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Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
How many have done it or want to do it?

Those who have done, can you tell me about your experience? Did you like it, did you have jealousy problems afterwards or did bring you closer? Anything you want to share.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Never done it.
52
Once
17
A few
23
Many times
13
Never but want to
31
Never but might want to, kinda not sure.
36
Won't ever
14
Total votes: 186 (162 voters)
Poll is closed
03/13/2011
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Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
I haven't had a threesome before but you gotta live a little. I would try it.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I had a sorta one a year ago...wasn't impressed. But i wasn't turned off enough to not give it a try again.
03/13/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I feel like I would only be comfortable doing it if I was with all unattached people. I don't think I could bring someone in to do it with my boyfriend and I. Someone would end up getting jealous.
03/14/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Neither of us are interested
03/14/2011
Contributor: honeybee7484 honeybee7484
Did it once, I was single the other 2 were a couple. Probably not something I would ever do with my own significant other-I don't share well
03/14/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
I know more poly people than monogamous ones. Is that regional or just the circles I run in? I prefer sex with 3 or more people to one on one.It seems really odd to me to think of "extra" people as a kink.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I had a threesome once when I was younger, it was ok. There were no jealousy problems, but in my head I was thinking that one of them felt a lot better than the other
03/14/2011
Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
Thanks for the answers! I'm interested in having one with my boyfriend and another girl but my only issue is feeling inadequate depending on who the girl ends up being. I don't want it to be someone ugly and have him be like.. "wow, really..." but i don't want some hot girl either because I'll feel extremely uncomfortable the entire time. And I don't care about the kissing or eating out and blowjobs between them, it's actually seeing him fuck another girl that just makes me feel so off. It's good to see some feedback from others though
03/14/2011
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
Never had one & probably never will...just not for us.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
It all depends on who the other two are. There can be a strange dynamic if two are partnered and the role of the third (what is that person into, how well do you know him/her, how comfortable are you with the other two people, etc). I would do threesomes again but would be very picky about who with.
03/14/2011
Contributor: jk68 jk68
i wanna try it
03/14/2011
Contributor: MaxN MaxN
Twice - once was great, and once was terrible.

Which was informative. The first was totally agreed upon in advance - so all parties were totally lined up for it. The second was more spur-of-the-moment, and was not so great. That's putting it mildly.
03/15/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
You should search for threads in the "Search" feature above. There are at least 2 other threads on this subject. Probably more.
03/15/2011
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
have never, will never. I'm in a committed relationship. We just don't roll like that.
03/15/2011
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
My partner and I aren't interested unless we could somehow find a way to make multiples of ourselves. Threesomes are pretty much a fantasy only.
03/15/2011
Contributor: ATL Freak ATL Freak
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelicaU
How many have done it or want to do it?

Those who have done, can you tell me about your experience? Did you like it, did you have jealousy problems afterwards or did bring you closer? Anything you want to share.
Just depends...
03/15/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I haven't done one... yet.
03/16/2011
Contributor: ValuptuousVirgo ValuptuousVirgo
Have tried and enjoyed immensely with my fiancée. Our biggest issue with threesome is the person we are bringing in is way more concern with us being okay with each other than enjoying the company. But once things start to get physical, all clouds of doubt are stripped away-literally! Afterwards doubt and guilt come back for that person, so it makes them single serving friends. I always look forwards to bringing someone else to our bedroom though and so does he! It really puts the test to his stamina!
03/17/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelicaU
Thanks for the answers! I'm interested in having one with my boyfriend and another girl but my only issue is feeling inadequate depending on who the girl ends up being. I don't want it to be someone ugly and have him be like.. "wow, ... more
I feel the same .... about the girl being good looking but not too hot!

I'd like to try a 3some one day
04/06/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Only once
04/07/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We haven't had a threesome yet, but we will soon. Funny, we've had foursomes and moresomes, but never a threesome, lol.
04/19/2011
Contributor: ayepapi! ayepapi!
i had a threesome once with two guys (both who were cousins). it was exciting at first, but i didn't enjoy it later because my boyfriend at the time treated me horribly during it.

even though that wasn't a good experience for me, i would do it again. possibly with another female this time. my boyfriend would LOVE to have a threesome, but just can't find someone to be that third person.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelicaU
How many have done it or want to do it?

Those who have done, can you tell me about your experience? Did you like it, did you have jealousy problems afterwards or did bring you closer? Anything you want to share.
Check out the polyamory forum as this question is answered in detail on that forum. Beats typing it all out again and you get many many different viewpoints.

Have done it, will do it again. I have had jealousy issues but we dealt with them and continue to deal with them.
04/19/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
I've had a couple FMF's with my SO. We are in an open relationship and have attended a couple parties where I started with one girl and she would join us, usually at the beckoning of the girl. We have not found a third yet who really fits us, but we will continue to search. Neither of us have tired a MFM and hope to do that some day too.
04/20/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
i think the sex would be enjoyable but I wouldn't want it to be random or casual and I wouldn't do it while in a relationship, so I probably won't do it
04/20/2011
Contributor: Judas Iscars Judas Iscars
I'd love to do.
05/23/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I aren't interested in threesomes.
05/23/2011
Contributor: big b big b
not for me
05/24/2011
Contributor: kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
We didn't have any issues after, and would so it again.
05/24/2011