Women: What does Ejaculate feel like?

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~LaUr3n~

I've never experienced a guy coming inside me-without a condom. I'm saving that for marriage. I've heard horror storied about it:

It's gross
Feels weird
Oooozing
Etc.

I'm curious...
Have you done it? Do you like it? Hate it? What does it feel like?
Once my bf came so hard that I could feel it, but of course still had a condom, so I didn't deal with the aftermath.

Only women vote please but anyone can discuss of course.

Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):

I've done it

Tori Rebel , Tuesday , Red Vinyl Kitty , Miss B Haven , cherryredhead88 , Dame Saphir , Lady Venus , Owl Identified , *Ashley* , Rockin' , sarahbear , Splendwhore , Luvasaurus , Annemarie , Cream in the Cupcake , darthkitt3n , P'Gell , Pleasure Piratess , StephieBoo02 , TeaganChase , Taylor , RomeroB , Liz2 , Armsjlove , Taylor Von , BadassFatass , Libra , toxie m , Keegski , *HisMrs* , sweet seduction , BBW Talks Toys , Lucidity , Astia , pinkzombie , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Fun Lover , KikiChrome , MR Chickhabit , Airekah , joja , Kaltir , Coralbell , Adriana Ravenlust , Shellz31 , CSEA , Miss T , Andromeda , Mommy2 , mandiegk , tickle me pink , Alyxx , Beaners , sexygoddess , Judas Iscars , sarki , ♥ Amanda ♥ , Hot'n'Bothered , Kdlips , froggiemoma , Joie de Cherresse , padmeamidala , horngry , Howells , Noira Celestia , M121212 , CoffeeCup , lovemuscle n cookie , dezzydezire , Rossie , CAKES , PassionQT , Valyn , IslandGoddess , aliceinthehole , Antipova , NewEnglandCouple , Minamie , Gracie , - Kira - , Beck , LAndJ , SiNn , MstrSlvCouple , hyacinthgirl , Eucaly , GonetoLovehoney , Silverdrop , Peggi , mistressg , Lickable Lollie , MissBre , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , VelvetDragon , MissCandyland , ghalik , bayosgirl , ViVix , mpfm , Amber1319 , Khanner , Katelyn , LoooveMonkey , glasskitten , April Lewis , dancingduo , sophia430 , Adnerbmw , Pierced Blaqk Skies , SaucyxGirl , falalena , melliegirl , pootpootpoot , KrissyNovacaine , indiechick , C&K0143 , Naughty Wife

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I have not done it

~LaUr3n~ , Envy , kck , sophie2229 , fatesrelease , C4ss , Valentinka , jankit , null , DeliciousSurprise , sbon , girl next door , KnK , LikeSunshineDust , REDRUM , UrNaughtyaAngel , Enchantedkitty , Sebmissive , Lady Marmelade , Midway through , Dusk , chidoll , emiliaa , izy , ThoughtsAblaze , ily , eggiweg , Mew , ms.anon , Nacht Stern , Missmarc , NovaLights , itskmberly , xxsquigglesxx

I like it-explain

Tori Rebel , Red Vinyl Kitty , Miss B Haven , Dame Saphir , Owl Identified , *Ashley* , Rockin' , Gunsmoke , sarahbear , Splendwhore , Luvasaurus , Annemarie , Airen Wolf , teeny <3 , Linga , darthkitt3n , P'Gell , Pleasure Piratess , StephieBoo02 , Liz2 , Armsjlove , BadassFatass , Keegski , *HisMrs* , sweet seduction , BBW Talks Toys , Lucidity , Astia , Fun Lover , MR Chickhabit , joja , Kaltir , Coralbell , Adriana Ravenlust , Shellz31 , CSEA , Miss T , Andromeda , Mommy2 , mandiegk , tickle me pink , Alyxx , Beaners , sexygoddess , sarki , froggiemoma , Joie de Cherresse , padmeamidala , M121212 , lovemuscle n cookie , Rossie , CAKES , Istanbull , Bignuf , Valyn , Antipova , NewEnglandCouple , Minamie , Gracie , - Kira - , Beck , SiNn , MstrSlvCouple , hyacinthgirl , Eucaly , Silverdrop , Peggi , Lickable Lollie , MissBre , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , VelvetDragon , MissCandyland , ghalik , bayosgirl , sjclayton2912 , mpfm , Katelyn , BlackOrchid , dancingduo , sophia430 , Pierced Blaqk Skies , SaucyxGirl , wicked48 , falalena , melliegirl , pootpootpoot , KrissyNovacaine , Naughty Wife

