The Truth

Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I would have made the same decision! My guy started getting irritated with how much time I spent online when I was working and still in school, while he was working too. I stopped playing games online to avoid problems between us. I now only play one, sometime two, but I'm not obsessed like I was before. It's hard balancing many things at once!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Msmueller Msmueller
Congrats at making the best decision for your family, those decisions always seem to be the hardest.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Thanks for sharing Stormy. You didn't owe us an explanation, but its nice to know why there are changes to EF, especially when it involves someone everyone likes and respects. I applaud you for your decision, this coming from a husband who has also fought frustration because of the time demands of a wife's career. I wish you the best of luck as a housewife and I'm glad you're still with us on EF and in the forum.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Thanks for all you did for the community and making it a fun place to hang out. It was nice to hear your reasons and I think you made the right choice. I'm glad you'll be sticking around.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Trysexual
Thanks for all you did for the community and making it a fun place to hang out. It was nice to hear your reasons and I think you made the right choice. I'm glad you'll be sticking around.
Thank you! I've always loved Eden and reviewing. Once I get my "review focus" back, I'll start churning out a few here and there. I'm sure there are sixty follow up reviews I could write.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Thanks for sharing Stormy. You didn't owe us an explanation, but its nice to know why there are changes to EF, especially when it involves someone everyone likes and respects. I applaud you for your decision, this coming from a husband who has ... more
We've been together for thirteen years and I really kinda like the guy so...

Seriously, until I started getting deeper and deeper into the company I don't think either one of us realized just how driven I could be. This was the first time in my work-life where I was not met with a glass ceiling and I could express my thoughts and ideas and have them be appreciated. I'm not even going to lie that that can be extremely addictive - just solve one more piece of the puzzle, take care of that one thread you just saw, oh and don't forget to do this and that. I may as well have been magenta/chartreuse-spo tted as far as he was concerned. All I did was talk or think about Eden.

Now I get to be a part of it and enjoy it all. Besides my house was a wreck. LOLOL I get to occupy my time with some deep cleaning and Xbox.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Msmueller
Congrats at making the best decision for your family, those decisions always seem to be the hardest.
Thank you!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Zombirella
I would have made the same decision! My guy started getting irritated with how much time I spent online when I was working and still in school, while he was working too. I stopped playing games online to avoid problems between us. I now only play ... more
This is exactly why I don't game. I have one game that I've been working on for almost two years and I've only completed 45% of it. I'm glad you were able to find a good balance. I mean it's never a good thing to give up something you truly love if it isn't hurting anything (you know people who make irrational demands for no reason), but when it's a problem it needs to be fixed.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
You most definitely didn't owe anyone an explanation, but nevertheless, I'm sure we appreciate knowing, and are most importantly glad to know that you are okay. <3 It'll be nice to still see you around.
Thanks Jenn! It was certainly a pleasure working with you. <3
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by November
Thanks for starting this thread to explain what happened. Now all the rumors will be put to rest.

I think you made the right choice and that you won't regret it, like Hazeleyes2012 said, family always comes first. I look forward to ... more
I never mind explaining myself, the reasoning is usually sound. Usually. I'm pretty glad you guys still want me around. Sometimes when a person exits a situation like this, they are chased out with pitchforks and torches. And this is precisely why I love the community. When everyone is positive and supportive of each other, it really gives the place personality.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
I'll miss you most of all, Scarecrow, I mean, Gary.

(I'm so sorry. I couldn't resist and it was right there.)
Miss Troublemaker LOLOL I can spank you now! muhahahahaha

(Seriously, I chuckled.)
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Gone (LD29)
Given your reasons, I think you made the right decision. So glad to hear that you're going to remain a part of the community even if you're not here in an admin capacity anymore. You know we would all miss you terribly!

