My boyfriend doesn't usually pay attention to that stuff. The first time we had sex he insisted we have the tv running in the background and that was irritating to me. It was something about the moon landing and I think he did it on purpose lmao. But before being with him, some of the best times by myself I was just hanging out playing records or cds. Back then the best things to enjoy myself to were bands like Red Hot Chili Peppers Marilyn Manson and the Deftones. These days I prefer tool and A Perfect Circle and Alice in Chains. But I'm strange. Alice In Chains really gets me going.