I know not all of us have a soundproof house to ourself. Do you have sex in the house if other people are there and could possibly here you.
Sex in the house......while others are there, would you do it if they here you
07/29/2010
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Really depends on the situation, more than anything. I would have sex in my own home if other people or present - this does not mean that I would do it in front of them or where they could hear me.
07/29/2010
Same as what Sir said. - I'll do it but I have the respect for them to at least be quiet and try not to let them hear me.
07/29/2010
Bah, I clicked too early, lol. I have no problem having sex in my mother's house where my fiance and I both live right now. We do try to make sure nobody can hear us, just to respect the fact that they have to live there too.
If we were in our own house and had guest over we would wait until they left, unless they happened to be staying the night in which case we would wait until we went to bed.
If we were in our own house and had guest over we would wait until they left, unless they happened to be staying the night in which case we would wait until we went to bed.
07/29/2010
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We just lock the door, turn up the music to drowned out any sounds and play, play, play. It's fun
Originally posted by
usmcwife99
I know not all of us have a soundproof house to ourself. Do you have sex in the house if other people are there and could possibly here you.
07/29/2010
Not sure why guests have any impact on our decision to have sex or not - maybe what time we get started - but that's about it.
07/29/2010
I am uncomfortable with some fairly mild public displays of affection, so such activities make me a little too nervous. But I have had sex with others nearby. When my significant other and I were younger, we've tried it with family in other rooms--as quietly as we could. More recently, we did it in the shower when friends were visiting on two different occasions. Some of our friends seem to get embarrassed very easily, so we find it somewhat disrespectful to do things with them nearby.
07/29/2010
We've just learned to be reeeaaal quiet when necessary (such as in my parents' house).
07/29/2010
We have our own house, and I don't necessarily mind doing it when we have guests-- but only if they're asleep, or otherwise occupied (party going on or some such). I agree with Alura Une on the PDA issue, and personally, I think hearing PDA is just as uncomfortable as seeing it. Essentially, I'll have sex in my house if other people are there, but only if they're not going to know what I'm doing. I would consider it disrespectful to have sex in someone else's house whether they were aware of it or not.
07/29/2010
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I feel the same way about having sex in somebody else's house. My ex tried to get me to mess around and have sex while we were staying at a friend's place and I would take no part in it because I thought it would be very rude.
Originally posted by
Liz
We have our own house, and I don't necessarily mind doing it when we have guests-- but only if they're asleep, or otherwise occupied (party going on or some such). I agree with Alura Une on the PDA issue, and personally, I think hearing PDA
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We have our own house, and I don't necessarily mind doing it when we have guests-- but only if they're asleep, or otherwise occupied (party going on or some such). I agree with Alura Une on the PDA issue, and personally, I think hearing PDA is just as uncomfortable as seeing it. Essentially, I'll have sex in my house if other people are there, but only if they're not going to know what I'm doing. I would consider it disrespectful to have sex in someone else's house whether they were aware of it or not.
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07/29/2010
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So true.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Not sure why guests have any impact on our decision to have sex or not - maybe what time we get started - but that's about it.
In our house there is always someone here, our kids. The walls are not that sound proof (never did...) so we have to turn up the radio. After 20 years no one (parents and friends) even questions it.
Now for us at a friends, you bet. As long as we can keep quiet they really have no proof. I guess if we broke the bed.
07/29/2010
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Yep, there's always the kids . Thankfully, they usually sleep like the dead.
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
So true.
In our house there is always someone here, our kids. The walls are not that sound proof (never did...) so we have to turn up the radio. After 20 years no one (parents and friends) even questions it.
Now for us at a friends, you ... more
In our house there is always someone here, our kids. The walls are not that sound proof (never did...) so we have to turn up the radio. After 20 years no one (parents and friends) even questions it.
Now for us at a friends, you ... more
So true.
In our house there is always someone here, our kids. The walls are not that sound proof (never did...) so we have to turn up the radio. After 20 years no one (parents and friends) even questions it.
Now for us at a friends, you bet. As long as we can keep quiet they really have no proof. I guess if we broke the bed. less
In our house there is always someone here, our kids. The walls are not that sound proof (never did...) so we have to turn up the radio. After 20 years no one (parents and friends) even questions it.
Now for us at a friends, you bet. As long as we can keep quiet they really have no proof. I guess if we broke the bed. less
If we're visiting the folks, then we just keep it quiet. Or quieter, that is.
07/29/2010
I'm just very, very quiet
07/29/2010
Depends on who is here etc. because our bed is in the living room so if we have people crashing here we need to do it with them in the room! Thankfully this doesn't happen very often since we really don't have room... on the rare time a friend sleeps over AND the kids are out at a babysitter then the will sleep in one of their rooms.
