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If your lover has a cold/ is sick, would you still want to sleep with them?

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Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget the snot train you might have to wipe off your face. Seriously, Would you still want to have sexual encounters with your partner if they are sick? *explain*
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Don't get me sick, Stay clear of me!
PussyGalore , Stephanie Marie , namelesschaos , dv8 , LennaKieran , Vegan Silk , SexyLilPixi , ily , Steve of Eden , Ghost , sarki , EJ , kkross65 , Breas , Sohotdinosaur , Pink Jewel , beachluv51800 , Paula
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Have sex but with very little touching/kissing.
Pleasure Piratess , indiglo , tickle me pink , AOutrajus , K101 , kittychilla , phunkyphreak , Eucaly , playtimeohsofun , Miss Naughty Kitty , shySEXXaddict , Beck , Ash1141
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If I or they are sick, just masturbate.
AOutrajus , GravyCakes , Trishcuit629 , her angelness
4
Thats just disgusting, no runny noses during any sexual activity.
Vegan Silk , ily , TheHardOne
3
No sex or anything if I'm sick
Moein , Bunnycups , BeautiFullFigured , Stephanie Marie , ColorSplash , mama2007 , cujo467 , Rossie , Vegan Silk , GravyCakes , ily , irishlove , CAKES , toxie m , Eucaly , Seth912 , ThoughtsAblaze , LikeSunshineDust , Ash1141 , Pink Jewel , TheHardOne
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No sex or anything if my partner is sick.
Moein , Stephanie Marie , Rossie , Vegan Silk , GravyCakes , irishlove , CAKES , toxie m , Seth912 , ThoughtsAblaze , LikeSunshineDust
11
Doesn't matter who is or isn't sick, they are all mine all the time.
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I'll still sleep with them if they are sick, doesn't bother me.
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*Other* (always have to have an 'other')
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Total votes: 249 (158 voters)
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Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
Sickness doesnt bother me
02/18/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
As long as they feel up to it, the sickness doesn't bother me.
02/18/2011
Contributor: lezergirl lezergirl
I kinda feel like regardless of what I do I'm going to catch it, so I might as well go all out and make my gf feel better
02/19/2011
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
We do it all the time when we're sick, I figure there's no way we're going to avoid the germs anyway.
02/19/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
I would, but no kissing. I get sick way to often to have them give me something!
02/19/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
I will be a Merciless person if I am going to have sex with my wife while she feels sick.

Sex need to be relax and normal so you can get fun for longer time.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
it depends on the illness. a few weeks ago i was so sick i couldnt lift my head, then-no sex. If its just a cold, no vomiting or severe pain, then lets go!
02/19/2011
Contributor: IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
It wouldn't bother me... I figure that if I were around the person enough, I'd end up getting sick sooner or later anyway no matter how careful I tried to be.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
When I have a sinus infection and a double ear infection sex is the last thing on my mind. If my partner were sick I'd still sleep in the same bed as them, I don't care.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I still sleep with him...don't like the couch very much! lol
02/19/2011
Contributor: Adam02viper Adam02viper
Quote:
Originally posted by Cream in the Cupcake
it depends on the illness. a few weeks ago i was so sick i couldnt lift my head, then-no sex. If its just a cold, no vomiting or severe pain, then lets go!
I agree, it really depends on just how sick my partner is.
02/20/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Depends on if its contagious or not, a cold probably, but something else, probably not.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
Nope I would not for sure.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
As long as we both up for it we will still be intimate. Sometimes we do hold back on the kissing, but that is usually only if stuffy noses are involved and it makes it hard to breathe. As far as germs go, I pretty much figure I'm doomed whether we abstain or not, so might as well enjoy.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
If he's up for it then there's no issue. I'm already around him while he's sick to take care of him so a little intimacy isn't going to hurt a thing. If I get sick then that just means it's his turn to take care of me
02/20/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
My thoughts? i know i don't feel attractive when i'm sick and my partner probably doesn't either. If i can make my partner feel attractive by trying to sex them up, it's a nice thing to do. Especially since we live together and chances are that i'll be sick in no time.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Chances are, if you are living in the same house, sleeping in the same bed, you are going to get it anyways. If were in the mood while sick, of course.
02/20/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
It doesn't bother me. Chances are I'm going to get whatever he has anyway, just from being close to him.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Eorwyn Eorwyn
I'm always sick (not contagious sick) but I'm still up for sex.
02/20/2011
Contributor: littlezimmey littlezimmey
As much time as I spend with my partner at home, we're going to end up passing it around the house anyways, so might as well. I know sex gives me a temporary reprieve from my stuffy nose so I'm game unless one of us is that icky extreme "don't touch me" sick.
02/20/2011
Contributor: ColorSplash ColorSplash
I wouldn't really do it when I am but if they want to when they are I would do it. Doesnt bug me.
03/11/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
If its only a cold,or something that's not overly severe then its fine.no problem at all.but if I'm like delirious with fever,or I can barely move (happened to my vday,got strep throat and went to the hospital),then no way cuz that could be very dangerous (especially with dizziness)
03/15/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
My husband has sex with me no matter whether or not I am sick. Personally, I'd rather steer clear of him if he is sick, but it isn't up to me (that's just our dynamic). Luckily, the times we have sex when he is sick I never seem to pick up his germs. Whew.
03/15/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
It all depends on how sick we are and how horny we are.
03/26/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
We still have sex, sick or not.
03/26/2011
Contributor: SaucyMan SaucyMan
Well, I want to sleep with nearly every woman I meet, ill or no. I don't. Just think I need to make that clear. But if I was so very horny? I might just ask them to face the other way...
03/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
If it's a minor respiratory infection, like a cold, and he is feeling basically OK. I'm good with sex. I'm most likely already exposed.

If it is a gastrointestinal infection NO! I will sleep somewhere else.
03/26/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
So if you haven't figured it out, I'm sick. We'll, I have a funky nose. I don't feel very attractive so I don't want to get intimate with my partner. Who would want to hear sniffling and sneezing while having sex. Don't forget ... more
i currently have a cold and cant breathe outta my nose lol. i cant smell or taste anything, it sucks. im waiting til cold is better to have sex/oral with hubby unless hes in mood b4.
03/26/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Depends how sick they are...if it's just a cold, sure, if it's pneumonia - yeah, not so much.
03/26/2011