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What is the longest you have gone without?

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Contributor: ~Miss Jess~ ~Miss Jess~
I was talking to a friend of mine and she said she hasn't had sex (with a partner )in almost 2 years.
And it got me thinking, is this something that happens a lot?(she is divorced with kids). So what is the longest you have gone without sex with a partner since you became sexually active?.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Less then a week
3  (2%)
1-2 week
9  (6%)
1 month
19  (12%)
2-4 months
30  (19%)
4-6 months
9  (6%)
6-8 months
16  (10%)
8-9 months
6  (4%)
9-11 months
8  (5%)
1 year
9  (6%)
1 and 1/2 years
11  (7%)
2 years
2  (1%)
2+ years
37  (23%)
Total votes: 159
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
Gah! 3 years. Bboo!! And I'll be damned if it happens again LOL
08/02/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Eleven here - nine years of marriage and the two years leading up to it.
08/02/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I'm currently at over 1 1/2 years now and still counting. I'm sure I'll reach the over-2-year cap.
08/02/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Eleven here - nine years of marriage and the two years leading up to it.
Hi darling. Let's hook up tonight.
08/02/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
Hi darling. Let's hook up tonight.
Your place or mine? LOL
08/02/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Your place or mine? LOL
Wow, wasn't it the perfect pick up line?
08/02/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Since I first had sex? Almost 2 months. I was 16 though lol. It was between my 1st boyfriend and only sex partner and my 2nd.

But as an adult? Almost 3 weeks only because my bf was long distance.

I can't imagine going 2 months now! lol
08/02/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Since I first had sex? Almost 2 months. I was 16 though lol. It was between my 1st boyfriend and only sex partner and my 2nd.

But as an adult? Almost 3 weeks only because my bf was long distance.

I can't imagine going 2 months now! lol
The first two months are the worst.
08/02/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
The first two months are the worst.
I hope I never have to figure that out on my own.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I went for a year - voluntarily. After leaving my first wife I took a year off to 'cleanse'. It was a great choice - I came away from the experience fresh and ready to new experiences. Never want to do it again - but it was right at the time.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
I was with a guy and didn't have sex with him for over a year, this was the first time i was on chemo. I was afraid to have sex while i was on chemo and i had no sex drive what so ever. I was also not sexually attracted to him anymore. he was great and stuck with me through all that. And i do honestly believe that he never cheated on me. Although, now i say he totally should have lol.
08/03/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I was at college, and was away from My Man, and although we had an Open Relationship, I didn't find a man I liked enough and thought would treat me well enough until later (Jesuit University, a LOT of immature Frat boys, who hadn't seen a girl since 8th grade and were VERY sexist and really didn't seem to know what women needed very well)

I went a month. I went home and saw My Man and it was fantastic. I eventually found a fuck buddy at college, but my drive was higher than his, and he left and went back home to the East Coast before I graduated. But, I have never gone that long without it. Before or since. I was a wreck.

Was supposed to go SIX WEEKS after my first two kids were born. Yeah. Right. We lasted about 10 days. The doctors were more forgiving in later years, My Man reminded me I persuaded him he needed a Blow Job, from the air mattress on the floor, (I was in too much pain to get into the waterbed) when our youngest baby was only 5 days old.

I don't do well without sex.
08/03/2010
Contributor: buzzvibe buzzvibe
After a really bad break-up I was an emotional wreck and didn't want anything to do with men for a while. I went nearly 10 months without, and I didn't have the benefit of any sex toys to see me through. #neveragain
08/03/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
The first two months are the worst.
No smegging kidding ... God, those two months after Mulder ended our affair were murder.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
I went a few months after a bad break up.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I waited about 2 months when I left my husband - I needed time entirely to myself to get re-focused and move on.
08/03/2010
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
I'm currently in a relationship, I don't think we go without it that long. As far as I can recall we haven't gone a whole month without it but we have gone longer than 1-2 weeks.
08/03/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I voted a month, but I honestly can't remember exactly. Between relationships I still got some, and then I found my husband within a month of ended a sexual relationship, and we waited 2 weeks to get it on!
08/03/2010
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Years ago when we were insanely busy running a business, plus jobs, kid's activities and homeschooling, we would go months, even close to a year without. This went on for quite a while. I wish now that we had spent more on our marriage and sex life, but hindsight is 20/20. At least we have now and I won't let anything get in the way of our marriage and sex life now.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
2-4 months was my selection. The first two years of my relationship with my husband were long distance, due to him being 250 miles away in college. Our dry spells were as long as three months at a time. They were torturous, but oh, the reunification sex...!
08/03/2010
Contributor: sweet sally sweet sally
Close to a year here w/ my ex. About every 6 months to a year I think we felt like we "had" to. It was rather said. This went on for about 8 out of the 10 years we were married.

I've been with my current bf now 8 months and we haven't gone any longer than about 36 hours and that's torture. lol.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Only did it once, first time ever, last year May.... haven't done anything since, and no idea when, so about 1+ year and counting....
08/03/2010
Contributor: PonyPlay PonyPlay
I since I started I haven't been able to get through a week without it! But then again I've had a the same guy since I was 14 and now I'm 20, so I've always had a man around. We went to school together so we have been like together all the time. He's my BFF, my Best Friend Forever & my Best Fuck Forever.
08/03/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
a little over 2 years without having sex with my husband


about 15 months without a orgasm
08/03/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
Are you kidding? With my Partner's libido, it would be shocking if we could go a whole week without sex. Lol!
08/03/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Technically 19 years because that's when my cherry was popped.
08/03/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
i lost my halo in 11th grade, and didn't screw a living thing until i was a sophmore in college
08/03/2010
Contributor: Valyn Valyn
3 months!
08/03/2010
Contributor: MnWolf MnWolf
I chose to go 6 years when I left the ex... I didn't want my son that I had at that time to see me with various girls so..
08/06/2010