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Contributor: Shay Shay
Over at The S Spot, we're having a little discussion about our fave post-coital activities, (stop on by and check it out: link) but I thought it would be interesting to run a poll here too!

So tell me, what do you usually like to do after having sex?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Grab something to eat - I'm starving after all that work!
Epiphora , Rose Unlocked , Owl Identified , Fun Lover , CantankerousUnagi , ellejay , chidoll , gehuwd , Jobo , HannahPanda
10  (4%)
Get a drink of water - I'm SO thirsty from screaming!
LicentiouslyYours , removedacnt , LilyLust , Angel deSanguine , ♥ Amanda ♥ , Kim! , P'Gell , Shellz31 , That Guy , mrs.mckrakn , idunshire , VanillaFreeSex , slynch , Sex'и'Violence , null , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , sugar&spikes
17  (7%)
Clean up - I'm not interested in laying around in the wet spot.
Adriana Ravenlust , Delete My Account , Jimbo Jones , Sammi , User Unknown , Stuck In Dreamland , Saucy Angel , adirondacker , Liz , Kaijah , Sundae , anelinvader , Passionate Pastor , Chilipepper , Phoenix Fire , Kinky Skier , sweet sally , dibberdabber , Townsend1025 , Nefarius , AU , staceejaxxx , C4ss , OhMy! , Kindred , LavenderSkies , Rhiannon Mills , mama2007 , SexyStuff , Red Vinyl Kitty , tigerkate , It's a Hooker! , onehotmama , Retro , lovemuscle n cookie , Jon S , Shayla , needapacker , Robespierrethecat , Gone (LD29) , PropertyOfPotter
41  (16%)
Get up and pee!
Carrie Ann , Miss KissThis , Tuesday , Miss Cinnamon , Mamastoys , VelvetBound , NaughtyButterfly , Naughty Student , jedent , ZenaidaMacroura , Goodkittygnbad , Rocky LaFemme , anonymouscity , imp , deceased , Katie Miller , Sanjay , Dark Muse , Two2Tango , widget87 , MuffysPinguLove , Saraid , Jen&Clint , ArmyWife Kira , Liz2 , Splendwhore , Domineight , Airen Wolf , ToyTimeTim , Hannah Savage , Alicia , trios , fatesrelease , Waterfall , 00 , Lady Venus , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , brandyst , Airekah , Redboxbaby , married with children , Sohotdinosaur , leatherlover , Beaners , northstar , I Wear The Pants , *HisMrs* , Xomandypantsxo , KrissyRoro , CSEA , Mistress M. , Linga , AlexaFish , Miss T , Taylor Von , Bunnycups , Devz , kelaaa33wish , ss143 , happily.his , link82 , Miss Anonymous , bayosgirl , hyacinthgirl , teenagexrecoil , samjo , ghalik , sunkissedJess , LoveBug721 , sexxxkitten , Kitka , ViVix , TransGuy14 , Gallowraven , Falsepast , brevado , wicked weasel , quinceykay
78  (30%)
Cuddle - whether I snooze or not I want to stay close for a little while longer.
Shay , Victoria , ScottA , Luscious Lily , Sir , LikeSunshineDust , mlle , Raven , ~*SurrealisticFantasy*~ , Boxers Over Briefs , Valyn , spicywife , HornyMarrieds , Danzig ate your mother , Alan & Michele , sarahbear , El-Jaro , Darling Dove , EffinSara , her.royal.redness , emme37 , KBToys24 , SexyTigerX , Jul!a , VieuxCarre , Mari Fanger , Joie de Cherresse , vegan.guy , Crystal1 , Taylor , RonLee , Darling Jen , darthkitt3n , Persephone Nightmare , Michelle Menace , markeagleone , sbon , fun , Xavier7 , The Curious Couple , elohssa , SexFeind22 , Stagger13 , Sweet-Justice , kk232362 , zeebot , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , VenusianThunder , streetshark182 , Yoda , LittleBoPeep , NaturalWoman , mariedoll , Bonesdance , Kilgorescowboy , MaryExy , honeybee7484 , Britt&Daniel , newfoundlust , ichigostrawberry , potstickers , ThoughtsAblaze , KinkBiLove , JessCee , Sunshineamine , ParisLove , angel142stx , Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama , caligaliber , SexyTabby , Jo lala , Peggi , AndroAngel , garylangworthy420 , LovesAPoet , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Kitten has left the site , Melani , KateJ , padmeamidala , ImaGodiva , nikki0668 , Babylove09 , KinkyNicki92 , invisiblehat , Supervixen , lovebites , Beautiful-Disaster , Zandrock
