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Would you hook-up with a stranger? (Private Poll)

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Contributor: BeautiFullFigured BeautiFullFigured
For those of you who are single and don't "hook-up" with strangers, what would it take for you to break that rule? Would you be willing to break that rule at all?

If you're not single, would you hook-up with stranger if you were?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am single and I would hook-up with a stranger.
10
I am single and I would hook-up with a stranger under special circumstances.
32
I am single and I would NOT hook-up with a stranger, under any circumstance.
12
I'm in a relationship, but I would hook-up with a stranger if I were single.
20
I'm in a relationship, but if I were single, I would hook-up with a stranger under special circumstances.
23
I am in a relationship, but if I were single, I would NOT hook-up with a stranger under any circumstance..
38
It's complicated/Other
4
Total votes: 139 (130 voters)
Poll is closed
02/20/2011
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Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Hooking up with strangers can be fun, but the sex isn't usually all that great.
02/20/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by BeautiFullFigured
For those of you who are single and don't "hook-up" with strangers, what would it take for you to break that rule? Would you be willing to break that rule at all?

If you're not single, would you hook-up with stranger if you were?
I never have just "hooked up" before and I never would. Things for me are more complex than that. My heart has to be somewhere in the mix.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
Hooking up with strangers can be fun, but the sex isn't usually all that great.
Exactly. If there isn't some emotional bond its not worth it.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
Sometimes it's nice to get the physical desires taken care of without diving into that whole emotional area.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I have, once or twice.
02/20/2011
Contributor: littlezimmey littlezimmey
I have before and though it's thrilling, for me personally I went through the whole next day wondering if the other person was "clean" (disease-free) or worrying that I'd have an awkward run-in with that person sometime down the road. Plus, in my experiences, it has been extremely impersonal, which is a downer.
02/20/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I want the committed relationship before the sex. I can have "meaningless sex" with myself if that's all I want.
02/20/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I have before.
03/13/2011
Contributor: allehcat allehcat
If I got lonely enough and were single it would probably happen at least once.
03/13/2011
Contributor: lezergirl lezergirl
it happens
03/14/2011
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
not really into casual
05/03/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm a pretty good judge of character - if everything clicked right - I might.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I've "hooked up" before with men that I had just met. If I were single, I probably still would. It's exciting to me.
05/04/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Not for me
05/04/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Never! I would not ever "hook up" with a stranger.
05/04/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
NOPE! No strangers for me. I need an emotional connection with the person. This also prevents me regretting anything!
05/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I could never hook up with a stranger! Half of the experience for me is the emotional connect. I couldn't have sex with anyone but my fiancee!
05/04/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
never would
05/04/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
Hooking up with strangers can be fun, but the sex isn't usually all that great.
Every once in a while you do get surprised, though.
05/04/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
Every once in a while you do get surprised, though.
My first time turned out very well but I still didn't think I'd ever go about it that way again, until recently I did, very very impulsive, and so far has been ongoing and great. I do have friends who did and things didn't turn out so well for one reason or another, so there is that risk.
05/07/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by BeautiFullFigured
For those of you who are single and don't "hook-up" with strangers, what would it take for you to break that rule? Would you be willing to break that rule at all?

If you're not single, would you hook-up with stranger if you were?
I'd totally hook up with a stranger (though I never have and gone all the way) if Daniel ok-ed it.
05/07/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
no its not for me
05/07/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
No way jose to the stranger sex. Too weird, too emotional, and unsafe for my tastes. Call me a prude or whatever you want but it's not my taste. That said, it does't make it wrong for someone else. Consenting adults are free to do as they please and if that works for someone else, they can totally go for it.
05/07/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Ive had alot of first date sex but ALWAYS use a condom and just have straight up sex. If I start dating the guy, then we can bust out the toys and have some oral fun.
05/07/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I will not have sex with a stranger. The first thing that comes into my mine will be STD???
05/07/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I'm always kind of cautious but ultimately I will so long as protection is used and there is nothing funky going on when the pants come off.
05/18/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
I wouldnt do it
05/18/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Have a long time ago but definitely was not enjoyable. Now older and wiser would definitely not.
07/26/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I'm technically single, depending on how you look at my relationship with my girl, but I think of myself as in a relationship with her, but if I were single and unattached I'd have sex with a stranger. Have done many a time. I see no problem with it.
07/27/2011