What turns you on ?

What turns you on ?

OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
What turns you on?

What catches your fancy ?

Hourglass figure, big bugle in crotch area, ample tits, tight clothes, round shapely butt, nice smile, nice complexion, nice personality, nice hair, well groomed, bearded, sideburns, muscular, trim, meaty, skinny so on and so forth. Size of his/her wallet ? Humorous, witty, smart, average and down to earth ?

Didn't use a poll. Too many different things turn different people on. Different strokes for different folks.

Answers don't necessary need to fill profile of you SO. Just what do you Edenittes fancy ?
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Vnessa Vnessa
I always notice a smile first. A killer smile (mmmm). I'm drawn to athletic builds---broad shoulders, chest and back. Then I will look at the waist, a narrow waist, is always a good visual for wrapping your legs around (but that's my bad manners kicking in lol). I am, however , too shy to check out a bulging crotch lol. I stop the ogling at the waist. Well, take that back, I will check out the ass to see if it's grab worthy But that's it.

None of this has any merit though if the guy isn't a true gentleman. A guy who opens doors, places his hand at the small of your back as you are walking--sexy. Confidence and self assurance is a must. He has to be able to provide for a family but not necessarily be oozing money and wealth. It's important for me to be with someone who has a great personality. I love to laugh and joke around. I act silly A LOT so I need someone who will understand me when I'm dancing around our kitchen in my panties and acting like a dork
03/11/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
This might seem unusual but a woman who knows how to dress is important to me. I find that sexy. Also, the personalities I find intriguing are the nerdy, confident, adventurous and shy types. With all of these personalities, she should be a nice person but must have a bad girl streak. No smoking and no drug use, just drinking on occasion and swearing when needed and sometimes its not . She has to laugh at my jokes and should be able to laugh at herself when needed. She should also be able to take care of herself financially speaking. I want her to want me, not need me.

When I was younger, I was really attracted to larger breasts i.e. C's, D's etc. but now that I'm older, I don't really care as long as they are B's or bigger.

As for her frame, I do like the smaller waist but it's not a deal breaker. An athletic frame is also nice. I also like a round butt and cute feet. Someone who likes to wear sandals and heels. Lately women who wear glasses usually get a second look and some conversation from me.

Her overall size I'm really flexible with. She can be anywhere between a size 6-18. If she is bigger, she has to dress well.

Light brown eyes or brown eyes that are lighter than mine have and will always do it for me. I don't know why though.
03/11/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
This might seem unusual but a woman who knows how to dress is important to me. I find that sexy. Also, the personalities I find intriguing are the nerdy, confident, adventurous and shy types. With all of these personalities, she should be a nice ...
Do you fancy blondes? Shiny hair always stand out everywhere.
03/12/2015
Sir Sir
Their passion. The words they use when they talk to me. The cadence of their speech and how they turn down their eyes when they speak to me.

That's what turns me on.
03/12/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I'm going to the gym now. Going to check out the hot blonde with the crazy leggings, her has sheer on the ankles. She there 3-4 days a week. In good shape if you know what I mean. She also wears a white tank top.
Love watching her pump those weights !

It's a turn on.
03/12/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm going to the gym now. Going to check out the hot blonde with the crazy leggings, her has sheer on the ankles. She there 3-4 days a week. In good shape if you know what I mean. She also wears a white tank top.
Love watching her pump those ...
O.H., you're silly. Remind me again, how much will your wife get in the divorce? Just kidding, or am I?
03/12/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I found this and found it of interest.
03/13/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
O.H., you're silly. Remind me again, how much will your wife get in the divorce? Just kidding, or am I?
No, she knows I only like to look. She's aware I watch certain weather persons every morning. She also goes to the gym with me sometimes. Just an admirer of beauty and kindness.

I also like gals with nice smiles and manners !

However you are correct. I am silly.
03/13/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
I notice the whole package, bulge and all (sneakily). But I notice the eyes and smile first. What wins me over is if he melts me with his kiss.

I better not kiss until I find out if he is a gentleman, because then I would be sunk. I found that out in a charming ecstatic, heartbreaking way. (Darn















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03/13/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
What turns you on?

What catches your fancy ?

Hourglass figure, big bugle in crotch area, ample tits, tight clothes, round shapely butt, nice smile, nice complexion, nice personality, nice hair, well groomed, bearded, sideburns, ...
So... Here's is a little mind fry for you..

My turn on's are complete opposites I guess because I would consider myself kind of two sided depending on the situation.