90  (35%)
Lay/Sit around and talk - about our favourite parts of the sex, or just about what our plans are for the weekend.
Rhiannon Bowen-Mackey , Gunsmoke , joja , indiglo , ninaspinkturtle , Moein , Lily Night , Kkay , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , socceras , VelvetDragon , collegecouple
12  (5%)
Get back to work - that was fun, but I've got stuff to do!
Upyourreviews
1  (0%)
Roll over and go to sleep - I'm not so interested in cuddling, I just need my zzz's
Dove , Saturday , GNGenie , zracer , Purpleladybug , CoffeeCup , Kayla , EJ , Eva Schwaltz , Apirka , BlooJay
11  (4%)
Total votes: 260
Poll is closed
06/18/2009
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Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Or...how about "most or all of the above"? I usually cuddle (and sometimes talk during)then get a drink, then clean up then pee then either watch a movie with the hubs or we get something to eat, then we either get back to what we were doing or we fall asleep - depending on the time of day.
06/18/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'm with Victoria, too - but the first thing is usually cuddling.
06/18/2009
Contributor: Epiphora Epiphora
Eat chips.
06/18/2009
Contributor: Luscious Lily Luscious Lily
Ditto to Victoria and ScottA, I like to go with all of the above, minus eating and immediately rolling over and going to sleep. I guess I'll go with cuddling, though, since it usually comes first (if I've done my job right, it's all either of us have the strength for in those first few minutes when we get done...)
06/18/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
I'm with Victoria, too - but the first thing is usually cuddling.
Hooray for cuddlers!
06/18/2009
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I clean up/pee then head back for cuddles.
06/18/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
Really, for me it depends. Sometimes, I really need to take a piss afterwards, so I'll just get up after finishing and go. But most times, I'll snuggle her for a little bit, and let her fall asleep. Then I'll watch her, and fall asleep myself.
06/18/2009
Contributor: Sir Sir
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
Really, for me it depends. Sometimes, I really need to take a piss afterwards, so I'll just get up after finishing and go. But most times, I'll snuggle her for a little bit, and let her fall asleep. Then I'll watch her, and fall asleep myself.
Other times, we'll just get back to whatever we were doing before. Like Victoria said, it depends on the time of day.
06/18/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
We hi-five each other, then cuddle for five minutes. I get up to go pee/clean up/hose down. Then I head back and we either cuddle some more or he fixes us a post-coital snack.
06/18/2009
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Yeah, it's a varying order of water, peeing, cuddling, clean-up and sometimes the snacking if not sleeping.
06/18/2009
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
We hi-five each other, then cuddle for five minutes. I get up to go pee/clean up/hose down. Then I head back and we either cuddle some more or he fixes us a post-coital snack.
Hi-five. LMAO!!!!!

