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when is PDA to much?

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Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
So i walking down the block and this couple was making out usually i'm ok with some public display of affection but it was a little ridiculous. I realized i'm unless its like a bar, club, o party environment i'm really only ok with short kisses (tongue or no tongue) or s group of short kisses, not make out sessions

so my quesion is other peoples comfort level of public display of affection- like the street restaurants ect (not parties, bars or clubs where alcohol is involved ...)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
always ok
6  (8%)
never ok
2  (3%)
quick kiss on the cheek or mouth
44  (61%)
quick kiss no tongue
15  (21%)
quick kiss tongue
long kiss no tongue
5  (7%)
long kiss tongue
Total votes: 72
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
Id say a simple kiss is ok
04/23/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
Quote:
Originally posted by Mommy2
Id say a simple kiss is ok
I agree with you
04/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Quick kisses are fine but when you start sticking your tongues down each others throats is when I get annoyed.
04/24/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
nice simple kisses are fine with me
04/24/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
Maybe because I'm young, I don't mind quick kisses with no tongue. Actually, the only time I really mind PDA is when I'm in a situation where I can't ignore it. Such as, if I'm at a movie theater or such place where leaving wouldn't benefit me. That's really inappropriate.
04/24/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
A simple kiss is okay. Personally I don't like to be intimate in public in my relationship, but I understand if others are.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
holding hands, hugs, quick kisses...fine by me!
04/24/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot'n'Bothered
holding hands, hugs, quick kisses...fine by me!
This. When you start the tonsil hockey it crosses the line for me.
04/24/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
It starts to get to the point that what you are doing is private and other people shouldn't be present.
04/24/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
just something quick...i get annoyed by people groping each other and eating each others faces in public
04/24/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I was on the subway (that was packed) one day and a couple decided that this would be a good time to make out and the woman was grinding on the man and sliding down the front of him... It wouldn't have bothered me as much if I wasn't sitting right at their hip level. To me, that is too much lol.
04/24/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
I hate seeing people all over each other
04/24/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
It's slightly annoying to me, but it depends on the situation and location. Small kisses are fine by me, and I won't be bugged at seeing a couple have a longer kiss in the middle of a large grassy park or anything. I mean, in that situation I am free to turn and look the other way if it's bugging me
In a movie theater, a quick kiss is the most I want to be forced to sit and watch. In a restaurant, it's a bit awkward to go beyond that.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm single, but it really doesn't bother me what a couple does in public. I go about my own business so I don't take much notice.
If they feel comfortable doing whatever - then that's up to them.
04/25/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Long kiss as long as I don't see the tongue.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I think context is very important, but in most cases simple tongue-free kisses are perfectly acceptable.
05/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Quick kisses and/or hold handing are fine pretty much anywhere.
05/04/2011
Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
I hate whenever I can HEAR like smacking and tongue wrestling....blek
05/11/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
A kiss with tongue/a long kiss is too much. A quick kiss on the lips or cheek is fine by me.
05/11/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
A quick kiss no tongue. Anything beyond that is fine up until you get caught.
05/11/2011
Contributor: tokensgirl tokensgirl
quick kiss no tongue is acceptable
05/12/2011
Contributor: Dizzykakes Dizzykakes
I don't like watch others have a makeout session in front of me unless I am about a club/ party. It reminds me too much of high school
05/13/2011
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I do not like PDA! I am not the type of person to say anything out loud, but anything more than innocuous touching (like, arm around the other) kind of bugs me.
02/16/2013
Contributor: EmuLove EmuLove
Quick kiss no toung! if you arn't in public on the street that go for it
02/17/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
So i walking down the block and this couple was making out usually i'm ok with some public display of affection but it was a little ridiculous. I realized i'm unless its like a bar, club, o party environment i'm really only ok with short ... more
have at it! why hinder someone else's moment? good for them for feeling so much passion for each other.

and, if it makes you feel uncomfortable...flip it on them. settle in and watch them; enjoy it a little too much! thow in a moan once in a while...or give suggestions about technique...put in requests; "smack his ass. smack it!"
02/17/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
So i walking down the block and this couple was making out usually i'm ok with some public display of affection but it was a little ridiculous. I realized i'm unless its like a bar, club, o party environment i'm really only ok with short ... more
A quick kiss is fine with me.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
As long as its not verging on being obscene I'm ok with it.
02/17/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
It must be ate and I must be tired because when I first read the title I thought you meant Personal.Data Assistants. Ha ha ha
02/17/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I dont mind hugging, holding hands, quick pecks. anything else is ridiculous
02/17/2013