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Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
My boyfriend now loves my tattoos on me. He has some himself as well.But before him I was with someone who hated them and flat out said NO MORE!

Does your partner having tattoos turn you on or off? Would you tell them they can't get any, or any more of them?
02/15/2011
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Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I have tattoos and when i met my husband he had virgin skin. He thought my tats were sexy. He has since gotten a tat and I find it very sexy. I love guys with tats. My best friend has wanted a tat since she was little and her husband hates them and will not let her get any. Personally, I think its her body she should be allowed to do what she wants with it as long as she is not harming herself (mentally, physically, or spiritually). But that's just my opinion.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I think tattoos are very sexy. My husband has one that I absolutely love on his arm of a tiger. It was a cover up he had done a couple years ago. It's awesome. I have three myself and plan to get a few more. I would never tell him he can't get any more and he wouldn't do that to me either.
02/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I love tattoos. They're totally sexy to me, especially if they're well done. That shows me that the person with said tattoos took serious consideration into what they wanted to have on them permanently and that they appreciate the art. Plus, everyone has the right to decorate their body as they see fit. I have several tattoos and plenty of piercings. I'm used to hearing "Why would you do that?" and "Your body is a temple." and such. Personally, I've never seen a temple without decorations.
02/15/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I have two tattoos and my boyfriend has a half-sleeve. I think just because of where it is, his ARM, it turns me on to see it. I love me some arms I think my tattoos make me feel sexier, though he hasn't said much about them other than expressing interest and saying they were cool.

I've had friends all over the board when it comes to tattoos. But I have to say, my feelings changed about those that literally turned their noses up at me and said not to get any more or I'd be like "one of those people." ...judgmental, much?
02/15/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Neither of us has any and we both like it that way. But, if he wanted one I wouldn't tell him no. It's his body and he is entitled to do what he wants with it. Besides, that's just on the outside. I think his insides are more important.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
I love tattoos and piercings so no I would never say that but I would also tell them where to go if it were said to me!
02/15/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
i think theyre sexy on men and women.
02/15/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I love Tattoo's they are sexy on both men and women. I would never tell a guy I was with that they couldn't get tattoo's.
02/15/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
Yes I believe he was very judgmental. Telling me he didn't like something about me that I put years of thought into hurt. It wasn't some drunk night of fun. My tattoos mean alot to me and the next ones I want do as well.
I also have heard the "your body is a temple" deal. Yes it is, but it's my temple and I will decorate it as I see fit for me.
Even my sister when she seen them was horrified. I mean geez it's not like I got "suck it" tattooed on my forehead. I got paw prints on me. That's it. I'm an avid rescuer, and activist for animals. My tattoos mean alot to me.
I agree that what's on the inside matters more than the outside any day of the week. Why cant people just understand it's not all about looks?
02/16/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Neither of us has any tattoos, and we don't really care about them.
02/16/2011
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
My partner and I both have tattoos. I just had a two hour sit last night trying to finish my half sleeve. I now have ten tattoos and my boyfriend loves them. My boyfriend has three small ones, we just made a appointment for him to get a side piece. I cant wait for him to have it done! Tattoos turn me on, if there not crazy, skulls or a bloody women on someones body does NOT turn me on. I also like watching someone get tattooed.

Lets just say after the tattoo last night had a amazing night in the bedroom too.
For some who don't understand why people get tattoos, I have many ideas but I dont just run out and get one for no reason. I go in about once to three times a year to have a release (not sexually) it's like being so stressed or mad you want to punch something to feel better. Well this is my stress release but a benefit that it's a turn on.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
I find it hot for a guy to have some tattoos, not fully covered, but I do like them. My husband has a few and I have several small ones like the tops of my feet, wrists, behind my ears and I'm actually get the inside of my bottom lip done this saturday
My husband likes them, since I'm so girly and 'princessy', like he says, the tattoos show a wild side to me which he finds hot!
02/17/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
It took me a long time to decide to get a tattoo, now I have two. They were both thought out and have significance to me. I have a memorial tattoo for my mom on my back, who passed away almost exactly a year ago from brain cancer. It says: "I Wear Grey For My Mom" in red (the word "grey" is in grey). I have a gray cancer ribbon, her full maiden name, and her year of birth and year of death. It also has the Cuban national flower on it, as she was born there.

My other tattoo (pics are on my wall) is of a pinup boxing girl. It has the words "Fighter" "Survivor" above her gloves. It represents me and my fight through abuse and rape and highlights that I survived it. She's very dear to me and it reminds me that there's nothing I can't beat.