Now, if the kids had a friend sleeping over I might not because I would be worried they might come out to go to the bathroom or something and tell their parents but they haven't had a friend over (no room!) so we haven't had to deal with that yet.
And if we are at someone else's house...we usually just keep it quiet, though he tells me sometimes I am being louder than I think I am!
Now, if the kids had a friend sleeping over I might not because I would be worried they might come out to go to the bathroom or something and tell their parents but they haven't had a friend over (no room!) so we haven't had to deal with that yet.
And if we are at someone else's house...we usually just keep it quiet, though he tells me sometimes I am being louder than I think I am!
07/30/2010
It depends on what you mean by "other people." All but one of our children still live with us, so of COURSE we have sex when they are in the house.
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or neighbors and the like. HELL NO! I love sex, and although I don't find it "sick" (as your poll suggested) I think it is disrespectful to be going at it, while you have houseguests. With the exception of long term houseguests (more than a night or two) then we would keep it down.
As for roommates, I had them in college and I would NEVER have sex with them in the room. One of my room mates did that, and I found it not only disrespectful to me, but aggravating. IMO, it was showing off "OOO, I'm getting laid." When room mates are in an other room, maybe, if we kept it down. No screaming "Ride 'um Cowboy!" Spanking or other loud activities.
Sex in someone else's house? It depends, if it was a vacation scene, where we were to be there for days on end, probably, but quietly. ONE night, I think we can wait until we get home. And My Man hates people, so we get very few overnight at friends' homes situations. We did years ago, and no, we never had sex in someone else's bed or home.
When one of my kids is having a sleepover? NO WAY! I'd like my children to keep their friends and I don't need reports of MY sexual activity going home with my kids' friends. It's only the discreet thing to do.
Adults can wait until dinner guests go home, and same room room mates are not IN the room, and kids sleeping over go home IMO. I think the respect I have for my friends, my husband and myself precludes having sex with other people, who will be leaving within a few hours anyway, in our home.
We ARE adults.
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or neighbors and the like. HELL NO! I love sex, and although I don't find it "sick" (as your poll suggested) I think it is disrespectful to be going at it, while you have houseguests. With the exception of long term houseguests (more than a night or two) then we would keep it down.
As for roommates, I had them in college and I would NEVER have sex with them in the room. One of my room mates did that, and I found it not only disrespectful to me, but aggravating. IMO, it was showing off "OOO, I'm getting laid." When room mates are in an other room, maybe, if we kept it down. No screaming "Ride 'um Cowboy!" Spanking or other loud activities.
Sex in someone else's house? It depends, if it was a vacation scene, where we were to be there for days on end, probably, but quietly. ONE night, I think we can wait until we get home. And My Man hates people, so we get very few overnight at friends' homes situations. We did years ago, and no, we never had sex in someone else's bed or home.
When one of my kids is having a sleepover? NO WAY! I'd like my children to keep their friends and I don't need reports of MY sexual activity going home with my kids' friends. It's only the discreet thing to do.
Adults can wait until dinner guests go home, and same room room mates are not IN the room, and kids sleeping over go home IMO. I think the respect I have for my friends, my husband and myself precludes having sex with other people, who will be leaving within a few hours anyway, in our home.
We ARE adults.
07/30/2010
We had four kids, so of course the only way we were getting sex when they were living at home was with someone else in the house. But if anyone else is here we might think twice about it.
07/30/2010
Well I live with my parents and I don't care
07/30/2010
We're just quiet.
07/30/2010
I would be up for it if the situation was right, but my wife would be too scared.
07/30/2010
I live with a roommate now and had 3 roommates when I was in college. Lucky for me they are all very open and accepting of sexual activities. We try to give each other time and space so no one feels awkward but nothings perfect. Im very close with all of my roommates (past and present) so the situation seems to work well for all of us
07/30/2010
We would have to make sure that we were really quiet, most likely, and that would be hard considering the things we like to do before hand. We've gone for quickies now and then though when we knew a guest was sleeping.
07/30/2010
We do once in awhile when people are home, being that I live with my grandma, my aunt, and her boyfriend. We only have sex at night since people are in and out all day and we're not very quite and/or don't stay in one place, which sucks big time.
07/30/2010
We had a female roommate/live in babysitter we had sex whenever I'm not going to stop what I like to do just because we had a roommate.
03/13/2011
My roommates probably hear me everyday. I live in an apt with 4 other people so most likely everyone can hear and there's no way I'm going to wait for all 4 of them to be gone at once.
03/13/2011
There are so many variables. Different houses have different levels of what's appropriate. I also have a partner who's really conscious of sound, but when we're horny we want to fuck. We've gotten really good a doing it quietly while other people are around. Also it's fun to have sex on the sly in public but that's another topic. Still though, being able to get off quietly or while making it seem like you're doing something different is really fun for us.
