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Contributor: misterazor misterazor
how early do you have sex with someone you are dating...
is it a set number of dates, or is it a situation by situation thing?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
set number
situational
57  (93%)
a combination of both
4  (7%)
Total votes: 61
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12/10/2012
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Contributor: Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
for me I move fairly fast...it's probably not the best idea, or very smart for that matter but ... it's what I do
12/10/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
It depends on the situation, there's no set rule
12/10/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
With nearly all of my "long term" relationships, we had sex in one form or another on the first or second date.
12/10/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends on the situation. Our current relationship, we had sex the first night (it was amazing!)...we have been together now for over 2 years.
12/10/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Definitely depends on a lot of factors.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
situational
12/10/2012
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
I'm married but prior to that it depended on the situation.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how early do you have sex with someone you are dating...
is it a set number of dates, or is it a situation by situation thing?
Situational, but if it was up to me, usually first or second meeting
12/10/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I like to wait awhile so I feel like I know them pretty well first, but it's not a set number of dates either. I usually wait around a month or so if we've been seeing each other pretty often.
12/10/2012
Contributor: invisiblehat invisiblehat
It's definitely situational for me.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Meltingfish Meltingfish
I tend to move pretty fast, but it definitely depends.
12/10/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
As soon as she'll let me.
12/10/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Entirely situational. Waited for marriage with my husband (a little over 2 years). Waited.....about 45 minutes with that one guy....soooooo yeah.
12/10/2012
Contributor: TWE112 TWE112
situational. which if its completely up to me is pretty quickly
12/10/2012
Contributor: femme filth femme filth
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how early do you have sex with someone you are dating...
is it a set number of dates, or is it a situation by situation thing?
i fist on the first date. in all seriousness, it depends on the context (aka it's totally situational) & a discussion about boundaries, safety, & all that jazz absolutely must happen first.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
If it feels right, and both parties agree, then let's get all tangled up on the first date.
12/10/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
When it feels right
12/10/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how early do you have sex with someone you are dating...
is it a set number of dates, or is it a situation by situation thing?
situational
12/10/2012
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
I just let things happen.
12/10/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Lickable Lollie
for me I move fairly fast...it's probably not the best idea, or very smart for that matter but ... it's what I do
it's hard to fault passion. thanks for the post.
12/11/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
With nearly all of my "long term" relationships, we had sex in one form or another on the first or second date.
i, as well, don't think it has that much affect on the potential length of a relationship. thanks for the post.
12/11/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretKinksters
Depends on the situation. Our current relationship, we had sex the first night (it was amazing!)...we have been together now for over 2 years.
more proof that having sex early does not doom a relationship. thanks.
12/11/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Geogeo
Situational, but if it was up to me, usually first or second meeting
sex is just good fun. thanks for the post!
12/11/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I like to wait awhile so I feel like I know them pretty well first, but it's not a set number of dates either. I usually wait around a month or so if we've been seeing each other pretty often.
this is the first post with any kind of time limit. i usually waited until i felt comfortable with someone. for me, being a guy and being me, it was important for me to feel comfortable...likely for obvious reasons. anyway, i think it can be a good thing to have a limit, if you know that you do better with that stipulation. thanks for the post.
12/11/2012
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by luvslukin
As soon as she'll let me.
and this brings up a thought. are women always repsonsible for setting the timeframe?
12/11/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I don't move fast, but if we have a great connection, I will wait months. I like to look forward to something! And it builds anticipation.
12/11/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
Situational. Usually months.
12/11/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
how early do you have sex with someone you are dating...
is it a set number of dates, or is it a situation by situation thing?
I'm a little easy. LOL
12/11/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
I hate dates.
when I decide I want to have sex with person I'm dating I have sex with them.
12/11/2012