I'd miss you guys way too much. I absolutely enjoy interacting with you all and now I'll have time to play! YAY!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by edeneve
thank you, Stormy, for sharing your truth w/ all of us. this will stop all the rumors and guessing. we all have to do what is right for ourselves or all hell can break loose in our lives. you obviously have your priorities that work for you set in ... more
I think one of the first threads I started on the forum was "how the hell do you deal with all this stuff". I was so confused but through other people being willing to work with me on it, I eventually learned the site. I know how it feels to be lost or left out and I never wanted that for any of you. You've pretty much got the hang of things now. It just takes time.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by SneakersAndPearls
But in all seriousness (and I meant to post this 20 minutes ago but am easily distracted. You know how I am), I think you made the right decision and I respect you for it. You were awesome as staff and I'm sure you will continue to be awesome as ... more
Thank you sweetie!!! I'll still be skype-bombing you, don't worry!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Whoa weird Chrome hiccup!
Double post?
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by P'Gell
We'll miss you as an Admin, Stormy. You were very kind to me when I was having stuff going on, and I really appreciate it.

Your life with your husband is paramount. Go enjoy him and enjoy your life doing what you love best.

Thank you! I do so miss sparring with you on hot topics, I hope you'll come hang out with us a little more often but I know you're crazy busy these days.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by PeaceToTheMiddleEast
So happy to hear you will be sticking around. Sometimes you just have to make the right choices in life. Also thanks for letting us in even if it is only a little bit.
Thank you! Nice avatar change, btw.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Missy27
Stormy, thank you for your dedication and contribution and your willingness to help at all times. Looking forward to seeing you as a community member.
My pleasure and I look forward to being one. Life has already dramatically slowed down and hubby and I are happy and healthy.
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Sammi
Yes, more reviews from you!
And you!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm sorry things were rough for you, but you definitely made the right choice. I wish you and your husband all the best!
Thank you!!
03/26/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Bme
Best wishes in your future. Choosing your marriage over a job is the right thing to do. Even if it is a great job that you love, Your job will go on without you but your spouse will not.
I'd just die without him to tell you the truth...we're essentially attached at the hip.
03/26/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
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Originally posted by Ansley
Thank you! Nice avatar change, btw.
Your welcome and thank you. I love my avatar as well. It's my favorite color and the girl and the cat are too cute. I have had a couple of chats with you and would have missed your presence I meant to say that earlier.
03/26/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*

Big hugs and tons of love hunnie! I would have made the same decision if I had that much time invested and my partner could keep us both afloat financially I am glad you are going to still be around I still find myself thinking "What would Stormy do?" but that doesn't help me now damnit lol. I am glad though that you are going to be sticking around. Always enjoyed our chats and whatnot. You ROCKED as an Admin and I know you will rock as a community member.
03/27/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
So glad that we were able to hear from you about all of this. It's good to know the truth, though I'm sorry that this is how things turned out. You made the absolute best choice given your circumstances and I admire you that much more for ... more
I couldn't have said it any better!

I'm glad you decided to let us know what happened, thank you for sharing that with us. We will definitely miss you as an Admin here on Eden but at least you get to stick around and do the fun stuff. I'm a housewife too so *high fives!*
03/28/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I'm just glad that you will be still be around the forum! That would have killed us if you left for good.
03/28/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by *Camoprincess*

Big hugs and tons of love hunnie! I would have made the same decision if I had that much time invested and my partner could keep us both afloat financially I am glad you are going to still be around I still find myself thinking "What would ... more
Just awwww You're so sweet!! Thank you!
03/30/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Kitka
I couldn't have said it any better!

I'm glad you decided to let us know what happened, thank you for sharing that with us. We will definitely miss you as an Admin here on Eden but at least you get to stick around and do the fun stuff. ... more
*high five* Being a housewife rocks! My house is sooooo clean now!
03/30/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by XxFallenAngelxX
I'm just glad that you will be still be around the forum! That would have killed us if you left for good.
Too sweet, I think I'm just as addicted to Eden as you all are!
03/30/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
Thanks for all of your hard work and good luck with your future <3.
03/30/2013
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
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Originally posted by Ansley
Miss Troublemaker LOLOL I can spank you now! muhahahahaha

(Seriously, I chuckled.)
Too many jokes are vying for my attention right now to pick one, so I'll just say HA!
03/30/2013