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Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Men
32  (34%)
Women
41  (43%)
I am a Gay/Straight/Lesbian Individual & prefer only one to start with
22  (23%)
Total votes: 95
Poll is closed
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Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Women scare the hell out of me, romantically and I found it to be more work than being with a man. I think I understand his needs and have more of a desire to fulfill them than I do a woman's needs. Even though I am myself am woman and embrace some of the less harmful stereo-types of my gender, I just don't want to take care of a woman in that way. I'll have sex with her all day long, though. And this is when my husband would look at me and call me one of the guys while planting a kiss on my forehead.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Quote:
Originally posted by PussyGalore
Women scare the hell out of me, romantically and I found it to be more work than being with a man. I think I understand his needs and have more of a desire to fulfill them than I do a woman's needs. Even though I am myself am woman and embrace ... more
Hahaha awww that's really cute. :3
02/06/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I put women. Even though I'm pretty much gender-blind as well when it comes to attraction, I find that I am more comfortable with women sexually. I'm less self-conscious, and that lets me enjoy myself more.
02/15/2011
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
Other... I'm sexual (for lack of a better term; I don't fit into a box). I find women much more sexually attractive than men, but I have only ever had relationships and sex with men. I think I've preferred relationships with men because let's face it, it's easier socially. I think I've never had sex with a woman because I'm too chicken-shit to flirt with women; it's much safer to assume a man is into me than assume a woman is into other women.
02/15/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I really can't choose. For me, it totally depends on the individual.
02/19/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
I'm pan as well and I really couldn't choose just one. I would have a one day penis and then crave a vag. lol
02/20/2011
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I'm also pansexual (just recently realized--I identified as bisexual before), and before my current significant other (who is male), I would say I was 60% lesbian, 40% straight. While I still feel more attracted to women more than men, my relationship isn't an open one, nor one that is going to end any time soon. If the relationship lasts as long as my partner and I expect it to (for life), I doubt I will ever be with another woman.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Curves Curves
emotionally i'm more attracted to women, and physically it's about equal.
04/28/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
I'm pansexual. I wish 'other' was an option.
06/09/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
In the end, I still want a man..
08/07/2011
Contributor: anonomous anonomous
Females are wayy more attractive to me
08/07/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I voted men because I have never been with a woman before. Although I do tend to find females more attractive. I'm pretty much gender blind. Just no girls have ever been in to me and Im quite shy so have only been approached my guys.
08/07/2011
Contributor: NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
I identify as pan as well but have found recently I am far more attracted to women. Physically women have far more attractive bodies but in order to be in a physical relationship with someone I have to also have a deeper connection. My current partner is a woman, and a very out and proud lesbian, who always teases me about my attraction to men. Looking back at past relationships I can safely say that I have definitely had stronger connections with other women, mentally, emotionally and physically but it does depend on the individual. I am also a very independent type person and do not fit the bill of your stereotypically female in a hetero relationship. I guess what I am saying is while I still find myself attracted to both, I definitely feel a stronger pull towards a beautiful pair of breasts and wet pussy . . .
08/07/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
simple ...women are better ....thats why men fight with us so much
08/08/2011
Contributor: bigfuckindicksDOTnet bigfuckindicksDOTnet
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
men
08/18/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I prefer sex with men, but I dont have a preference when it comes to dating.
08/26/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
personally it isnt about the gender but who they are
08/26/2011
Contributor: LuciFaery LuciFaery
Gurls~ They're soft and nice and have boobies. Which I really, really like. Plus, I tend to get along better with them because I'm dominant and not too many men I've met are into that, or respect it.
08/27/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Women, for sure.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Humor4Fun Humor4Fun
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
i'm definitely into women
12/11/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i'm a straight woman, and i prefer men. i definitely fantasize about women though, and occasionally watch lesbian porn. i don't identify as a lesbian or bi-sexual though
12/11/2011
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I'm a pansexual and I identified as straight before I met my partner
12/18/2011
Contributor: In the Sheets In the Sheets
I have been with men before but I have never really identified myself as straight. Having sex with men is satisfying enough that I can bear it. But I don't think sex is supposed to be something you just bear. Sex with women is something I CRAVE and LOVE. Making a man come is just slightly satisfying to me, just because I like being accomplished. But making a woman come can make me orgasm without even touching myself. That is what I need from sex. And while I can't say I'll never have sex with a man again I know I'll never have a long-term relationship with one because it just wouldn't be sexually satisfying enough for me.
12/30/2011
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
I'm pretty content with a male but a female every once in a while...
02/01/2012
Contributor: Susen Susen
I prefer androgynous people. I'll take a butch lesbian over anyone any day, and if she's more comfortable being my "boyfriend" I'm cool with that too. Not as attracted to guys, but the longer the hair, the skinnier, the better.
05/08/2012
Contributor: Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
I'm a lesbian, so I only really like one to begin with!
05/09/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-Justice
OK just a quick question because I'm feeling nosy today.

I'm a pan sexual women. I'm basically gender blind. But anyway, being a Bi, Pan, what ever person,(If you HAD too choose) do you find yourself preferring men or women more?
i have no idea what the third option in the poll is trying to say
05/10/2012
Contributor: marshmallow marshmallow
women!
05/31/2012
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
pansexual lady, and i think i like all genders about equally sexually? but i'm more attracted to ladies in the romantic attraction area.
05/31/2012