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Never orgasm with sex - Is it normal ?

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Contributor: Alt Alt
Im curious...
Do you think it is common for males to not reach orgasm during sex?
I never have actually came even close, so that is why I ask.
02/09/2010
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Contributor: Britni TheVadgeWig Britni TheVadgeWig
I don't know how "common" it is, but it's not "not normal." Can you orgasm other ways? Through oral sex, or masturbation? If so, utilize those things with your partner, so that you're still orgasming and you're able to share that with your partner. If it's something that really bothers you, talk to you partner and see what you can figure out, try new things, etc. Otherwise, don't worry about it!
02/09/2010
Contributor: Alt Alt
Ah ok.
Yes I can do it from masturbation but only when doing it myself.
I guess nothing to really worry about, but I am just curious if others have or haven't experienced something similar.
02/09/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I have a male friend with the same issue. Unfortunately he hasn't yet found a solution but at least you're not the only one! Maybe with the right partner, some patience, and some research and creativity you can find a solution that works for you!
04/18/2010
Contributor: Cats Meow Cats Meow
another big thing is u have to be comfortable with your partner
07/21/2010
Contributor: Alt Alt
Yea comfort isn't an issue, because we are both very comfy with each other.
Currently, its not too much of a big deal anymore because we typically do other kinky things to get eachother off.

Seems that both of us have a take-it or leave-it attitude toward actual sexual intercourse now, because everything else we do to eachother is just so damn good. Actual penis-to-vagina(or sphincter) penetration is just some icing on the side of the cake, haha.
07/21/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I'm wondering whether you just need more time to climax than your partner. Maybe your partners are outlasting you. I've known men who take 45 minutes to get off. But I'm just guessing.
07/21/2010