Mutual Friendship: Loving and Enduring Relationships

Contributor: Bailed Bailed
This might be more appropriate in a relationship forum, but I was unable to locate a discussion group dedicated to relationships.

Last night my fiancee and I rested in my bed after euphoric sex. She was snuggled so close to me that I felt her exhale on my neck. After a lot of after sex talk, she said, "Sanch, you're the best friend I've ever had. I can tell you anything and discuss anything with you. You have never judged me, and you have never made a negative reply to anything I've told you."

She has told me all that she can remember about her previous sexual experiences, sex acts she likes, and sex acts she doesn't. She has told me about her many sexual fantasies.

My fiancee used to walk on egg shells with her ex-husband. She could not confide in him for fear he'd judge her and ridicule her. She always had to be careful about revealing her sexual relationships with black men. She has told me that many white guys have a negative view of white women having sex with black men. For as long as I can remember, I've always believed that it is no one's business who anyone decides to date except those in relationships.

My fiancee could not tell her ex about her sexual fantasies for fear of being irrationally shamed. I know all of her sexual fantasies, and they're all normal female sexual fantasies. She vacillates between fantasies. For at least a few weeks she's been back on black men fantasy. Every time we have sex, she fantasizes about being a porn star.

My fiancee knew her marriage to he ex was over when he ridiculed, demeaned, and told her she was gross because she asked him to cum on her tits. She has never forgiven him for that. High school boys are wise enough to know to never demean a woman during sex, ever.

I did appreciate her compliment. We are in love with each other. She should be able to trust me with anything she wants to tell me and anything she wants to discuss. I know that I can trust her with anything and everything I have told her and will tell her.

Our dating relationship was sexual on our first night. It matured in to mutual friendship. Our mutual friendship became mystical when we fell in love with each other.

If my fiancee were to tell me that she gang banged the Lakers basketball team, my intense love and total respect for her would not diminish one iota. Who she had sex with before we became exclusive is none of my business.

My fiancee and I view sex talk as foreplay. She knows she can get an instant hard-on outta me every single time she talks graphically about sex. She knows it's normal for men to have craved her when she has talked graphically about sex. Her ex-husband must have mental and/or behavioral issues.

this might not work for all men: never judge a woman for her sexual history.
01/16/2020
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