What gender was your first sexual experience with?

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What gender was your first sexual experience with?

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Contributor: NightKat NightKat
I'm curious about people first gender experience?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm male and my first experience was with a female
17  (13%)
I'm male and my first experience was with a male
14  (10%)
I'm female and my first experience was with a female
37  (27%)
I'm female and my first experience was with a male
58  (43%)
Other, explain below if you would like
9  (7%)
Total votes: 135
Poll is closed
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Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
i'm a trans dude. my first sexual experience was with a dude and my second with a girl, both before i came out.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Vanilla hetero here
07/28/2012
Contributor: MaeGal MaeGal
I'm a female, my first sexual experience was with a female.
07/30/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm genderqueer and female assigned at birth, my first experience was with a cisgender guy.
07/31/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I'm curious about people first gender experience?
My first and almost 100% of all sexual experiences have been with females. I went through a stage where I was curious with same sex exploration. But after attempting I quickly discovered sleeping with another male was very far from what I really felt comfortable with.
08/02/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I thought it would be less intimidating if I worked with someone as the same parts as me the first time.
08/02/2012
Contributor: nope nope
I'm a girl and my first real sex was with my partner and they're genderqueer~
08/03/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
My first sexual experience was with a woman.
08/06/2012
Contributor: Layenna Layenna
What should I put? It was a 3 way with a guy and a girl...
08/06/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
All my sexual acts and encounters have been with males
08/07/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
I've only been with men (I'm not sure if I regret this or not lol!)
08/08/2012
Contributor: Pansies Pansies
I voted other because my first consensual sexual experience was wi th a girl, but it wasn't my first sexual experience.
08/13/2012
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
My very, very first sexual experience was with a female, but my first proper sexual experience was with a man, but my first romantic sexual experience was with a woman. Complicated!!
08/20/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I'm female and had sex with a girl first.
08/21/2012
Contributor: Claire de Cerises Claire de Cerises
I've never really had a sexual experience with a female.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
First was female second was male first oral was female then male then intercourse with male. So glad that I've always known and been comfortable with being bisexual
09/09/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
first and only sexual partner is/was a man
09/09/2012
Contributor: PinkySt PinkySt
I had the opportunity to be with girls long before I had the chance to be with a guy, a shame I never took those chances. So my firsts were with a guy.

I did eventually get another shot with a lady. It wasn't what I expected, but I'd love to have another chance sometime =3
09/10/2012
Contributor: hem hem
I'm female, and I had my first sexual experience (making out, cuddling, etc.) with a female, but I had intercourse for the first time with a male.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
I am a girl and it was with a girl
09/10/2012
Contributor: Happenstance Happenstance
I'm genderqueer. My first sexual experience was with myself. My first sexual experience with a partner was with my girlfriend.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Wonderstruck Wonderstruck
Quote:
Originally posted by NightKat
I'm curious about people first gender experience?
I'm female and mine was with a female.
09/11/2012
Contributor: himynameissteph himynameissteph
A girl, and I am a girl.
09/13/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
With a woman
09/13/2012
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I'm a girl, and it was with a girl. (Not counting myself...but...if that counts, well, then I am a girl, so.)
09/19/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I'm a girl and it was with a guy. I was never attracted to the bisexual/gay girls around me growing up because honestly, a lot of them were very flighty and immature.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I'm a girl and my first sexual experience was with a guy.
09/30/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
hetero. It will hopefully be my only if it lasts. I can handle missing out on the other half if it means success at first try.
10/02/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I'm genderqueer and my first sexual experience was with a man. My first kiss was with a girl at a slumber party but that was more playful than sexual.
10/02/2012