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Originally posted by
Supervixen
Why? It's not a competition for less or more! You don't need to feel dirty for being sexually active.
certainly not a competition...and people shouldn't feel dirty for being sexually active. i just find it interesting how repressed i was by comparison to most here when i was in my late teens and early twenties. it's not a condemnation of sexually active people...mine is a feeling of sadness for having missed opportunities where others did not. does that make any sense? a regret for not having lived life to it's fullest to this point. and, let's face it, one cannot get that time back. it's not like a person can be thirty five and just choose to go back and relive it. it's not the same. and it's not entirely about sex either...it's just an indication of the open nature of a person. so, i hope nobody thought this was about competition. and, if you did, i hope this clarifies my reason for asking the question. by the way, i'm 35 and have been with six. the first for four years, the third was also four years, and the sixth i'm married to and has now been eight years...and i feel like i should have sewn more oats...not to be vulgar about it.
