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Ladies, would you want your man to open the door for you?

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Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Ladies, would you want your man to open the door for you?
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Yes, I'd love it. It's sweet.
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53  (73%)
Yes, it's okay.
Swish , Deidrenicole , CindyH , Khanner , Allison.Wilder
5  (7%)
No, I can open it myself.
Ghost , - Kira - , sweetiejo , Azule , samanthalynn , ViVix , Hot'n'Bothered , joja
8  (11%)
No, it is corny.
pootpootpoot
1  (1%)
Meh, it's the thought that counts.
calliope , BabyCheeks
2  (3%)
Other
Sex Positivity , Red Vinyl Kitty , SimpleTeaser , Intrepid Niddering
4  (5%)
Total votes: 73
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Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
All 6 years we dated and the last almost a year of our marriage, my husband has opened every door we've gone through. I expect it and love it. It's not a spoiled thing, it's a gentleman thing.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by BlooJay
Ladies, would you want your man to open the door for you?
Sigel has always opened doors for me since we were in HighSchool and Arch does as well it's way for them to show they value and love me.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
All 6 years we dated and the last almost a year of our marriage, my husband has opened every door we've gone through. I expect it and love it. It's not a spoiled thing, it's a gentleman thing.
Exactly....when I am training a new sub I love watching his/her reaction when I wait for them (sometimes rather impatiently ) to open and hold the door. Now my guys will damn near mow me down to get to the door first. They are gentlemen and it is very sweet.
02/20/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Exactly....when I am training a new sub I love watching his/her reaction when I wait for them (sometimes rather impatiently ) to open and hold the door. Now my guys will damn near mow me down to get to the door first. They are gentlemen and it is ... more
I love it I guess I just feel his respect when he does it. It makes me feel like his princess and that's one of his ways of showing me. Just as he would pull out a chair for me, or I would serve him at dinner.
02/20/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Yes, it would be nice.
02/20/2012
Contributor: rawsonbr rawsonbr
I like it!
02/20/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
A gentelman always opens the door. It's just common courtesy.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Yes, it's nice that my husband opens the door for me, and sometimes I'll return the favor if I reached the door before him. I think it's the thought that counts, and also having nice etiquettes.
02/20/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Exactly....when I am training a new sub I love watching his/her reaction when I wait for them (sometimes rather impatiently ) to open and hold the door. Now my guys will damn near mow me down to get to the door first. They are gentlemen and it is ... more
I'm actually feelin' kinda jealous....

Hehehe, it is very sweet though, I agree!
02/20/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
I do think it's the part of basic manners, but I am never offended if someone doesn't do it for me...

With manners you show respect towards the other, be it the same sex or the opposite, a friend or just a stranger, manners is one of the best ways to express love, care, and respect towards the other creature... ^^
02/20/2012
Contributor: ladychristie ladychristie
I do love it I think it's sweet but my boyfriend doesn't do it
02/20/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My husband doesn't open the door for me, but I think that's sweet. If I'm slightly ahead of someone at the store I'll hold the door open for them until they get there and I've had others do it for me.
02/20/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I get all weirded out when anyone opens doors for me, especially my husband. There's a lot of things I like done for me but that is not one of them.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Graniteal Graniteal
I think it's very sweet
02/20/2012
Contributor: Howells Howells
I like to open the doors for the ladies but there is one thing which is open for debate. I was told that I should open the door and go in first, then invide the girl in, while holding the door. But my roots say that I should open it and hold it from the outside till she goes in ahead of me, then I follow her in. Which is preferred?
02/20/2012
Contributor: Swish Swish
He usually holds the door but not if i get there first! i enjoy holding the door sometimes :]
02/20/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I like when he opens the door for me, since I usually have my hands full with a baby and the diaper bag, so yes I love it, but I don't expect it every time. If we are alone, he is a gentle man and opens the door for me.
02/20/2012
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by BlooJay
Ladies, would you want your man to open the door for you?
I think it's very sweet
02/20/2012
Contributor: Deidrenicole Deidrenicole
it would be sweet, but definitely not a requirement.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Deidrenicole Deidrenicole
it would be sweet, but definitely not a requirement.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Deidrenicole Deidrenicole
it would be sweet, but definitely not a requirement.
02/20/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I think it can quickly become annoying. For me if he's already in front of me then please but if hes by my side or worse behind me and hurries up to grab it i find it annoying. I'm not helpless I can get a door by myself just fine, I don't need a maid servant to open it.
02/20/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It would be nice here and there.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
I really appreciate it.
02/20/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
Of course I wouldn't be heartbroken if he hadn't opened the door for me, but I think it is a sweet gesture.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Yes, it's nice
03/11/2012
Contributor: misskat misskat
I love it. My favorite is when he opens my car door and then walks around and gets in on his side. Such a gentlemanly gesture.
03/13/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
Yes but not all the time.
03/13/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
He doesn't do it all the time, especially when we're in a hurry. But he's only human. I do love it when he does remember tho! It's become more frequent since we've had our son since usually I hold the baby and he gets the diaper bag.
03/13/2012