I don't like it-explain

cherryredhead88 , Mommy2 , dezzydezire , ghalik

Other

Tuesday , Libra , toxie m , Emma (Girl With Fire) , KikiChrome , Airekah , Lady Marmelade , ♥ Amanda ♥ , Hot'n'Bothered , Noira Celestia , M121212 , CoffeeCup , potstickers , aliceinthehole , LAndJ , mistressg , ghalik , ViVix , Amber1319 , Khanner , indiechick

Total votes: 264 (161 voters)

Poll is closed

07/16/2010

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Envy

Never done it. I had a chance to, I was on birth control, but I'm not anymore. We don't really want kids, so I guess we either will never do it, or he will opt to be snipped. (But i told him wait until he's older, but he's very impatient, lol.)

In the mean time, I'm looking for a toy that can squirt, and some smaller company I know has squirting dildos, so I might buy one with a tube to satisfy my curiosity, plus it's safer that way.

07/16/2010

Tuesday

You can't feel it, at least I can't, no matter how forceful. There are no nerve endings in the cervix and hardly any in the deep end of the vagina.

If someone says its gross I think they just mean they don't like it dripping out of them afterward. That doesn't bother me. Its all good.

07/16/2010

Red Vinyl Kitty

Neither me or my husband wants kids, so he had a vasectomy. Both of us agree this is one of the best things we have ever done as a couple. The choice was totally his, but we have both enjoyed sex so much more now.

I don't know how to really describe the feeling of him cumming.. But it feels good, more natural, less of a hassle than it was with condoms. Prior to his vasectomy, we ALWAYS used condoms because the risk of me getting pregnant was just not one we were willing to take. There is also just so much peace of mind in knowing that I can't get pregnant now.

07/16/2010

Tori Rebel

I've done it. I can only feel him actually coming inside me if his penis is lower in my vagina at the time, where there are more nerve endings, as opposed to deeper up. The most noticeable sensation is the heat of it I guess. It's definitely not like a burning but it feels like its slightly warmer than the inside of my body and it will start out in one spot then spread a little. I can also feel his penis throb sometimes, but only when he comes really hard and that doesn't change with or without a condom.

The only part that's sometimes a drag is afterward. I generally hop up and pee anyway because I get UTI's pretty easily, and since all the muscles loosen, most of it will come out then, and the rest will come off when I clean up. But if I don't go to pee right away, or before I knew how essential that is for me, it's kind of a gross feeling I guess. Once you're up and around it's not so much like a gentle trickle out, it's feels more like it's coming out in a gooey blob that's going to run down your leg although once I go to wipe up, it's never anything like that. Just a little gooey semen right around the opening to my vagina. I honestly don't mind.

07/16/2010

Miss B Haven

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Originally posted by Tori Rebel

That's a really good explanation. I have to agree with all, especially the cleaning up part

07/16/2010

~LaUr3n~

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Originally posted by Tuesday

Yea that's what they meant and they didn't like that cuddling had to occur after waiting for it to drip out of them.

07/16/2010

~LaUr3n~

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Originally posted by Tori Rebel

Gooey blob...oh geez. Well I've had ejaculate during anal sex, but that doesn't really ooze out because the area is tighter. I'm guessing it is totally not the same.

I never really thought about warmth. I don't think I feel that with a condom. I really don't mind them. I actually love them. Less chaffing if you get the right one...Ecstacy *cough cough*. It has nothing to do with not being on bc. I'm on that actually.

07/16/2010

Tuesday

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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~

Yea that's what they meant and they didn't like that cuddling had to occur after waiting for it to drip out of them.

I've never waited for it to drip out. Its a non-issue. Its not bothersome and doesn't always come out right away anyway.

07/16/2010

cherryredhead88

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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~

I don't really think that it enhances my personal experience per say, as I can't feel it. When my ex came in me it was extremely messy. -_- . I hate it because I am stuck cleaning it up! lol. The one good thing I got from it was my son!

