The only time I've ever orgasmed without ejaculating was after I had jerked of 7 times back to back and there was nothing left to come out lol but yea all of the above are annoying
That all women are bisexual.If a woman is says she is completely it's like 'come on I know you have fantasies or have played around with your girlfriend before.'Same thing with lesbians if a woman says she's a lesbian most guys hear 'Threesome!'
They're all annoying. The one I really don't like is the "loose vagina" myth. They do not get looser the more sex a woman has. In fact, it gets stronger because the vagina is a muscle, and like all muscles, gets better with exercise.
That all women are bisexual.If a woman is says she is completely it's like 'come on I know you have fantasies or have played around with your girlfriend before.'Same thing with lesbians if a woman says she's a lesbian most guys hear 'Threesome!'
I meant to say if a woman says she is completely straight.I don't know why I leave out words when I type sometimes.
So many myths, so little knowledge. Which ones do you find the most ridiculous?
Soooo many, but the ones that bug me the most are variations of the belief that women don't/shouldn't want/like certain things that are accepted from men.
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07/29/2012
gavind
"Women Don't Like Porn" This one is classic too. Easily overlooked.
pretty sure ALL of those are absolutely annoying equally. The one I have to agree with most though is size matters, I'm too big for my own good and I've actually gotten turned down; "that is NOT going inside me!"
There are so many but here are some of the ones that personally annoying me
Ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing.
Men can't have multiple orgasms.
"Hymen" equals "virginity" (some women are born with out hymens are they born with out "virginity" ugh)!
Medicine defines virginity as having a hymen, there is no medical definition of virginity it is a social construct.
The myth of Orgasm "types", there are subjective difference between different orgasms this is true but the whole "types" debate is a political one and actually get in the way of both pleasure and a good scientific understanding of orgasmic physiology.
A guy who like anal stimulation is gay.
Of the choices you listed, I hate the "women don't like porn" myth. I do know some women who think that porn objectifies women (what, men aren't objectified?), but they don't watch porn, so they don't understand just how much variety there is out there. Saying that all porn objectifies women, is like saying all Hollywood movies are violent.
I also know women who don't like porn, because they feel like when they're partner views it, they are "cheating" on them by getting off on watching other women...which is also ridiculous. I wonder how many of those women have fantasies about Johnny Depp, or Brad Pitt, or the cute guy who works at the Starbucks down the road, or whoever they like to ogle.
But there are A LOT of women who like porn. There is porn made by women, for women. There's porn that's made for couples. And there's porn that is aimed at men, that women like to watch, too.
I hate this myth, because it just reinforces gender stereotypes and double standards. It does nothing but make women who do like porn, and don't realize that they're not alone, feel guilty about it, or like they're abnormal.
In fact, just about any myth that says, "Men like this, women don't, and they only do it to please men," makes me crazy. Such as: women don't like anal, women don't like giving blow jobs, women don't masturbate, women don't have high libidos, women don't want casual sex, they always want to be in love, women who have multiple partners or lots of sex are sluts (but hey, I embrace the term "slut," personally), women don't want men to cum on her face/breasts/ass/in her mouth...I could go on and on. These are all so common among sexually repressed or uninformed people, that it's just shocking.
There are some regarding men, too. For example, any man who wants anything done to his anus during sex is secretly gay, men who want casual sex are all jerks and have no respect for women, and bigger is always better. I'm sure there are more, but I'll stop there.
To me, size really doesn't matter. He loves me for me, that's what I'm happy with. He's got a finger don't he? He can use that if his dick doesn't get the job done, but hubby's dick is big enough for me XD.
When my husband and I first got together and moved into our apartment as boyfriend and girlfriend, a friend of the family who happened to be EXTREMELY religious (people I'm not shitting you, this woman has stuff ALL OVER HER APARTMENT, it's overwhelming to be in there!) Would contact me and tell me what I was doing was a sin. It took me actually lying to her and say we were getting married when we hadn't even thought about marriage yet to get her to stop because she was becoming overbearing.
Yes. I'm a woman. I like to watch a good porn with hubby. Nothing wrong with that. So I don't see how that even comes into play.
gavind