What happpened to a good ole cigarette afterwards? Or is that politically incorrect now? It's the first thing I do after the water. But like many of you said it all depends. Sometimes were hungry. Sometimes we cuddle then go at it again.
06/19/2009
Contributor: Stuck In Dreamland Stuck In Dreamland
for me it depends on what state of mind my brain is in... lol.
06/19/2009
Contributor: Stuck In Dreamland Stuck In Dreamland
Quote:
Originally posted by Stuck In Dreamland
for me it depends on what state of mind my brain is in... lol.
correction... majority of the time i can't stand sitting around in a wet spot so i try to clean up... but there is the rare occasion that i'm just in whatever state of mind my brain is in.
06/19/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Quote:
Originally posted by Stuck In Dreamland
correction... majority of the time i can't stand sitting around in a wet spot so i try to clean up... but there is the rare occasion that i'm just in whatever state of mind my brain is in.
I have a friend who got a Silky Sheets type product at a sex toy party. She says it cleans up the wet spots really well. It's basically a talc spray that dries up the wet spot and leaves behind a nice scent. Personally, we just navigate around the wet spot and throw the sheets in the wash the next opportunity we get
06/19/2009
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Hi-five. LMAO!!!!!

What happpened to a good ole cigarette afterwards? Or is that politically incorrect now? It's the first thing I do after the water. But like many of you said it all depends. Sometimes were hungry. Sometimes we ... more
We used to only do it when we have really great sex... But we have really great sex a lot more often now, so we hi-five each other after nearly every session now.

He used to smoke right after... not in bed, but in his computer chair next to the bed. He'd just sit, naked, and puff away. But I have a sensitive nose/lungs/cough when people are smoking around me, so he's changed his post coital habits a bit to accommodate my needs. So sweet
06/19/2009
Contributor: Shay Shay
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
We used to only do it when we have really great sex... But we have really great sex a lot more often now, so we hi-five each other after nearly every session now.

He used to smoke right after... not in bed, but in his computer chair next to ... more
LOL! I LOVE the high-five, I think I'm going to have to try that tonight!!! hahaha
06/19/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
While I'd like to get something like a Liberator, we just use towels for now (sometimes things get pretty wet, 'cause she's a squirter if I really do my job right). It's great because we can push the wet off to the side for some cuddle time, so we don't need to choose between immediate clean-up or cuddling in a wet spot.
06/19/2009
Contributor: NaughtyButterfly NaughtyButterfly
I always have an intense urge to pee, but then it's back to bed for cuddles.
06/20/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
It really depends where we are. If we're actually in bed, then get up to pee before cuddling. If we're downstairs, it's a cleanup.
06/20/2009
Contributor: adirondacker adirondacker
I would be fine just taking a power nap after usually but my gf always cleans up and gets dressed. She says she is worried that one of my roommates (my parents or sister) may knock on the door.
07/02/2009
Contributor: spicywife spicywife
I chose cuddle, though I usually have to pee first... and eventually get something to eat. But we also like to cuddle before we "end" the intimate encounter
07/05/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
Or...how about "most or all of the above"? I usually cuddle (and sometimes talk during)then get a drink, then clean up then pee then either watch a movie with the hubs or we get something to eat, then we either get back to what we were ... more
I definitely do most of those, but usually the very first thing I do is eat :X Food is a close second to sex in my rendition Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
08/02/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
Or...how about "most or all of the above"? I usually cuddle (and sometimes talk during)then get a drink, then clean up then pee then either watch a movie with the hubs or we get something to eat, then we either get back to what we were ... more
I definitely do most of those, but usually the very first thing I do is eat :X Food is a close second to sex in my rendition of Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
08/02/2009
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
In general, we will clean up, cuddle, and go pee. Peeing is #1 priority for me though, since I'm prone to UTIs and kidney infections. After I pee I'll usually lay down and curl up with him for a bit before we get some food or move on with our daily business.
08/28/2009
Contributor: Saraid Saraid
Pee! I get UTIs like mad if I don't pee the second we're done.
11/15/2009
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Shay
Over at The S Spot, we're having a little discussion about our fave post-coital activities, (stop on by and check it out: link) but I thought it would be interesting to run a poll here too!

So tell me, what do you usually like to do after ... more
I find this is the best time to get my lover to confide what's working for her and what's not. We mix in a quick drink from the water bottle, some panting, stroking, cuddling and pillow talk.

For us it's crucial for sealing the bonding benefits of the experience.
11/15/2009
Contributor: EffinSara EffinSara
Sometimes I'm a cuddler, sometimes I just feel so energized by the awesome sex that I have to get up and do something. T (my partner) is really big on post-coital snuggles, so when I just have to get up and doing something else he can get a bit distressed.
11/17/2009
Contributor: ArmyWife Kira ArmyWife Kira
Quote:
Originally posted by Saraid
Pee! I get UTIs like mad if I don't pee the second we're done.
Yep, same here! As soon as we're done I run to the toilet then down lots of water out of paranoia!
11/17/2009
Contributor: Heather Heather
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Hi-five. LMAO!!!!!

What happpened to a good ole cigarette afterwards? Or is that politically incorrect now? It's the first thing I do after the water. But like many of you said it all depends. Sometimes were hungry. Sometimes we ... more
YEAH another smoker, I'm not alone. Same here on may-be a snack or just cuddle up. As far as another round, I need to work on that. Yes, that's right my husband is ready again in about 20min and I'm not.....
11/17/2009