07/16/2010

Tori Rebel

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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~

I actually like condoms as well. My boyfriend doesn't though and since we're monogamous, he's had a vasectomy, and we've both been tested for everything under the sun, we've since become fluid bonded so we only use them once in a while when I really want to.

There's something about them that kind of makes it more exciting to me and I think it's because the feel and smell of them trigger the thrill of first having sex as a teenager when it was new and forbidden.

07/16/2010

kck

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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~

I've only had ejaculate during anal sex as well. I remember one time he came very hard and I felt it burst into me... more than once. I could feel him pulsating afterward. It was amazing. I hope it's just as awesome vaginally.

07/16/2010

Dame Saphir

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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~

My boyfriend and I have both had very safe sexual histories, have been tested for everything, and I'm on birth control, so we rarely use condoms.

When he comes, it feels warm, but I can feel the contraction of his muscles more than I can actually feel the ejaculate. And knowing that he's getting there often is something that can throw me over the edge at the last minute so I can come with him. Everything just gets warmer and wetter. I much prefer him coming inside me than into a condom. I think it makes a much more intimate experience that our fluids are mixing and that we're close enough to (intelligently) make that decision with each other.

The aftermath is the gross. Afterward, usually, as soon as he pulls out, some oozes out. Which I hate. But we both usually clean up immediately afterward. I hate trying to cuddle directly afterward (but hey, it's so damn hot now that we usually lay on the bed as far away from each other as possible til our sweat cools of anyway ). Usually the first thing I do after I catch my breath is head to the bathroom and pee/clean myself up because if not, it starts to ooze out, potentially down my leg. and that's not attractive.

I'm probably going to instigate a "quickie rule" with my boyfriend, that if he insists on a quickie, I'm going to insist on a condom, because it's never fun when you have to jump up from sex and throw on work clothes/go to class/etc. and everything hasn't had a chance to drip out...

07/16/2010

Miss B Haven

I really dislike condoms, I have tried so many but I always end up hurting. I really prefer the natural feel, the warmth, the throbbing, the cum etc

07/16/2010

Owl Identified

I meant to mark I have NOT done it but I like it. Or at least, I like the idea of it. I've only been penetrated by two semen-bearing penises in my life, and I've never been on birth control so it's been condoms consistently with that. But I think it's sexy for many of the reasons above, although I agree with you Lauren, I am kind of squicked out at the idea of stuff dripping out of me that isn't, you know, from me.

07/16/2010

*Ashley*

I've done it (obviously , I have kids) and I love it. There is an Oooozing, so make sure you have a paper towel or something to place between your legs when your done. And you can’t feel it coming out, or at least I can’t. But I love it raw. I love him being inside me, not having to pull out and to be close to me. It’s an amazing feeling in my opinion.

07/16/2010

Rockin'

(Unrelated comment: I'm a little skeptical that there "are no nerve endings in the cervix." When I get a pap smear, I definitely feel it.)

Anyway, ejaculate...I can't say that I specifically feel it coming out of my boy's cock. I feel the head of his cock get huge, and then I can feel the motion, the flexing, of his cock. Those are both quite nice.

The best way I can describe how his ejaculate feels is that it's a chemical thing. Even though I don't feel it shooting out of him, my body starts to respond differently during/after he comes. It just feels really good, and I feel more relaxed and happy.

I don't think it's gross, weird, or anything bad, really. I like to have a towel or something under me when I get up so it's not so hard to clean up. But I usually have a towel even if it's just me getting off, so that's nothing new.

Best way to deal with the oozing and get it over quickly (this is what I do): Right afterward, I get up and just catch as much as I can with a towel/tissue/whatever. I kinda push to get more of it out then, too. Then I just go pee since I'd do that anyway, and the rest comes out then. I don't have dripping/oozing after that. Then it's cuddling time ^_^

07/16/2010

Tuesday

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Originally posted by Rockin'

Pap smears hurt when they're too rough. It helps to have a female gyn. They seem to understand this. I think its the pressure that hurts though.

I had several cervical biopsies taken without anesthesia or even tylenol. Even zero-pain-tolerance me didn't feel it.

07/16/2010

Gunsmoke

I responded for my wife - she likes - or should I so loves the release she feels. She describes a 'let down' feeling similar to what she felt when breast feeding. I'm often close by when it happens - but she's not an 'ejaculator'. She calls it 'gushing' because she gets very wet very quickly.

