If you had to choose...

Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Same Gender
55  (25%)
Opposite Gender
139  (63%)
Other (please elaborate)
27  (12%)
Total votes: 221
Poll is closed
07/11/2011
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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Ideally, I want both a guy and a girl for lifetime partners, cause I want different things (apart from the obvious external lovelies....hehehe) from each of them.
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
07/11/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Ideally, I want both a guy and a girl for lifetime partners, cause I want different things (apart from the obvious external lovelies....hehehe) from each of them.
But if I had to choose one sex, I'd have to go with a guy - I love cock!
Sounds pretty ideal to me as well Shellz
07/11/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Probably a guy. But I guess I'm biased because I'm already stuck with one.
07/12/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
In my case, it wouldn't really matter if it was a guy or a woman... though I guess I lean on a little bit more to a man?

I definitely know I wouldn't be able to juggle both. I mean, it's hard enough for me to get and keep a relationship with just one person, so my mind staggers in horror at the idea of doubling that amount of time and effort...
07/12/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Damn that's a hard question.
I love both men, and women.
07/12/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I haven't had much luck with the opposite gender so at this point in time I'm going to say same gender.
07/12/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
opposite gender, my wife.
07/12/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
My partner identifies as gender-queer, and I'm pretty content with our situation.
07/19/2011
Contributor: Rain. Rain.
Probably a guy
07/19/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
love my wife
07/19/2011
Contributor: ScarlettSeraph ScarlettSeraph
I find that while I am sexually attracted to both genders, I prefer men for relationships. Though, I certainly wouldn't turn down a relationship with the right woman if she came along.
07/19/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
could never be with a guy
07/19/2011
Contributor: Leaving Love Leaving Love
Opposite Gender
07/23/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
This is a little disappointing, seeing how many bisexual girls like men so much more. I can honestly say I'd be happy with either one, or both, or many of one or the other. I'm polyamorous, but not because I am bisexual. I guess I just won't get into my opinion on these responses. It's plain old depressing for a girl who has actually been in love with another girl.
07/23/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
same gender
07/24/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
I pretty much prefer the same gender as myself (male) lol, I've never really seen myself with someone of the opposite sex. =)
07/27/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
I see no reason why I would ever want a long term monogamous relationship. I might HAVE a monogamous relationship because there isn't anyone we are interested in pursuing a relationship with but I certainly wouldn't choose it.
07/27/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
i need a yin to my yang.
07/27/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
my bf
07/28/2011
Contributor: mandi myth mandi myth
sexually, i could never make it the rest of my life with out a male. but emotionally, i can't see myself being with a male. so i tend to date either very masculine females, or females that enjoy bringing a male into the relationship every now and then.
07/31/2011
Contributor: anonymouse anonymouse
Whoever I love.
07/31/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Opposite gender. I'm not attracted to other women.
07/31/2011
Contributor: Jenyana Jenyana
Hm, a lot of heterosexual people seem to be answering this poll, despite it being posted in the bisexual section... maybe I should have clarified in the question that this was meant for bisexual/pansexual people? :/

Not that their opinions aren't valid, of course, just that I was curious about whether, when faced with only being able to sleep with one person, bisexual people were more prone to picking someone of one gender or the other... because let's face it; most of us aren't 50/50.
07/31/2011
Contributor: NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
That's a hard question I love both men and women so much. If I had to chose I would probably say a woman as I have definitely had much more intense connections with other women than I have men
08/01/2011
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Currently I'd say a male (opposite gender) because I'm in a serious relationship with one. However, if I were to overlook that, then I'd have no preference for gender.
08/01/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Same, I def would prefer a woman
08/01/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
im a lesbian so a woman of course...why would i want a man around?
08/03/2011
Contributor: Spoken Pandora Spoken Pandora
I dated men in the beginning and eventually called myself bisexual. After my first lesbian experience I never went back and it has been over a decade. I love women always have and always will and to do anything differently wouldn't be right for me. I am thankful for my 17 yr old daughter though. I think if I had never been with a man I would still be waiting to have my first child.
08/08/2011
Contributor: Sieglinde Sieglinde
Quote:
Originally posted by Jenyana
If you had to choose between being with someone of your gender or somebody of the opposite gender, which would you pick for a monogamous long-term relationship?
I could easily go with either, and it'll ultimately depend on who I end up falling in love with, but I tend to overall find other women more attractive and enjoyable to be with than men, so I do hope it's a woman.
09/04/2011