I have more tattoos planned. One that represents my faith. And two around my wrists that will represent each of my daughters. If my Mr didn't want me to get any more tattoos, we would have a problem. Not an insurmountable one, but for me to submit to that request he'd better have a damn good reason. However, I don't have to worry about that. He loves my tattoos and has no problem with me getting more. I wish he would get more. He just devirginized his skin. I love it and want him to get more, but doubt he will because he hates aftercare.
02/17/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
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Originally posted by Taylor Von
My partner and I both have tattoos. I just had a two hour sit last night trying to finish my half sleeve. I now have ten tattoos and my boyfriend loves them. My boyfriend has three small ones, we just made a appointment for him to get a side piece. I ... more
It is very much a release for me as well. I only have six small ones on my wrists right now but I am definitely getting more one day.
02/17/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
It took me a long time to decide to get a tattoo, now I have two. They were both thought out and have significance to me. I have a memorial tattoo for my mom on my back, who passed away almost exactly a year ago from brain cancer. It says: ... more
My condolences on your mom and my congratulations on you making it through your rape and abuse in tact. Many are not so fortunate. I was abused growing by my mother. Physically, emotionally, and mentally. It's not easy to get through those situations.

Just like you I put A LOT of thought into my tats. They mean something very dear to me. They're personal and my own.

Thank you for sharing.
02/17/2011
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
It took me a long time to decide to get a tattoo, now I have two. They were both thought out and have significance to me. I have a memorial tattoo for my mom on my back, who passed away almost exactly a year ago from brain cancer. It says: ... more
I am really sorry to hear about your mother!

My bad child hood is because of my mother she wants to get matching tattoo and I refuse to. All mine mean something and thought threw all of them since there forever. Most of mine are 'girlie' I have a power puff girl, Bubbles, on my arm because she is a strong fighter. A Hello Kitty with a 22 shot gun on my ribs. The first gun I ever shot and fell in love with the power, Hello Kitty because I'm obsessed with her LOL. I have ten now and they all have meaning to me. Meaning and what represents you as a person is makes them sexy.
02/17/2011
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by TeaganChase
My boyfriend now loves my tattoos on me. He has some himself as well.But before him I was with someone who hated them and flat out said NO MORE!

Does your partner having tattoos turn you on or off? Would you tell them they can't get any, ... more
It would not bother me either way sexually. I have however seen some very ugly tacky tats as I'm sure we all have! I probably wouldn't even have anything in common with someone with a Taz tat to even worry dating them or having it bother me.
02/19/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
neither my wife or I have any tattoos. She was thinking about getting one, but I think she got scared about it being painful.
02/19/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by married with children
neither my wife or I have any tattoos. She was thinking about getting one, but I think she got scared about it being painful.
It is, the closest I've come to describing it is it feels like being drawn on with a sharp hot knife or scalpel. It's painful, but it's not the worst pain I've endured and I actually don't mind the tattooing process. The pain is temporary, the tattoo is forever. It's worth it to me.
02/20/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
My boyfriend and I both like tattoos but neither have any yet.
02/20/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
Tattoos are a personal choice. I think guys with them are hot. I don't have any cause I would change my mind too much on what I want and I am not a needle fan. However I would never tell someone they couldn't get anymore that is just rude.
02/20/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
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Originally posted by married with children
neither my wife or I have any tattoos. She was thinking about getting one, but I think she got scared about it being painful.
It depends on where you get them really. Mine are on my wrists and a bit on the bone. It hurts really bad anywhere there isn't some cushion or muscle there.
I'm also actually terrified of needles but mine meant more to me than some needle phobia.
02/20/2011
Contributor: ❦Angel Of Music❦ ❦Angel Of Music❦
I have 4 tattoos and my boyfriend has none. He loves the ones I have and they turn him on. My last two exs have had tattoos and they turned me one, especially my ex A (we will call him). He had 10 tattoos (I think) when we dated. Oh man...so HOTT!! If my boyfriend wanted tattoos, I would say go for it, but that would have to be his choice. I would never tell him no and/or push him to get one. He doesn't care if I get more.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I had planned on getting a couple, but have since reneged on that. My significant other isn't a fan (he finds them pretty much distasteful), and I'm a wuss for pain and needles. It's just not a priority whatsoever anymore. I'd rather spend the money on more sex toys, haha.
02/20/2011
Contributor: TeaganChase TeaganChase
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Originally posted by Annemarie
I had planned on getting a couple, but have since reneged on that. My significant other isn't a fan (he finds them pretty much distasteful), and I'm a wuss for pain and needles. It's just not a priority whatsoever anymore. I'd rather ... more
Lol. The pain is something you soon forget after wards. But if they aren't really on your mind then I agree. Don't get one.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have two tats, one on my lower back and another on my right shoulder. My boyfriend doesn't have any. I enjoy showing them when wearing certain clothes but I am also able to keep them under cover for work.
02/20/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
My wife got three when she was in college, and I do enjoy seeing them. I don't have any myself, but my wife and I have talked about getting more for both of us. Just don't know if we are going to go through with it.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Morganna Morganna
I have one but my boyfriend doesn't have any. I don't really think it's a turn on/turn off issue for either of us.
02/21/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
My wife had 1 when we met. We each have gotten 1 more since we've been together (her second tat, my first). We have plans for more.
02/21/2011