprieve. He could never go all the inside me, and oral was damn near impossible. I couldn't ever get much more than his head in my mouth. And I don't think I was ever able to bring him to completion from oral alone. Granted we only hooked up a few times, but I've never had that issue before or since.

The one good thing I remember was that because we had to start and stop a lot our sessions were very long. Like hours at a time. One weekend we went at it for close to 12 hours due to the starting and stopping. I don't know how this would have worked out on a long term basis. When it was good, it was damn good. But half the time I just really couldn't do it. It was just too uncomfortable.

So, I guess I'm just wondering if anybody else has encountered a guy that was just too well endowed.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I've been with a guy that was uncomfortably large.
Peggi , MissStormRyder , UnknownGirl , Liz2 , CreamySweet , Ryuson , aliceinthehole , jessesgirly , Mew , Breas , Ivy Wilde , eroticmutt , NavyDoll87 , onehotmomma , cathy23 , ViVix , Lulia , Double Analysis , Missmarc , Chilipepper , sweetpea12 , ciderspider , Ropey , Voir , travelnurse , xilliannax , naturegirl
27  (44%)
No, I have not been with a guy that was uncomfortably large.
Tart , TheSlyFox , ThoughtsAblaze , Ms. Spice , unfulfilled , darthkitt3n , OhMy! , WhoopieDoo , Girly Girl , SexyTabby , ily , AmethystSmoke , MidnightStorm , potstickers , Nirelan , Raigne , pootpootpoot , Crystal1 , ellejay , succulenthunny616 , StarFire , Augustxsins , roskat , Azule , libbyv , Cat E. , MK434 , hhh , Incendiaire , novanilla
30  (48%)
Other. Please explain.
Airen Wolf , AndroAngel , Beck , DeliciousSurprise , socceras
5  (8%)
Total votes: 62
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Contributor: Peggi Peggi
My ex was like this. Every time, no matter how frequent or not, it was painful and often caused bleeding. I actually didn't like having sex because of this. And I am small so it made it worse!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
Guess I'm just lucky, this doesn't sound like fun.
10/24/2011
Contributor: MissStormRyder MissStormRyder
Yeah I encountered this once while in college...not sure how big he was but definitely too big. The biggest dildo I have is 2" wide and I love it, this guy was way beyond that!
10/24/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
I haven't yet, but, i'm good at handling large.. heh
10/24/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I haven't thankfully because I don't want to hurt while having sex.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Just once in college. The guy was too big for me, sex was uncomfortable to painful. At the time, I thought it must be me but looking back, I realize I was OK but I just couldn't handle this guys massive cock....
10/24/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
Just once in college. The guy was too big for me, sex was uncomfortable to painful. At the time, I thought it must be me but looking back, I realize I was OK but I just couldn't handle this guys massive cock....
I knew it wasn't me because I'd been with plenty of guys before and never had a problem. You almost feel bad for these guys, though. Almost. Can't be too many women out there that can handle them. As hit or miss as sex was I loved to just look at it. I mean it was truly impressive. Too bad it was more form than function lol
10/24/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
Yes. I have a guy now that I am doing on the side that is my gym trainer (Actually I'm hos "MILF TOY") Who is pushing the limit. Hes almost 9 inches and very thick but now that we have done it a bunch I am actually use to it and kind of crave it. That said I had one guy once prior who was over the top to big. Hurt, wouldn't fit all the way in and was so big it was hard for him to keep it from drooping even when erect. 12+ inches and probably my wrist at the base. Only once was enough. To big and no fun lol
10/24/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Yes. I have a guy now that I am doing on the side that is my gym trainer (Actually I'm hos "MILF TOY") Who is pushing the limit. Hes almost 9 inches and very thick but now that we have done it a bunch I am actually use to it and kind of ... more
Sounds hot! I mean your trainer, not King Kong
10/25/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I've had no problems but I've only had sex with one man.
10/25/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
Cause a few asked... the short video of my pool boy from the gym.. do not open at work - xrated! Hes HUGE!!!

link
11/05/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
no never
11/05/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
I have never been with a guy who was too large but I have definitely been with a few toys that were just too big!
11/05/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
When I first became sexually active, I was with this guy that was a mutant. I mean really, he was just ridiculously huge. Thankfully, he knew enough to use lots of lube and warm me up first, even so, it wasn't an ideal situation for someone new to the game.

