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Contributor: catsin catsin
Who here knows about/follows the hanky code?
My friend showed this to me and I didn't realize it was so detailed or even actually a thing.

Whats the word?

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04/15/2012
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Contributor: ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
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Originally posted by catsin
Who here knows about/follows the hanky code?
My friend showed this to me and I didn't realize it was so detailed or even actually a thing.

Whats the word?

link
I know about the hanky code and the many variations of the hanky code. I don't personally follow it, though if I wasn't stuck in a vanilla relationship, I would definitely consider doing it and would most likely end up with a couple different hankies in each of my pockets
04/15/2012
Contributor: pootpootpoot pootpootpoot
Weird, I've never heard of this. It reminds me of those "sex bracelets" you'd hear about in high school. I'd end up with multiple hankies if I took part in this! I'm not sure I get where you are supposed to wear them, though. Is this for when you go to a meet-up, or for everyday use, or what?
04/15/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I knew it was a thing, and we find it vastly entertaining, but I don't personally follow it.
04/16/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
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Originally posted by pootpootpoot
Weird, I've never heard of this. It reminds me of those "sex bracelets" you'd hear about in high school. I'd end up with multiple hankies if I took part in this! I'm not sure I get where you are supposed to wear them, ... more
As I understand it, it's for everyday use if you're "on the prowl" so to speak.

It concerns me a bit because I love hankys and I never intended them to mean anything!! Now this has gone and altered my ability to comfortably wear just anything
04/16/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Where I live kind of necessitates knowing most of the colors because I am curious. I like to flag really weird colors.
04/16/2012
Contributor: ValerieRayne ValerieRayne
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Originally posted by catsin
As I understand it, it's for everyday use if you're "on the prowl" so to speak.

It concerns me a bit because I love hankys and I never intended them to mean anything!! Now this has gone and altered my ability to comfortably wear just anything
I've heard that no one really uses the hanky code anymore, because it is such an unreliable indicator.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I've always associated this with 1980's San Francisco, I didn't know it was still a thing!
04/18/2012