I am a pretty big girl and have been rejected for it my whole life. I have found someone who loves me for me, but I have always wanted to know what size of a women, do most men and women prefer?
What size women do you prefer?
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That's so great to read. The world needs more people like you.
Originally posted by
Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
I understand how you feel, @deadpoet. I'm a full-figured woman too and I'm super, intensely insecure over it. But my partner seems to love me anyway.
08/23/2010
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This post wasn't meant to offensive to anyone. This is just something I have always wanted to ask. I never do it in person, because some people lay to make others happy
Originally posted by
deadpoet
I am a pretty big girl and have been rejected for it my whole life. I have found someone who loves me for me, but I have always wanted to know what size of a women, do most men and women prefer?
08/24/2010
My wife is a combination of buxom and athletic - and as many have said what makes her sexy is that I love & adore her!
In an related story; I just read a story that claims a study found that women athletes have higher levels of clitoral blood flow - which is linked to increased arousal and orgasmic potential!
Staying in shape is relative - we can't all be a Venus or Adonis - but everything we do to improve ourselves pays of by improving out current status.
In an related story; I just read a story that claims a study found that women athletes have higher levels of clitoral blood flow - which is linked to increased arousal and orgasmic potential!
Staying in shape is relative - we can't all be a Venus or Adonis - but everything we do to improve ourselves pays of by improving out current status.
08/24/2010
It's a good thing my partner likes girls with meat, but I am definitely thick and curvy. We started dating when I was at my skinniest, and I have obviously gained weight since then, and he still loves me. Thankfully I have a keeper. But he has always liked curvier girls. His last partner before me was a big-bootied latina.
10/22/2010
It's a good thing my partner likes girls with meat, but I am definitely thick and curvy. We started dating when I was at my skinniest, and I have obviously gained weight since then, and he still loves me. Thankfully I have a keeper. But he has always liked curvier girls. His last partner before me was a big-bootied latina.
10/22/2010
I find the question to be a little loaded - as most of the people here I can say that I would like a woman to just be herself, regardless of size; I like women with some fire in their bellies - whether they are itty bitty things or lovely curvy ladies makes no real matter to me, just so long as they are proud and tough.
However, to boil it down to pure physical attraction without any other factors I will honestly say that my eyes tend to linger longer on athletic girls more, particularly if they are short and have smaller than average breasts. Being a great big bastard myself, I suppose I tend to covet bodies that are different than mine own.
However, to boil it down to pure physical attraction without any other factors I will honestly say that my eyes tend to linger longer on athletic girls more, particularly if they are short and have smaller than average breasts. Being a great big bastard myself, I suppose I tend to covet bodies that are different than mine own.
10/24/2010
I'm less interested in what a person looks like and more interested in who they are. That being said, I've been physically attracted to petite women, busty women, full figured women. I consider many different body structures appealing. I'm on the chunky side myself (though I've recently lost ten pounds and frown trying to figure out where it came from; I don't see a difference... ) and I've always been perfectly alright with what I look like but there certainly aren't people lining up for me. Their loss, though
One thing I do like in women is when they're shorter than me. It doesn't even have to be by a lot, just a little. I'm 5'11" so it's not exactly hard for a woman to be shorter, lol. And I find men being taller than me attractive. I'm not saying I wouldn't fall for someone whose height isn't attractive to me, though, because there are about a bajillion different factors in attraction and height is just one.
One thing I do like in women is when they're shorter than me. It doesn't even have to be by a lot, just a little. I'm 5'11" so it's not exactly hard for a woman to be shorter, lol. And I find men being taller than me attractive. I'm not saying I wouldn't fall for someone whose height isn't attractive to me, though, because there are about a bajillion different factors in attraction and height is just one.
10/24/2010
My hubby says the same as the Pastor does, "You are my type." But, it's no secret that he likes a chunkier girl. As I venture into this world of eating healthy and exercise (despite that first few days that TOM comes to visit and all commitments to health go down the drain), I sometimes struggle and worry that I won't be attractive to him. He always reassures me that no matter what size I am (except the anorexic size... no offense to anyone who's struggled), he will be attracted to me.
On my part though, while I am straight, the women I always find most attractive are the wispy, slender girls who are slightly boyish. I'm not a huge fan of big boobs. Those girls who never seem to have to make an effort into their beauty, they just are. But like CheerfulLoner said, it's probably a covetous thing.
For those of you who watched The L Word, girls that are like the character Shay, or even that are more feminine that her, but that body type.
On my part though, while I am straight, the women I always find most attractive are the wispy, slender girls who are slightly boyish. I'm not a huge fan of big boobs. Those girls who never seem to have to make an effort into their beauty, they just are. But like CheerfulLoner said, it's probably a covetous thing.