I have a thing for really bad girls and really good girls but nothing in between. Now what that means is I have a huge thing for died black hair tattos and piercings and the more the better. I have a huge thing for girls in Doc Martins, girls that cuss, fight, smoke and drink actual alcohol. Whom my parents dispise. (Yeah I know smoking is bad for you... I used to love rough hardcore sex then a camel and a cup of coffee on a rainy afternoon there's nothing like it)

To give you an idea of what I am talking about my tv crush is Mandy Milkovitch from the tv show Shameless. MMMMM... Gargle... Mandy...

And I used to have a huge thing for Rose McGowan.

Anyway...

I am also on the complete opposite, I am also into strictly red heads or black hair with freckles (oh man do I love me some freckles and with red hair mmmmm.... homer simpson garagle....... I be a bit o the Irish)But more of the apple pie all american girl next door. Piercings and Tattoos but in places that are hidden. The nice mannered church going girl who lives next door that your parents like. Who makes you quit smoking, is cultured, enjoys different types of wine (because she knows the difference) and drinks whiskey and beer on occasion. She also loves to charm your parents. Then when they go out, she dares you to eat her out on your fathers vintage Corvette then make you cum all over your moms new decorative pillows, has sex in the shower with you and is all back to pretty and innocent by the time mom and dad get home. (ummm... not that that ever happened.. umm or anything)

Ie... Kate Mara or Kelly Reilly

But both have to have a bad streak for me to get into them.
03/14/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
So... Here's is a little mind fry for you..

My turn on's are complete opposites I guess because I would consider myself kind of two sided depending on the situation.

I have a thing for really bad girls and really good girls but ...
Did you just describe an old gf , on second thought, I think you just described your wife.
03/14/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Did you just describe an old gf , on second thought, I think you just described your wife.
Well...

One is an ex..

One is my wife..

And I am not talking while the flavor lasts...
03/14/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Well...

One is an ex..

One is my wife..

And I am not talking while the flavor lasts...
I would never ask you to "kiss" and tell. Well, maybe tell just a little. Your experiences are so entertaining. Can you blame me ?
03/14/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I would never ask you to "kiss" and tell. Well, maybe tell just a little. Your experiences are so entertaining. Can you blame me ?
I would have to 2nd this lol. Although, between the two of you, you guys are both pretty shameless in story telling capabilities
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I would never ask you to "kiss" and tell. Well, maybe tell just a little. Your experiences are so entertaining. Can you blame me ?
Oh not at all Inquisitor! I am just trying to give you all a giggle!

Lets just say I'm more partial to red heads.
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I would have to 2nd this lol. Although, between the two of you, you guys are both pretty shameless in story telling capabilities
Vnessa.... The truth is when I was an young buck I had an older man who was a best friends father tell me... I am going to wear it down to a nub before I am through.

I coulden't agree more. As long as I am able to have sex three times a day every day I am going to have sex three times a day every day!

I plan on putting all sorts of mileage on my body before it quits and if my stories encourage anybody else to do the same I am all about that.

I am not a perv or anything I just found a lady who has a comparable sex drive. The truth is that's what life is really about.
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I would never ask you to "kiss" and tell. Well, maybe tell just a little. Your experiences are so entertaining. Can you blame me ?
Oh and... sorry mom about those pillows LMAO!!!
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Vnessa.... The truth is when I was an young buck I had an older man who was a best friends father tell me... I am going to wear it down to a nub before I am through.

I coulden't agree more. As long as I am able to have sex three times a ...
I coulden't agree more. As long as I am able to have sex three times a day every day I am going to have sex three times a day every day!

(Or atleast try to... lately its been 1 time a day but still compared to some friends they have sex once a month... I think I am ahead!)
03/15/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We went shopping at the nursery yesterday for some roses. A nice blonde, blue-eyes came over to assist us. Had a sun hat on and like safari shirt and shorts. Her kindness, helpfulness, smile turned me on. As turned around and bent over to pick up a rose, turned me on some more ! Very nice toned slender legs ! Must be a runner. Later that night, OW said," I bet you like that blonde that helped us. Huh ?"

I replied, "Yes, she was very nice and helpful. And not a bad looker !"

She knows me well.
03/15/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
We went shopping at the nursery yesterday for some roses. A nice blonde, blue-eyes came over to assist us. Had a sun hat on and like safari shirt and shorts. Her kindness, helpfulness, smile turned me on. As turned around and bent over to pick up a ...
Heres the thing...

