Have you had a threesome? Why or why not?

Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
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Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
Not yet
05/13/2011
Contributor: xi xi
My partner wants to have a threesome but I'm not entirely sure. We've been toying back and forth with the idea for awhile, but I'm just not entirely sure I'm ready for something like that.
06/03/2011
Contributor: StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
Myself and my partner are looking though.
06/07/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Yes and it was fun and I'd like another please
06/07/2011
Contributor: Top to Bottom Top to Bottom
My current BF isn't into it, but I've had my fair share of group sex, and I'm a huge fan.
06/07/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
Came very close many years ago before I got married, but it never happened.
06/07/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
We would never. To each his/her own but sex is such a special thing to me and I don't ever want to share it with anyone but my husband.
06/28/2011
Contributor: gingernicole gingernicole
I've done where I'm part of the couple and we had a new girl join us. I've also been the new girl with a couple. The drama definitely depends on the people involved and whether they are the jealous type. I would be interested in a 3way w/ two other girls and no guys. I don't think I could ever do it with two guys. It seems so degrading.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Nipplopulous Nipplopulous
Yep! I've had "more"-somes...to me that's more than 4. I like the attention...esp when I'm in the middle of attention
06/28/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
Once, with two boys... it was interesting, to say the least.
06/29/2011
Contributor: hyperfemmepony hyperfemmepony
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Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
I would, with another girl. I just haven't had the opportunity yet.
06/29/2011
Contributor: monkeylover621 monkeylover621
No because I want my girl all to myself. Plus I don't want any unwanted bugs if you know what I mean.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I haven't. I'd be open to the idea, but it'd need to be someone we both wanted, and not just in the short-term.
09/05/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
Yes we have, a few times. It's not so much about wanting more than each other as much as wanting to share new experiences between us. Since we're both bi, we're happy to see (and help) each other with the occasional new experience. It's never been with a stranger though, always with someone we've built up a friendship with first.
09/05/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
I have. Together with my husband several times. Why? Well... first its something we really enjoy doing together. Second, it adds fun, spice and wildness to our sex life and actually it probably reduces the chance that either of us would ever have an extra-marital affair ( which I describe as a spouse or partner having sex behind the others back without knowledge and equal consideration and approval for it to gappen). All of the threesomes we have done so far have been with other guys who are also only hetri (as is my husband) and only with guys we have known or been mutual friends with for a long time. My only advice is really talk about it before you do it for the first time and of there is any dpubt dont.. Also it has to be with and for you and your partner together and both should agree - no feeling like the third wheel. If you do soft sex the firdt time it will give you both a chance to talk about it later befote the actual fucking part happens. Never do your first drunk- it makes you nore likely to do it even if you have second thoughts or get caught in the moment - never do anything drunk you wouldnt do the same if you were sober. Again, it is a huge amount of fun and can be aeesome crazy wild but it cant be taken back once its done so open discussion - good partner srlection and a plan for it to happen will make your first an experience to remember. And for those who do - the rules shouldnt change that you have both agreed on. We have had probably 30-40 threesomes ( most with the same few guys) and we really enjoyed it. I also have open agreement that I can play alone on the side with other guys. I dont ever- and wont ever- without discussing with my husband first the who, what, ehen and where - and he has an absolute right of refusal and that answer holds without arguement or question - and O have the same right on my rnd ( though my husband has never in six plus years taken me up on it being ok for him to play) . Good luck and have fun! Oh... if your single and wanting to do a threeway - just be careful and know whi and what your getting into- and always tell a trusted friend the where and when before you meet anyone. XOX. CreamySweet
09/05/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by CreamySweet
I have. Together with my husband several times. Why? Well... first its something we really enjoy doing together. Second, it adds fun, spice and wildness to our sex life and actually it probably reduces the chance that either of us would ever have an ... more
Great post, Creamy!
09/05/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by PassionCpl
Great post, Creamy!
Thank you PassionCpl! I just wish I could have caught all the typos... hard to type on a phone in an otter box and even harder to find and fix things!
09/05/2011
Contributor: CherryDyke CherryDyke
No thanks. Not my cup of tea
09/06/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I would never have a threesome. It's just not something I'd like to do.
09/06/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I just have no desire to sleep with someone I'm not emotionally involved with.
09/12/2011
Contributor: acessorie acessorie
Did many times in the past before marriage and it was loads of fun
09/12/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Nope, I'm demisexual, and my partner doesn't have casual sex, but if we found a third who came to be as close to us as we are to each other, sure, but neither of us see that happening.
09/13/2011
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
Threesome, yes

Foursome, yes

Any more than four and it's an orgy
09/14/2011
Contributor: socalsusieq socalsusieq
Quote:
Originally posted by lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
I have had a fmf and a mfm threesome. I had always been curious and within the last few years I have been living out fantasies and trying new things. When I leave this world I want to leave knowing I tried everything that I wanted to try. You only live once and I want to enjoy it
09/14/2011
Contributor: mcl272 mcl272
no i haven't! i don't share my man & i'm defiantly not into a one night stand type deal. (usually what threesomes end up being) even if it was a 'long' term deal, i still wouldn't do it. not my thing!
09/14/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Yes. Because my ex and his wife asked if I wanted to. Not really much else to it.
10/17/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I have. My lover at the time wanted to do something nice for me.
10/17/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
Yes, it was me and another Girl, we both liked her and decided we would take our relationship to the next level.
10/18/2011
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
I actually lost my virginity in a threesome. I thought it was fun, haha
10/18/2011
Contributor: babyninz babyninz
only in my fantasy
10/18/2011