Have you squirted before? Did it take you a while to get the right technique?

Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Just wondering how many females have squirted and whether or not it took them a while to get the right technique. I have tried different ways and have not yet been successful, but I just figured it might take me a bit to learn...
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes I have squirted
68
No, I have not squirted
116
I can squirt, but not that often
32
It took me some time to get the right technique
19
I did not have to learn/use a certain technique to squirt
26
Other- please explain
18
Total votes: 279 (211 voters)
Poll is closed
08/25/2010
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Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I think the closest I have come to squirting is with the Pure Wand. I just need to be more patient and allow it to happen. It feels like I am about to wet the bed, so I always stop.

Perhaps if I get a Liberator Throe I will be able to just let loose, quit worrying about it, and just see what happens. Also, many women say they cannot squirt with a penis or toy inside them, so if you feel it about to happen (that *need-to-pee* sensation), pull the toy (or penis) out quickly and just let loose! (I will try to take this advice myself and follow through on it!) Good luck.
08/25/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
I've tried it with different techniques and I guess I can't do it
08/25/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I squirt, but not during orgasm...after play. Its weird. It's not what is normally thought of squirting. Maybe I should call it gushing. My boyfriends have LOVED it. I have wanted to squirt squirt for a long time. I'm almost there, I can feel it!
08/25/2010
Contributor: doowop doowop
Hey everyone. I'm new here and have been lurking for some time now. Just wanted to reply on my favorite topic. =)

I've squirted from both clitoral and g-spot stimulation, and I had to learn how to do it on my own. For me, it's a combination of the need-to-pee sensation, along with intense tingling around my g-spot. And I definitely can't have a toy inside of me when it happens. But my gf's fingers don't need to be out of me for it to happen.

In my experience, it was easier to learn how to squirt during clitoral stimulation. I paid attention to how my g-spot felt as I used a vibrator on my clit, and once I got to the point of no return before a clitoral orgasm, I pushed out. This allowed me to have multiple orgasms from my clit in between quirting, back to back, without losing any 'momentum'. The orgasm/squirting intervals lasted over a minute, and I never touched my g-spot. After that, I was hooked. But it took awhile to learn how to let go and have them with a partner.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Now I fortunately can squirt fairly regularly. The need to pee sensation no longer bothers me as I know I will not pee. I do pee beforehand, I am hydrated and very aroused..I usually need a clitoral orgasm first.
My NJoy Pure Wand is the toy that first enabled me to ejaculate and still does. The NJoy Eleven also doesn't fail me. The security of a throe also helps.
Do I always squirt with my partner...short answer...No. But it is awesome when it happens.
08/25/2010
Contributor: PushTheStars PushTheStars
I haven't ever before. Two of my friends while we were out one night, were talking about it. And I wasn't too interested, as it didn't appeal to me. I just kind of looked at them funny and ignored the conversation for the most part, until they brought me into it. They explained it to me, like what to do and what feelings to expect. I just haven't had the nerve to try it yet.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Voting for my wife - she can and does - but not every time. Like LaUr3n - my refers to her experience as 'gushing' not ejaculation like some. It happen a lot when we're together and is very gratifying for both of us.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by doowop
Hey everyone. I'm new here and have been lurking for some time now. Just wanted to reply on my favorite topic. =)

I've squirted from both clitoral and g-spot stimulation, and I had to learn how to do it on my own. For me, it's a ... more
Fascinating! Do you have the need-to-pee sensation when you're about to squirt from clit stim?
08/25/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I think the closest I have come to squirting is with the Pure Wand. I just need to be more patient and allow it to happen. It feels like I am about to wet the bed, so I always stop.

