Would you stay in a relationship if there was no oral

Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
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Yes
52  (67%)
No
8  (10%)
Unsure
18  (23%)
Total votes: 78
Poll is closed
07/25/2012
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Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Title says it all
I don't think so, especially if he wanted it but didn't reciprocate.
07/25/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Yeah, even though my girlfriend is heavenly.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Title says it all
I don't know if I would be able to keep my mouth off of his penis... I'm not sure I could make myself.

But I wouldn't leave a relationship over it I don't think.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
I enjoy giving oral too much to go without giving. But without recieving? yeah.
07/25/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Title says it all
Yes
07/25/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Giving or receiving? Receiving yes, giving no.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I can't imagine finding a gay man who didn't like giving head. If I did then I'd probably assume that he had some latent issues pertaining to his sexuality.
07/25/2012
Contributor: AU AU
Yes. It's fun, but my partner and I don't really do this much. We did this more earlier on in the relationship because it was novel for us. But we have found that it isn't one of our favorite things. If my partner didn't want to do it anymore at all, it would be weird. But I could accept this. If I had a new partner, it might depend on what their reason was. If they didn't want to explain or hated girl parts in their face, I might say "bye".
07/25/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I enjoy both giving and receiving, but if I was crazy in love, it wouldn't make or break my decision to be with him based on whether or not we preformed oral sex on each other.
07/25/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Yes
07/25/2012
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Title says it all
hard to say, i really love it but I get it so....
07/25/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I said yes assuming the question was in regards to getting oral. I don't like it done to me, so all my relationships don't include it at my request. Giving is a different answer. I love to give oral and would be very upset if I couldn't. That's never been an issue though.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Talena Talena
Apparently I would stay in a marriage for a lot of reasons that most other wouldn't
07/25/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I'm going to be honest and say no.

Oral sex is the cornerstone of our sex life. We have oral sex more than any other kind of sex all put together, I can't come without oral (unless I'm alone) and a lot of the time, even when we do have PIV, My Man likes coming during a blow job. My husband loves giving oral sex, as do I. We both love receiving it. Neither of us could live without it.

I think sex is a very important part of a good healthy relationship and I couldn't imagine going without oral sex for any reason.

I think both in the relationship agreeing what works for them sexually without too much "compromise." ; There is a fine line between what some people assume is intense "compromise" but will eventually become "resentment" when it comes to giving up something you want and love but with understanding and the agreement and desire to try new things.

I also couldn't have a relationship with someone who was afraid or too rigid to try new things. I think relationships should be cherished and enjoyed, not "put up with."
07/25/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
yea
07/25/2012
Contributor: kitty91 kitty91
yes i would! as long as the sex is amazing but he better not expect it if im not getting it!(:
07/25/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
If it was giving, I sure would. But I have yet to meet someone that I hooked up with, who didn't like oral. Receiving....NO WAY! There is no way I could go without. I need oral. I can't have sex too well without the warm up.
07/25/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
It's not something that we do much, to be honest.
07/25/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Yes.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Princess Zelda Princess Zelda
Quote:
Originally posted by deltalima
I don't think so, especially if he wanted it but didn't reciprocate.
Ya I'm in one of those types
07/25/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I love gonna to town on my man down below found out that i have a ball licking fetish too lol but i do feel a lil uncomfortable with his face down there on me but when we do our 69 its awesome as hell he likes do do me so i moan while doing him but shit after almost 9 yrs i have been open to all his requests no matter how odd they have been im 26 hes 33 and i dont want him to go else where to get it so to all my fellow 69ers
07/25/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Yes I would stay because that could change.
07/25/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
work on it!
07/25/2012
Contributor: jfuz jfuz
Yes I love my girlfriend. Maybe when she is more comfortable.
07/25/2012
Contributor: hesteele09 hesteele09
Yes, I am not much on the recieving end of things therefore I dont expect it every time. Its not that big of a deal to me. If you care about the person then its worth staying in the relationship
07/26/2012
Contributor: hesteele09 hesteele09
Yes, I am not much on the recieving end of things therefore I dont expect it every time. Its not that big of a deal to me. If you care about the person then its worth staying in the relationship
07/26/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Yes I could. I'm not really into giving head because I've been forced to in the past... and if I receive, then that's fine, but I prefer straight up sex to oral anyway.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
I would
07/26/2012
Contributor: hey steady hey steady
Quote:
Originally posted by Zandrock
Title says it all
Had to say yes and did for 9 years...fortunately not any more x
07/26/2012