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When Harry Met Sally: Can men and women really be just friends?

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Contributor: RememberMe RememberMe
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Yes
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61  (91%)
No
atryonix , Apirka , MacNCheese , K101 , JMTPG , AishiteruYO
6  (9%)
Total votes: 67
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11/24/2012
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Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I think they can.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I think so, yes.
11/24/2012
Contributor: rosythorn rosythorn
yes, but the need other friends too. and 'couple' friends are always nice!
11/24/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I think so, but it isn't as common as same sex friendships.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Virgingasms Virgingasms
I don't see any reason why not.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I think some people can't. but for most people I think they can definitely just be friends.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I think so, some of my best friends have been of the opposite sex.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Yes they can.
11/24/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
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Yes they can.
Sure they can... ^^
11/24/2012
Contributor: neil i. neil i.
Yeah, they really can.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by RememberMe
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Absolutely. I have many male friends where no sex or feelings are involved. I can also, and have many times, had sex with no string attached which many people think are impossible.
11/24/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Definitely!! I have had many friends that were male and they were as good and close as my female friends--just in a bit of a different way.
11/24/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Absolutely I have TONS of male friends and I have never slept with them. I also have males friends that were flings or no strings attached deals. I prefer male friends over female friends. I really don't see why men and women can't be just FRIENDS without there having to be more to it.
11/24/2012
Contributor: atryonix atryonix
I think it can happen but most of the time it doesnt work out. Someone ends up falling in love with someone
11/24/2012
Contributor: Molly Carter Molly Carter
Definitely can happen, but sometimes things don't work out. I've always been a girl who hangs out with guys, so some of my best friends are dudes. My husband doesn't always approve, but yes, girls and guys can be just friends.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Sure, provided one of them is gay.
11/24/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Sure. I have a lot of friends that are girls and we aren't interested in each other like that at all.
11/24/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I have a bunch of straight male friends. Whom of which I do not sleep with.
11/24/2012
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
who cares if you are sexually attracted to your friend or they are to you. As long as you are an adult about it friendship is easy enough
11/24/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
I'd say you can definitely be friends with someone of the opposite gender, but it helps if both of you have an outlet for your romantic feelings
11/24/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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yes and no i think when ur just friends usually something happends or has already happen and the temtation is there
11/24/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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yes and no i think when ur just friends usually something happends or has already happen and the temtation is there
11/24/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Yeah, people of opposite genders can be friends.
11/25/2012
Contributor: invisiblehat invisiblehat
Yes. My best friend is a guy.
11/25/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Absolutely!
11/25/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
In my experiences, no. I personally prefer to be friends with men because I get along better with them (and almost all of my female friends have fucked me over). BUT I have never had a male friend that didn't want to sleep with me, and then if they ever did, then they stopped being my friend after that. I'm not some super hot vixen or anything, but I've never had a (male) friend who didn't want something from me, and that really hurts.
11/25/2012
Contributor: Alyona Alyona
Yes
11/25/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
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I have guys that I'm just friends with. I'm gay, nothing other than friends would be happening with them.
11/25/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Definitely. The term "friendzone" exists for a reason!
11/30/2012