You know you have a good relationship when you can say to your wife or girlfriend that you think another woman is beautiful or hot without her getting bent out of shape. Same thing goes for your boyfriend/husband. If your wife can say to you a guy is good looking/handsome/hot without taking it the wrong way that's cool.

I find that the people that get upset about their SO looking at the opposite (or same sex in a sexual way) tend to be insecure with their relationships and themselves for that matter.

My wife has stated several times that she would enjoy going to a strip club with me.

We always had the agreement of be straight up and tell me how you feel. The problems come in when you feel like you cant tell things to your SO.

Big ups to you Guys OH AND OW!
03/15/2015
Svenson Svenson
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
What turns you on?

What catches your fancy ?

Hourglass figure, big bugle in crotch area, ample tits, tight clothes, round shapely butt, nice smile, nice complexion, nice personality, nice hair, well groomed, bearded, sideburns, ...
I guess I'm pretty much going to describe my "perfect girl" since I'm listing my turn-ons lol. So all of these are things that catch my interest, but the more that any one girl has I'm more likely to be attracted to.

First off, something that will always catch my eye on a girl is a lot of tattoos and piercings. Pretty much anything other than face tattoos are a turn on for me, and almost all piercings (as long as it's not totally overboard). Clothing wise, just the general looks that go with that styye.

I absolutely love a girl with fair skin and no freckles. Sometimes I like tan girls, but usually light skin really does it for me. Hair is also important to me, and preferably it's long and either black, really light blonde, or dark brown in order of preference. Dyed some cool color can be really sexy too Pretty, blue eyes and a nice smile will seal the deal as far as face goes. Oh, and being clean/smelling good!

I like girls to be nice, and enjoyable to talk to. If they're a bit rough around the edges that's cool too. I want to have at least some of the same interests, and be able to trust her. She should like cuddling a lot. Funny is a plus.

Body-wise, I like them anywhere from being a bit on the thinner side, to a bit on the thicker side. No real preference there because different people look better at different weights. But, it can't be too extreme in either direction (more so for the heavier side). Height is probably the least important thing to me. I would be just as happy with a 5'1" girl as I would be with a 6'1". However at my height of 5'7", ideally she would be a bit shorter than me (around 5'3 or 4").

I do like some nice big tits, but nothing insanely huge. I don't care as much about butts, but I still like a nice round one.

Annnd, that just about covers it
03/15/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Heres the thing...

You know you have a good relationship when you can say to your wife or girlfriend that you think another woman is beautiful or hot without her getting bent out of shape. Same thing goes for your boyfriend/husband. If your ...
Seconded!
03/15/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Heres the thing...

You know you have a good relationship when you can say to your wife or girlfriend that you think another woman is beautiful or hot without her getting bent out of shape. Same thing goes for your boyfriend/husband. If your ...
Thanks ! Now we are comparing her to one of the weather forecasters. We have some good lookers in our area.

03/16/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Svenson
I guess I'm pretty much going to describe my "perfect girl" since I'm listing my turn-ons lol. So all of these are things that catch my interest, but the more that any one girl has I'm more likely to be attracted ...
Sounds like the typical male. Likes them all !
03/16/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It's also not so much the bare skin like bareless shoulder outfits, the tight clothes, long wavy hair, nice smiles, it the fact they are confident and dress like it. And act like it !
03/16/2015
Svenson Svenson
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds like the typical male. Likes them all !
haha I guess

If you made me pick a couple things, I would probably say pretty eyes, light skin, good hair, and a nice smile. Everything else can't be a mess though
03/16/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Sounds like the typical male. Likes them all !
Why limit your options?
03/17/2015
BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
Eyes, smile, butt. Height. To be fair I'm only 5'3" so as long as it's taller than me that's attractive to me. And overall size. Chubby is sexier to me than skinny on a male. And dark over light hair.

On the occasions that I check out other females I'm checking out the boobs, smile. Long hair over short.

But every now and then there's someone out of those types that catches my eye. If you got it, you got it.
03/17/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by BlackOrchid
Eyes, smile, butt. Height. To be fair I'm only 5'3" so as long as it's taller than me that's attractive to me. And overall size. Chubby is sexier to me than skinny on a male. And dark over light hair.

On the occasions that ...
Another 5"3" gal? That makes 3 I've met here now. OW is also 5'3".

OW also likes the ones little taller than her, meatier rather than skinny, must have some clean combed hair, cleaned shaven, somewhat athletic and most important, considerate thoughtful person.

Hey, I think I just described myself
03/17/2015
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