hey there EF,
i recently admitted to a friend of mine that i was interested in her/had a crush on her, and she was totally shocked! she said she had no idea, thought we were just friends...
granted, i tried not to overtly flirt with her because i was afraid of what she'd say... but when i finally came out with it i was still surprised she had no clue i was interested.
have you ever had this problem?
the worst part: then we had sex (!!), but now she just wants to be friends... it makes me worry she didn't enjoy it or she regrets it or something, even though she says its to "preserve our friendship." its not that i don't believe she really values our friendship, but i don't really know what to think of that. im trying not to be weird, but i have feelings for her now... help!!
i recently admitted to a friend of mine that i was interested in her/had a crush on her, and she was totally shocked! she said she had no idea, thought we were just friends...
granted, i tried not to overtly flirt with her because i was afraid of what she'd say... but when i finally came out with it i was still surprised she had no clue i was interested.
have you ever had this problem?
the worst part: then we had sex (!!), but now she just wants to be friends... it makes me worry she didn't enjoy it or she regrets it or something, even though she says its to "preserve our friendship." its not that i don't believe she really values our friendship, but i don't really know what to think of that. im trying not to be weird, but i have feelings for her now... help!!