Perhaps if I get a Liberator Throe I will be able to just ... more
Sit on the edge of the bathtub so you don't have to worry. It makes clean up easy too.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I never have before, but I would like to learn. My bf would love it if I could, the idea really turns him on he said.
08/25/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
Sit on the edge of the bathtub so you don't have to worry. It makes clean up easy too.
Thanks! Good idea -- I never thought of that before!
08/26/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I don't think I have, but I'm not totally sure. A few times I've had a fairly large amount of liquid come out right before I orgasm, but I can't tell if it's coming from my urethra or if I'm just getting a lot wetter than usual all of a sudden. I feel a gush of wetness and see a little puddle but I haven't actually watched it come out so I don't know where it's coming from.
08/26/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I don't think I have, but I'm not totally sure. A few times I've had a fairly large amount of liquid come out right before I orgasm, but I can't tell if it's coming from my urethra or if I'm just getting a lot wetter than ... more
Coralbell - congratulations! What you described is precisely what my wife experiences. Actual 'ejaculation' is very unlikely - except in porn - but that sudden wetness you describe is the real deal!
09/16/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I've never been able to do it... but squirting doesn't really do it for my partner or me, so I'm pretty okay with it.
09/16/2010
Contributor: CleverKitty CleverKitty
I'd love to be able to do it. The feeling of release seems amazing. If only I could get my hitachi into the bathtub. I guess I could get like a puppy pad to lay on the bed. I think in some ways I'm scared to squirt an "be messy" but if I can get over that roadblock in my mind I might be able to relax enough to do it.
09/22/2010
Contributor: doowop doowop
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
Fascinating! Do you have the need-to-pee sensation when you're about to squirt from clit stim?
Yes, I do feel the need-to-pee sensation during clit stimulation, but not as strong as I would during g-spot stim.
10/04/2010
Contributor: SomewhatSomewhere SomewhatSomewhere
I wish. My boyfriend and I are working on it though...
10/04/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
It took a while for me to learn. I looked online to get tips and tricks on how to get there. It was a slow process but I got there with my glass g-spot wonder and a vibe.

Once I learned to do it with my toys I could feel what it felt like to squirt so I knew what to look for during sex. Eventually, I learned how to squirt with my partner. He doesn't have to remove his cock in order for me to squirt. Sometimes its a squirting type of ejaculation and other times its gushing.

Now I can pretty much decide if I want to squirt or not. If I feel I need to squirt I have my throe always handy to slip onto the bed. I squirt a lot alone, and I usually need a clitoral orgasm first. I will usually squirt at orgasm but soemtimes I can squirt before orgasm depending on the position I am in and the toys I am using. If my partner wants me to squirt I know the best positions to squirt for me and we get it on until he makes me squirt. With him I don't need an orgasm to squirt, I squirt like crazy as he knows how to turn me on.
10/05/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
I /think I have squirted twice, but both times it was more of a trickle. I haven't been able to do it since =(
10/06/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
This thread makes me want a Pure Wand even more. I think it's time to start saving or something, maybe after Christmas.
10/09/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by Waterfall
Just wondering how many females have squirted and whether or not it took them a while to get the right technique. I have tried different ways and have not yet been successful, but I just figured it might take me a bit to learn...
Once I started trying I got myself to the first time with a g-spot toy. Personally, it doesn't make my orgasms better... and it's messy, so I avoid it generally
10/09/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
i havent and hubby is interested but i am not sure how to
10/09/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I had thought I was able to squirt because I will sometimes gush lots of fluid from my vaginal canal upon removal of a toy, but I have since learned that squirting comes from the urethra. So, unfortunately, no . . . I haven't been able to squirt.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I had thought I was able to squirt because I will sometimes gush lots of fluid from my vaginal canal upon removal of a toy, but I have since learned that squirting comes from the urethra. So, unfortunately, no . . . I haven't been able to ... more
You might have squirted. If something blocks the urethra, like a penis or girthy toy, the squirting won't happen until that object is removed.
10/10/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
wish i could. i imagine the orgasm is a lot better.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
wish i could. i imagine the orgasm is a lot better.
It isn't. I think that's a myth. I started a poll a few weeks ago about relative strength of clitoral vs G-spot orgasms. For the majority, G-spot orgasms are weaker.

Here's a link to that poll.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
Cant remember how old i was when i started squirting, but it wasn't something that i had to learn how to do, it just happened. I have learned what makes me squirt.
10/10/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I actually now remember that the first time I squirted I didn't know I had squirted. I thought I had urinated. I was on top of my man in cowgirl position and my bladder was quite full. I had orgasmed and upon orgasm fluid came out onto my mans belly and went down his buttcrack. I thought it was either urine (since my bladder was so full) or a huge amount of very liquidy lubrication. I was quite emberassed but my man didnt really care, he was happy I was so turned on
10/12/2010
Contributor: tits only tits only
I never have and don't know where to begin
10/14/2010