Y'know, and then there are situations where all the roomies have their babes in their beds and it doesn't matter if people are making noise because everybody is. Then there's sex in the shower... so many options, but I am thankful to have a space right now where I can freely make noise if I want to.
Y'know, and then there are situations where all the roomies have their babes in their beds and it doesn't matter if people are making noise because everybody is. Then there's sex in the shower... so many options, but I am thankful to have a space right now where I can freely make noise if I want to.
08/31/2011
We don't have to be really horny. It is more a matter of how long people are here, where in the house they are sleeping and how late they stay up.
08/31/2011
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No one feels awkward but nothing's perfect.
Originally posted by
Jenna.J.Ross
I live with a roommate now and had 3 roommates when I was in college. Lucky for me they are all very open and accepting of sexual activities. We try to give each other time and space so no one feels awkward but nothings perfect. Im very close with
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I live with a roommate now and had 3 roommates when I was in college. Lucky for me they are all very open and accepting of sexual activities. We try to give each other time and space so no one feels awkward but nothings perfect. Im very close with all of my roommates (past and present) so the situation seems to work well for all of us
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That's an excellent way of putting it. I feel the same way when I'm living with roommates/friends.
08/31/2011
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Wow I can't even fathom hardly sharing a room with another person college dorm style. How do people not go crazy in that situation? In COLLEGE???
Originally posted by
P'Gell
It depends on what you mean by "other people." All but one of our children still live with us, so of COURSE we have sex when they are in the house.
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or ... more
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or ... more
It depends on what you mean by "other people." All but one of our children still live with us, so of COURSE we have sex when they are in the house.
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or neighbors and the like. HELL NO! I love sex, and although I don't find it "sick" (as your poll suggested) I think it is disrespectful to be going at it, while you have houseguests. With the exception of long term houseguests (more than a night or two) then we would keep it down.
As for roommates, I had them in college and I would NEVER have sex with them in the room. One of my room mates did that, and I found it not only disrespectful to me, but aggravating. IMO, it was showing off "OOO, I'm getting laid." When room mates are in an other room, maybe, if we kept it down. No screaming "Ride 'um Cowboy!" Spanking or other loud activities.
Sex in someone else's house? It depends, if it was a vacation scene, where we were to be there for days on end, probably, but quietly. ONE night, I think we can wait until we get home. And My Man hates people, so we get very few overnight at friends' homes situations. We did years ago, and no, we never had sex in someone else's bed or home.
When one of my kids is having a sleepover? NO WAY! I'd like my children to keep their friends and I don't need reports of MY sexual activity going home with my kids' friends. It's only the discreet thing to do.
Adults can wait until dinner guests go home, and same room room mates are not IN the room, and kids sleeping over go home IMO. I think the respect I have for my friends, my husband and myself precludes having sex with other people, who will be leaving within a few hours anyway, in our home.
We ARE adults. less
As for "other people" you mean GUESTS, house guests, or dinner guests or neighbors and the like. HELL NO! I love sex, and although I don't find it "sick" (as your poll suggested) I think it is disrespectful to be going at it, while you have houseguests. With the exception of long term houseguests (more than a night or two) then we would keep it down.
As for roommates, I had them in college and I would NEVER have sex with them in the room. One of my room mates did that, and I found it not only disrespectful to me, but aggravating. IMO, it was showing off "OOO, I'm getting laid." When room mates are in an other room, maybe, if we kept it down. No screaming "Ride 'um Cowboy!" Spanking or other loud activities.
Sex in someone else's house? It depends, if it was a vacation scene, where we were to be there for days on end, probably, but quietly. ONE night, I think we can wait until we get home. And My Man hates people, so we get very few overnight at friends' homes situations. We did years ago, and no, we never had sex in someone else's bed or home.
When one of my kids is having a sleepover? NO WAY! I'd like my children to keep their friends and I don't need reports of MY sexual activity going home with my kids' friends. It's only the discreet thing to do.
Adults can wait until dinner guests go home, and same room room mates are not IN the room, and kids sleeping over go home IMO. I think the respect I have for my friends, my husband and myself precludes having sex with other people, who will be leaving within a few hours anyway, in our home.
We ARE adults. less
08/31/2011
It all depends on who is in the house and where, lol. But I've done it while others were in the house. No biggie, trying to be quiet and make the other moan or cry out is part of the fun.
08/31/2011
In my own home, once I can really say I have one. (the economy hasn't been friendly to me, so we're still working out the whole down-payment thing.) I think my guests will pretty much expect it and plan accordingly. We're an open bunch, and it's universally known that I'm an exhibitionist.
09/01/2011
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