For those of you who watched The L Word, girls that are like the character Shay, or even that are more feminine that her, but that body type.
10/25/2010
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A lot of them do. I'm pretty petite and thin, but gaining weight on my BC pill and my husband doesn't mind at all. As long as you find a guy who loves you for you, and not just your body, he will always love your body no matter what you look like.
Originally posted by
deadpoet
I was so hoping someone would say that. I wish all men thought the way you do.
02/20/2011
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Fluffy = thick/heavyset/full-fi gured
Originally posted by
sasweetheart89
what is fluffy? i have never heard that term before
Size isn't something that affects how I love.
It isn't something I use to determine my attraction to a person.
HOWEVER...I could not have a good relationship with someone who was morbidly obese, by this I mean someone who is so obese to the point that they can barely move from their beds, that they cannot perform simple everyday functions.
I could not be with someone who did not love themselves (Or friends/family) enough to respect their health enough to seek help in managing their health.
I could and would love them, but I could not maintain a healthy relationship with them. I could not support someone who was killing themselves.
If they were actively seeking help in managing their health, I would support them, help them, and I might be able to have a relationship with them.
I feel the same way about a person who would destroy their health with drugs and/or alcohol.
02/20/2011
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Wow, now I feel like a jerk for what I was thinking. Which, I suppose, I have to relate now.
Originally posted by
Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
All I could think was "There's no one perfect size. I want a woman of every size. In fact, I want several of each. Monogamy is the only reason I'd even have to pick one over the others. Yeah, that's right, those idiots who came up with monogamy are the only reason people have body issues. Wait a minute: I'm in a monogamous relationship. I'm a reason people have body issues. I'm an awful person. Ah well. My girlfriend looks great. Take that, world!"
So I guess what I'm saying is, in a roundabout way I've come to the same conclusion. Now, if you'll all excuse me, I'm going to go work on being a better person.
02/20/2011
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This is what my man really thinks about me. We started together I wore size 7 pants, I went up to a 16 and back down to a 12 almost 10 now. His love and sex has never changed no matter what size I was.
Originally posted by
Passionate Pastor
I voted other because my perfect size woman is not a size but a woman. Whatever size my wife happens to be is the perfect size for me.
So glad to see other good hearted men out there.
02/20/2011
I would love my wife no matter what size she was. But at the same time, I would have a problem if she was not taking care of herself. Either over weight from eating wrong and not being active, or under weight from just not eating. This world has everyone thinking that we look at someone with weight issues, and have anything but a positive view; then we are being jerks, assholes, ect.. Well I think that once again this world is wrong. I am not going to love someone less because they have a weight problem. I have many members of my family with weight issues. Some don't care, and continue to have medical problems because of it. Others battle it every day with their diet and activity.
I am sorry, but I have had to watch too many people die with heath issues that they were too young to have. I want to do everything I can to live a long and happy life with my wife and kids. I want to see my grandkids grow up.
I am sorry, but I have had to watch too many people die with heath issues that they were too young to have. I want to do everything I can to live a long and happy life with my wife and kids. I want to see my grandkids grow up.
02/20/2011
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*gigglesnort* I was so closeted when I wrote this. And it's Shane, not Shay (damn my bad memory)
Originally posted by
BBW Talks Toys
My hubby says the same as the Pastor does, "You are my type." But, it's no secret that he likes a chunkier girl. As I venture into this world of eating healthy and exercise (despite that first few days that TOM comes to visit and all
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My hubby says the same as the Pastor does, "You are my type." But, it's no secret that he likes a chunkier girl. As I venture into this world of eating healthy and exercise (despite that first few days that TOM comes to visit and all commitments to health go down the drain), I sometimes struggle and worry that I won't be attractive to him. He always reassures me that no matter what size I am (except the anorexic size... no offense to anyone who's struggled), he will be attracted to me.
On my part though, while I am straight, the women I always find most attractive are the wispy, slender girls who are slightly boyish. I'm not a huge fan of big boobs. Those girls who never seem to have to make an effort into their beauty, they just are. But like CheerfulLoner said, it's probably a covetous thing.
For those of you who watched The L Word, girls that are like the character Shay, or even that are more feminine that her, but that body type.
On my part though, while I am straight, the women I always find most attractive are the wispy, slender girls who are slightly boyish. I'm not a huge fan of big boobs. Those girls who never seem to have to make an effort into their beauty, they just are. But like CheerfulLoner said, it's probably a covetous thing.
For those of you who watched The L Word, girls that are like the character Shay, or even that are more feminine that her, but that body type.
That said, while I am more attracted to more slender, androgynous girls on sight, I'm much more attracted to personality and am highly attracted to people who are intelligent, witty, clever, funny, and confident, regardless of body type.
06/19/2011
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