haven't had much success in getting my partner to actually squirt. I have the g-spot and at first she didn't really like it, but she has some amazing g-spot orgasms with it. I've heard really good things about the Pure wand and the Ella as well.
I think it is a combination of material and curve. The curve is essential, but the stiffer materials (glass, metal) can help the process as well.

Well I'm a noob and still trying but Plastic g vibes haven't worked for me. I think I need more texture.

I learned to squirt using my fingers first, then my boyfriend got me to squirt using his, and then toys, it's been almost a year and half since, and it's been awesome.

For beginning squirters, I'd recommend the Ella, and for more advanced, and those that can handle the somewhat substantial weight of steel, the Pure Wand. Although the Fun Wand is good too. :p

I echo DreamyLove in the beginnings of my ejaculation adventures. It adds such dimension to my sex life, it's unbelievable. I'm so happy that information is becoming more and more accessible to women so that they can have new and lovely experiences with their bodies. Lucky us! And lucky for our loves, too!

I've found the curve of the toy's shaft to be the most important quality regarding squirting easily... my preference over texture (silicone to glass to metal to a lover's fingers) changes depending on my mood!

My standby favorite toy for the purpose is Doc Johnson's iRabbit vibe. The clit stimulation is an added goody! I haven't tried the Ella, but it looks awesome. Thanks for inspiring some mischief in me tonight.

Fingers haven't worked for me. The curve and material are both important. The first time I ejaculated was with the NJoy Pure Wand, usually takes care of business. The steel, weight and curve are awesome.
Glass is satisfying but I rarely ejaculate. The Gigi vibe works well, esp. if looking for a quick g spot orgasm but again I don't always squirt.
And none of the above work for me, if my partner is the driver,lol.

With me it's pretty much all about the curve, but firmer materials are really helpful as well. I squirt quite well with anything bumpy, but that is all....um...."learned" for lack of a better word.

The toy that really opened up quick easy and assessable squirting for me was the GiGi. The Ella is scary good at getting me to squirt, but I am well versed, so I wouldn't say it's going to be a miracle machine for novices, just an excellent tool.

The pure wand is spot on at getting my gspot (and would get at anyone's, as it's damn easy to use) but I don't really "squirt" with it - I just get a large wet spot.

Best toy I have for squirting is the fun factory curve. I go off like a kinked hose over and over with ease using it. But it's not so universal.

So I think the one to recommend is ella!

I think different people require different types of materials. I haven't had much luck with glass so far. Ella is about the only toy that I've squirted with (and Gigi). I think the shape of the toy definitely has something to do with it. Not the curve per se, but the shape of the head that stimulates my g-spot.

The Paul And Paulina dual vibe makes me gush. I have a stronger orgasm with the Vibratex Butterfly though. It has a stronger and more widespread clit attachment.

Why did you exclude the Tantus Squirt? My wife hasn't tried it out yet, but it has a curve that puts plenty of pressure on the P-spot when I use it anally (yes, I am working on a review, it's just slow...)

The one that will get me every.single.time. is, unfortunately, made of jelly, which isn't ideal, but it is a guarantee. It was meant to be an anal toy, but that is NOT going to happen with a jelly! link

Fisting always works for my sweetie as does the hitachi. She can do it with other toys it just takes a lot more patience.

interesting thread!

i have squirted using my regular dildo along with clit stimulation - but it isn't alot af fluid. what REALLY gets me is this: link I have had some insanely amazing squirting experiences with this toy, I am not even kidding.

When my wife used the Bent Graduate she squirted twice on her first try! It is curved nicely and since it is glass it applies a nice amount of pressure that let's the river flow!

I have had amazing orgasms and my husband always makes sure I have one every time. I have never been able to "squirt" though. What are we doing wrong? I just thought not everyone could do it.

Pure wand--definitely

I have heard from a friend that the prue wand is amazing!

I have heard from a friend that the prue wand is amazing!

Hello Lady's,

Well i can't really help in the best stimulater to use . But info that may be helpful. FIrst off im male 47. I was very curious at a very young age about myself, as well as the simply beautiful female body. And would read anything i could get my hands on growing up. By the age of 13 i had pretty much read everything that had been published even the first clinical study ever done. I knew my body pretty early not many sd its not to much to learn there. SO most of the reading were about the female body and my first time st 13 knew more about your body's them most females did about their own. And like most first timers pretty much stunk the first time. lol. well i contiued to read and came across an article in a magazine that only hinted about this very subject of a possible what i thought at the time might be a female ejaculation.