Nowadays, I don't think it would be a problem.
11/05/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Yes I have been in that situation, where a guy's penis was simply too long to fit inside me, so I just let him get as deep as was comfortable for me, but yeah that didn't last long as he was unsatisfyed, but I wasn't about to let him hurt me. Girth ways I have never found a man to be too large so far.
11/05/2011
Contributor: NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
I have and it hurt pretty bad. I felt horrible at the time because I started to cry and made him stop. Needless to say we never attempted to have sex again and our relationship didn't last very long. For the record, I was 18 and still very new to sex.
11/05/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
In my younger, stretchy days, no one was too big for me. With menopause comes less elasticity, so it would be possible now for someone to be too big for me.
11/05/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by CreamySweet
Cause a few asked... the short video of my pool boy from the gym.. do not open at work - xrated! Hes HUGE!!!

link
Oh my! Now that looks like a gorgeous cock. Big, but not over the top.

*drool*
11/05/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Hm, I don't consider my lover's dick to be too big, but it definitely pushes my limits. I have toys smaller that I have a hard time taking, sometimes, so I guess if I wasn't super turned-on it might be more of a problem.
11/05/2011
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
Nope! And I will note that I'm not too worried about finding someone that's too large. I'm quite a bit of a size queen (at the moment, my largest toy is 10 inches in circumference, at it's widest point)--so much so that I don't think most guys can naturally provide something with enough size to over-do it for me.

That isn't to say that someone runs the risk of being 'too small' though. My boyfriend is slightly above average, and I'd prefer him to that giant dildo any day!
11/06/2011
Contributor: Nirelan Nirelan
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
I just don't understand why guys wanna be HUGE! It can only go in so far!!
04/13/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Well....yes and no. My husband used to be too big for me, when we first started sleeping together and when we were long-distance and only saw each other every few months. Now that we have sex regularly, it's pretty comfortable as long as I am of course fully aroused and wet.
04/13/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
I've experienced this, and large and uncircumcised makes it harder for it to fit it seems. I could never get wet enough, which is not a typical problem of mine!
04/13/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by eroticmutt
Yes I have been in that situation, where a guy's penis was simply too long to fit inside me, so I just let him get as deep as was comfortable for me, but yeah that didn't last long as he was unsatisfyed, but I wasn't about to let him hurt ... more
I almost find length to be worse than girth. I can adjust to girth, but I can't hide my cervix from serious length!
04/13/2012
Contributor: Lulia Lulia
An old ex wasn't crazy girthy, but very long. I'm also super dry and had yet to discover the awesomeness of lube, so my cervix got a ramming while being chafed at the same time. Ouch!

But the width of your wrist? Holy pancakes, I thought only dildos came in that size!
04/13/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I had an ex who was extremely thick, but his angle was odd. It didn't match me, so no matter how hard we tried, we could not have sex. I am glad though because he ended up being abusive.
04/13/2012
Contributor: succulenthunny616 succulenthunny616
Sounds scary!
04/13/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Uh....no.

I have a Memory Foam Vagina.

I married the guy with the scary big one. Hey We're in LOVE! (OK, he isn't 2 liter of pop sized, no, but still.)
04/13/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
At a wedding this weekend I ran into a guy a I used to fuck back in high school. The girls at my school called him "Horse cock." I don't know what his exact measurement was, but needless to say with a nick name like that he was ... more
This is why you go anal. You can take at least 18 inches of cock and almost 2 inches thick without much effort. Make him work you in every way you love until you are satisfied, then let him have your ass and satify him like no other woman has. Epic Win
04/14/2012