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Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Our friend was telling us a story about her co-worker which was interesting to us, curious what others think...

A male and female couple go home after leaving the bar. Their female friend comes along with them to crash at their place. The friend tells the couple she is extremely horny and would love to masturbate while watching them have sex. The couple agrees. All three said it was one of the most fun nights they have ever had.

Would you ever do this? (private voting)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I would allow someone to watch
19
Yes, I would want to watch
12
Yes, I have watched
4
Yes, I have been watched
7
No
38
Maybe
15
Other (please explain)
2
Total votes: 97 (77 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
I can't imagine any of my friends watching me, that would be awkward.
07/06/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
It's not something I'd ever be interested in.
07/06/2012
Contributor: Tork48309 Tork48309
Alluring situation, but NEVER a coworker. That stuff comes back to haunt you professionally, but based on the heat of the moment....Hell Yeah!!
07/06/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Negative!! I have been in a situation where someone I was talking to online wanted to watch me and my partner at the time have sex. I couldn't do that either. I don't like an audience
07/07/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I probably would but haven't yet.
07/07/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
No! I like alot of things when it comes to sex but adding a third person to my sex life in any way is not for me, my husband either.
07/07/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
Our friend was telling us a story about her co-worker which was interesting to us, curious what others think...

A male and female couple go home after leaving the bar. Their female friend comes along with them to crash at their place. The ... more
I'd be against it.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
That would be a HUGE HELL NO! That is just creepy to me.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
No, I don't think I would ever do that.
07/07/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
No. It's not something I'm into.
07/07/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
maybe with a close friend but never with a co-worker bad juju
07/07/2012
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
A co-worker seems like a bad idea, but, sure, I'd let a friend watch. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist. Plus I've been to plenty of play parties, and those aren't wildly off from this scenario.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
Not a close friend or co-worker. It would have to be someone I don't see much in my daily life because it might make the relationship awkward. Even then I am not so sure.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
maybe, depends on who it is, it might be kinda cool
07/07/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
I know me nor my partner would be able to let someone watch/join us.

We are a little possessive of each other. We have talked about it a few times, but we both know we both don't share nicely with others so it'll never happen for us.

-Ash
07/07/2012
Contributor: HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
Our friend was telling us a story about her co-worker which was interesting to us, curious what others think...

A male and female couple go home after leaving the bar. Their female friend comes along with them to crash at their place. The ... more
My wife likes the idea of being watched. If she is likes it well...it just gets better for me! So what time can you show up?
07/07/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
I think watching is hot.
07/07/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Quote:
Originally posted by Cora Jane
I can't imagine any of my friends watching me, that would be awkward.
I second this!
07/07/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Interesting answers.
We have talked about this, and are interested in the idea of both of us watching or being watched. We are not interested in having anyone join in, but we think it could be HOT! It would definitely have to be the right person for us to feel comfortable...who knows maybe someday.
07/07/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
I think that's one of those things that sounds really hot in theory but in practice would actually be awkward and uncomfortable.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I been watched and been the watcher.
07/07/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
Nope, definitely not.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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No way, for either of us! Just not our thing.
07/07/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
That sounds like a barrel of monkeys! I'd be up for either end of that deal!
07/07/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband and I would not be up to that at all.
07/07/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
If some scenarios lined up, I would, don't know about the mister though.
07/07/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
NO never
07/08/2012
Contributor: Amber1319 Amber1319
I couldn't let other people watch me
07/08/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
A co-worker or friend - probably not.

However, we frequently have sex where people join in and/or watch us. It's a turn on for us!
07/09/2012