I tell you all this to explain i do know what im talking about. Im not bragging in any way well at the age of 16 from all this info found my self with an 20 year old as a GF even thought i was very mature for my age i think it bothered her the age differenc. So sadly i wasnt able to explore as much a i would of liked. I contnued to search and found a few more bits and pieces of info from books.magazines my school mate had. i had even asked them about 10 from two groups if they had ever heard of a female cunmming . And only got back laughs. I did'nt do that again :-\

Ok now to the important stuff at 21 i ended up getting married to a nympho that hade been with ill say a few guys and was comfortable enough to let me explore yaaa. Buy this time i dad come accross my first video proff that something unusual could happen . But it was only a short clip. But it was enough for me .I got into the habbit of always pleasing my wife before myself.As i know you all know males were not desingned to be able to um... go long distances sadly. After the birth of our first child. One night having a rather long frolic it happend i finally hit paysquart. Like i said he had been with enough guys to know what happens, Till this time. I was unknown to both of us really. First i was kind of worried of two things .

1 I thought she had just pee'ed in my mouth considering the amount(she later told me she thought the same)2 I thought she was having a siezure because of what aappeared like no control from her.Those two things were answered rather quickly. After she regained full control of herself and looking at here huge eyes and a smile like i had never seem before as well as a pretty strong hug i stopped worrying. She stilled didnt know what happpend but she said she fricking liked it what ever it was. I then tried to answer the second worry i had but all i had was a pretty big wet spot so pulled the sheet off and squeezed some into a clear glass as well we both smelled it and we both agreed it was not pee. Woo Hoo i thought to myself.

This was in 89 and after that i think i could of asked to to try anything and she would of said sure . but i just wanted to be able to do it whenever i of she wanted it to happen(offten) And so dammit we had to practice alot to reach my goal dangit :-P Well you know by the pee in mouth worry how this happend. I reached my goal within a month and fine tuned it , to her delight im sure . But to mine as well. I know everyone is different and even G Spots are not even in the same spot but this is my perfected way . Ive only been able to do this orally and feel i now have a black belt in tongue foo :-P

ive managed to to make it happen as fast as 15 min i thing . because women so take but longer then males to worm up. what i would do start with for play kissing then slowly move lower kissing as i go neck 5 or so min at the breasts and continue down .Once i get there i spend 5 just lightly kissing inner thighs and around . Then move to the lips lastly the little man in the boat. Starting slow i start a tempo that never stopping the tempo for more then a couple sec. once i see she is getting close i completly stop no contact at all for maybe a min And i visit the little man again and repest the same thing and stop . I know this will be the hardest psrt for you ladys but you will just have to suffer though it somehow.Have him do it about 4 increasing the tempo more each time. Then have him/her on the last one wrap his/her arms up and around your leggs to keep in contact. because when done right you loose all control of your body. Nut the tempo must not stop this time. if success he can continue tempo only about 30 seconds after squart no more you will be more sensitive then you have ever been before. And he pulls away to avoide a knee to the head mostly.

This is my fav part pulling away and watching an uncontrollabe body ahaking before me from pleasure.Trust me guys/gals its worth the effort. ALSO this takes edurance and practice to get to this point without the tougne and jaws wanting to lock up before its competed. But I wanted to reach my goal so fast as i could and actually almost split all the way thru that white thing under tougne in half from it hitting my teeth. The more comfortable relaxed angle his neck is in the better for him try, putting a pillow or two under you butt, so your higher then he is . It works best. also w ould suggest explaining this or letting him read it for a few days. before you try/start so you can relaxe and let it happen. you both make it happen its not just him. Plus for the more difficult cases when trying to teach . it would make it easyer for him to do it. if you have aready been able to to manage it . You must know your body fully in order to teach someone else how to do it .

Forgive me that this is so long
but i like to make sure i explaine it clearly. lastly there is a video on redtube of a different way to do it , but ive never done it that way, but oddly enough its almost the same steps as mine . Im glad its more well known today ive known how to do this for 20 years and to see it everwhere now makes me think, your all nooobs lmao. And it makes me sad that there are women even today. Moms grandma's out there that have never enjoyed it .
lastly ,lasty, i have read an article from some doctor that has said there are some women that cant or never will be able to do it.I disagree, and lets hope he is wrong about that huh. Enjoy

double post :-\

ps i tried to make it as clean as possible, i hope i managed that ok?

PSS . Im not a doctor. And this was for informational purposes only .

I have been trying to learn to squirt with no avail. I have tried my fingers and I have a glass dildo but that doesn't seem to work either. I am on a squirting mission. Any suggestions on how to achieve the goal?

A firm dildo with a very big head.

Of the toys listed, I would say that either the Ella or the Pure Wand would be the best. Personally, I haven't had much luck with the Pure Wand, but many see it as the Holy Grail of sex toys. I do love my Ella, though!

As for your other question, the Ella is firmer than the Tantus G-spot, but the Tantus G-spot is thicker and provides broader stimulation.

My husband and I achieved squirting around 3 years ago and we had never experienced it before so we were confused how it happened. Now, we try to make it happen and it never does. It can be rather frustrating.

It can be so tough to know what to do! Im not sure...

I think I will look into the Ella. I keep hearing a lot about it!!