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Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
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yes
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65  (92%)
no
Bittenflame , Sangsara , amberf83
3  (4%)
maybe explain
Geogeo , Airen Wolf , Talena
3  (4%)
Total votes: 71
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06/13/2012
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Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
Yes. I would consider it cheating. I am a straight guy with a girlfriend. If she has sex with a girl, I would consider it cheating right now.
06/13/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
yep
06/13/2012
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
Cheating is cheating no matter what in my book. I would not take them back.
06/13/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
No matter with who or what, cheating is cheating! ~frowns
06/13/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
sorry but i do
06/13/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
If it goes against the terms of your relationship, it's cheating. If you agree that neither of you will view pornography and one of you does, that was cheating. But on the flip side, some people don't consider sex with others cheating under certain circumstances, so it all depends on your relationship.

In ours? Having sex with someone else is CERTAINLY cheating!
06/14/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I think it doesn't matter the sex or sexuality of the other person, I think it's all cheating.

I do agree with ryuson also. It depends on the terms of your relationship. What is considered cheating is very subjective.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
It is cheating and it would be an instant break up for me
06/14/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
i've said it before and i'll say it again .... its cheating if its something your not willing to openly tell me about
06/14/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
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Originally posted by Dixiemomma
i've said it before and i'll say it again .... its cheating if its something your not willing to openly tell me about
I agree completely.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Yes, whether it is with the opposite sex or the same, cheating is cheating.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
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Originally posted by Zombirella
Yes, whether it is with the opposite sex or the same, cheating is cheating.
Exactly
06/14/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
Have sex with someone else is still cheating no matter the gender
06/14/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
It would most definitely still be cheating... I personally don't know how I would handle it. I have never been in that sort of situation and I never will be. I hope this isn't happening to you =( If so I wish you luck on making a descision on what to do next!
06/14/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
If it goes against the terms of your relationship, it's cheating. If you agree that neither of you will view pornography and one of you does, that was cheating. But on the flip side, some people don't consider sex with others cheating under ... more
Very well put! Cheating can be a multitude of things. It just all depends on what you and your S/O have decided is OK and isn't.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
If your relationship dynamics allow for exploration with the opposite sex then no it wouldn't be cheating because it would be understood that this is acceptable. HOWEVER, if you break your word to your partner and you step out then it's cheating regardless of the other person's sex or sexual identification.

I abhor cheating but I did accept my partner's stepping out numerous times so I would probably do so again...but we have an understanding that as long as we use safer sex practices and remain healthy then we are free to do as we please. He is much happier and our relationship is stronger than it has ever been. This wouldn't work for everyone, and I really recommend discussing what you are planning with your partner BEFORE it becomes cheating. Saves time, energy and a lot of heartache.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Yes it is.
06/14/2012
Contributor: RocketBoom RocketBoom
Of course it's cheating. Why wouldn't it be? She's still in a romance with you.
06/14/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
Cheating is the act of betrayal. Doesn't matter the gender, etc.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
Cheating is cheating and I'd never take someone back who didn't love me enough to at least discuss wanting other partners first, and didn't respect me enough as a partner to keep it in their pants.
06/14/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
i think that it is cheating also i just wanted to see what you think because some people dont think that
06/14/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
In my last relationship, my partner didn't mind if I slept with other women. (I still didn't though, because it still felt like cheating even though I 'had permission')

In relationships before him, they did mind. So it was cheating.
06/14/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I think it's cheating.
06/14/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I would think it is cheating as well.
06/14/2012
Contributor: null null
Unless it was previously agreed upon, yes it is.
06/14/2012
Contributor: nori nori
cheating is cheating. doesn't matter the specs of the pairing.
06/14/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
it cheating if your a lesbian and your gf cheats on you with a guy? would you take them back what would you do, and if you were a guy and your bf cheated on you with a girl what would you do
of course it's cheating. being with another person is always cheating unless your SO is cool with it, in which case it's polyamory. whether or not i'd dump their ass depends on the situation, imo, but it is the likeliest option
06/15/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
I would take them back if it only happened once, and we weren't in an open relationship.

Otherwise, they're a meanie-head and I don't want to date them.
06/16/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
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Originally posted by Nacht Stern
Cheating is cheating no matter what in my book. I would not take them back.
agreed.
06/16/2012