I'm hoping to give her a big gusher tonight.

07/16/2010

sarahbear

During? It feels pretty good, usually. It tickles and is more stimulating. I really enjoy it and sometimes can't orgasm until I feel him doing it. It's the aftermath that can sometimes be kinda ew. If you've ever worn a pad on your period, that's all it feels like, though.

07/16/2010

Rockin'

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Originally posted by Tuesday

I don't know cervical biology. Pressure seems to be the key to a lot of pleasure and pain in that area, though. I've always had a female gyn, and almost always I've experienced discomfort (I liken it to a gentle testicle tap). I feel pressure and I feel sick to my stomach. Every body is different.

07/16/2010

Owl Identified

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Originally posted by Gunsmoke

This is funny, my mother was explaining the "let down" thing from breastfeeding to me yesterday. She said it's like Valium, lol.

07/16/2010

fatesrelease

There was once where my boyfriend and I were in the heat of the moment and did it without a condom. We had already had the "If I get pregnant you know I'm not having an abortion" talk. We've been together for years and while we started having sex he pulled out and did not cum inside of me. Lets just say that I felt dumb even though I have been on birth control forever so we haven't done it without a condom since and I want to wait until we get married. Just a personal/moral preference.

07/16/2010

El-Jaro

I've wondered about this too.

07/17/2010

kck

This is a great thread, Lauren! And thanks to all of you who are responding with your experiences! I'm reading them all and getting pretty excited about (and preparing myself for) what'll happen it finally happens

07/17/2010

Annemarie

For me, I think it's more of an emotional thing than a physical thing.

I like feeling that... I made him feel amazing, and now his complete essence is part of me. I really do like feeling that there's no physical way to be closer than to have part of him in me.

07/17/2010

Airen Wolf

(EF Review Program Mentor)

I can definitely feel both guys when they ejaculate and like Sarabear it is an amazing feeling. I can feel the throb and warm rush and it doesn't bother me when it inevitably comes out. I have to go pee after sex to prevent the UTI as well so I just clean up a bit. No big deal nothing to get squicked about. If you are truly worried have a towel under you when you have sex and then no harm no foul (pun intended).
My life partner has the opposite experience...he's never used a condom. Sigel can't use them comfortably unelss they are non-latex so ya. I hate them, then chafe me and are like screwing a plastic bag, even the micro thin ones.

07/17/2010

Cream in the Cupcake

im on birth conrol so he cums in me and it doesnt feel like really anything to me but its gross when it comes out. I hate wiping myself off but i prefer it over using a condom.

02/15/2011

P'Gell

I can feel it. I have feeling for the entire length of my vagina and even my cervix.

It feels like hot, liquid love being shot inside of you. MMMMMM. I LOVE it. But, we use withdrawal as a birth control method, so the only time we do it is during my period. You can feel the throbbing, and know he's having so much pleasure, it's so nice. The clean up doesn't bother me at all. It's just semen. It is not a big deal. I have tight PC and vaginal muscles so it usually takes a while to drip out, usually when I'm in the bathroom. NOT a big deal for me. When I was on Depo or the Pill I would sometimes wear a mini pad, to catch some of it but aside from that, a hot bath soon after will clean everything away.

Years ago, when we were having babies, or when I was on the Pill, on DepoProvera or using my diaphragm, he came inside all the time. I really miss it when I want it.

02/16/2011

P'Gell

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Originally posted by Tuesday

I've actually found male doctors are MUCH more gentle during PAP smears. Being a nurse, I am not a big fan of female doctors. IMO, they think every other woman is a "baby" and don't empathize with any pain they don't have themselves. JMO. All my doctors are men. I would never let a female OBGYN take care of me during a pregnancy or assist during childbirth or C Section. Never. They are mean, as they either have no children, and resent you, or don't have the time to raise their own and can't empathize with Mothers who raise their own. (Obviously, I have issues with female doctors. Most nurses do.) For either working with them or having them take care of me, I take a man over a woman doctor ANY day. Mileage may vary.

I not only feel PAP smears, even the gentle ones, but I feel My Man ejaculating. Everybody's body is different.

02/16/2011

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