We've noticed these vids, too (not hard to do when it falls under your duties. ) and we've been investigating.

The best advice I can offer is to simply ignore them.

Somebody actually sent you an email and said all that?

This seams wrong in so many way's.

Actually, it's beginning to sound very sick.

It does. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm not sitting here trying to make people go on a witch-hunt or anything, I just want to know that I'm not crazy for noticing these things.

Darn it, I forgot, lol.

Me: Hello, my name is Persephone Nightmare

Sex-Addicts Anonymous circle: Hello, Persephone....

Me: And I have a problem..... I'm an addict.... A sex addict... *Dun, dun, DUN!!!*

I had my suspicions about the "two" for a while actually, and if you take the videos and all the spam forum posts together it definitely starts to look pretty suspicious...

You arent, I noticed over the weekend before the videos popped up.

But alas, we are all addicts.

*pulls up a chair in the circle*

Hi! I am Jobthingy and I am a sex and sex toy addict.

umm yup.

We did. It wore off.

As far as I know, you don't get the gift cards unless Carrie Ann OKs the videos before you do them and load them. I didn't even think about the points. I'm dense when it comes to things like this. I was just weirded out because it appeared that someone was trying to "teach us something" or preach or who knows what.

Oh, I wasn't referring to the Gift cards, lol, I didn't even think about those. But I was mainly thinking about the points to be honest, lol. Though I do agree with you, we don't need any "preaching" around here about us being sex addicts, lol. Especially since we already know it

You don't think above your penis? Wow, sweetheart, Airen, I'd like to see a picture of that. OMG, how rude of that person.

I don't go on Prudery Sites and tell them what to do, or hint around about what they are missing out on. It isn't my business. One of the reasons I post less on an other Sex Positive site that I used to be really active on that I really like is the Invasion of the Prudes. It's a good site (and shall remained unnamed) but the Cult of Virginity Worshipers and the "Farmer/Milk/Cow/Free" sex thing was driving me nutty. I have nothing against people who remain virgins for whatever their chosen reason, but the rationalization going on AND worse, the attacking of those of us who were Sex Positive was very negative and getting me upset (one guy came basically called me a Slut (whore, harlot, fallen woman, something!) and when I said the word didn't bother me, he got upset about that!)

I guess just ignoring them is the best strategy. That's what works.

Just had to vent a little frustration. I LOVE EdenTube. I expect to see good toy reviews, some visual erotica, Nina Hartley, "So What Have We Learned?" and other helpful, Sexually Positive imagary and thoughts and words for all who care about that.

I'm P'Gell and I'm......I'm.....I'm.. ......I'm......I LOVE sex and really like my toys. Yes, I think with my clit, among other organs, like my brain. I'm an endorphin addict. So what? Aren't we all? Whether you get your endorphins flowing from having sex, posting a good review, making a video you wanted to see, or just talking with like minded other people about these good things.

Oh, I didn't even look at the poster. I didn't recognize the name. Maybe I should shut up. Maybe they had a reason.

Good for you, then Don't let her get you down, as long as all the parties involved in your relationship are happy, then I wouldn't let it bother you. If anything, they're probably just jealous

*In mock surprise* Airen, dear! Why didn't you tell us that you had a penis! That would have explained why you've been thinking with it so much!

Just kidding, of course, lol

Well, technically, you do have a penis, lol. Two, in fact. They just happen to be attached to the men in your life lol

Couldn't it simply be just someone uploading videos they feel are related.

Gambling sites have disclaimers and links to gambling addiction help sites...why is this not appropriate as well? I guess I don't see the big deal.

Maybe I am missing something.

Because they are a couple. Or at least that is what they told me.

I suggest inboxing Kristi with the suspicious or possible point farming behavior. I agree some of it does look bad and is borderline spam so it should be of a concern. They may be point farming and if they are, it should be reported to Kristi who looks to be on it already. We were asked last time to do this instead.

P.S. I'm Lauren and I'm a toy/sex/orgasm addict of multiple sorts . How shall we begin? lol Anyone make it all week without giving into their addiction? I know I didn't HAHA.

Lmao Trust me, I know I didn't make it a week before giving in, lol

I am really sorry about that. I had somewhat of a "By Jove!" Sherlock moment and wanted to make sure I wasn't thinking crazily. That and I'm usually the type of person who goes by this saying (can't remember where I heard it, and I can't remember it perfectly verbatim) when it comes to situations where keeping everyone in a state of anon is best:

"You can say the name. You can say the situation. But you shouldn't put the name to the situation"

Pretty much meaning: It's okay to talk about things that have transpired, but be sure to keep names out of it.

I've been trying to cut back on that, because I realize that even if I censor names and keep everyone completely anonymous, it's still generally frowned upon (and I do see why, since some can still figure things out even with a veil of anonymity)

And very true about PM-ing Kristi. Though since she's already on it, I don't know if I should go ahead and tell her what I noticed, since she may already know. I'm not sure, I'll sleep on it, since it's late anyway, and then go from there