The New Intimacy

Would you release a sex tape of yourself and a partner or partners?

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Contributor: gone77 gone77
We're always hearing in the news about the latest celebrity sex tape being released and how it was always either stolen or sold by an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend for a sum without the celebrity's knowledge.

But what if you were offered a large sum of money to allow your private intimate moments be displayed to the world? What if you were told it would be released in a tasteful manner and as a way to show how real people have sex (a la Comstock films)?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I would only if it was a LOT of money.
beautifulpierced , Illusional , ajdlp1 , the bedroom blogger , SexyStuff , DeliciousSurprise , salaciousrex , Diabolical Kitty , Sekhmet , KrazyKandy , misterazor , keeweepoo
12  (11%)
No way. My private moments are just that--private!
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68  (61%)
I wouldn't hand over a personal tape, but I'd consider doing a professional shoot.
El-Jaro , gone77 , SexyySarah , Liz2 , Jessica Elizabeth , petite-n-sweet , Alan & Michele , angel142stx , bluekaren , Noelle
10  (9%)
Why do you ask? Have you got a sex tape waiting in the wings?
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8  (7%)
Other
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14  (12%)
Total votes: 112
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I'd do it in a heartbeat for a fair sum of moolah. Not a LOT, just fair, especially if it was going to be done tastefully and respectfully.

Hell, most everyone I know in real life has already seen me nekkid anyhow...
08/18/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Ha! Answer a question with another question!

I don't think I would - Gary and I are surprisingly private, and I know it would bother him. It would be weird for me too. So, nope - that's not for us.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I'm afraid that, no matter how large a sum of money it would be, it would quite ruin sex for me. Knowing that someone would be watching it would stress me out and I'd feel like some kind of naked porn muppet. Even if it was super tasteful, I just couldn't do it.

Besides, while "real" sex can be hot, I'm willing to bet no one would want to pay for a vid where I giggle about sperm crawling into my ear canal and taking over my brain.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
I would if my partner consented to it.
08/18/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I wouldn't hand over my own personal one, but it might be fun to do a professional one! lol
08/18/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
It would take a lot of convincing and good bit of money, but I'd consider a professional shoot. Notice I said "consider" not that I would definitely do it. heh
08/18/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I would if my partner consented to it.
Aw, shoot! I didn't even think to add that as a choice because in my head I was thinking the partners would already be consenting together.

Great answer.
08/18/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
Aw, shoot! I didn't even think to add that as a choice because in my head I was thinking the partners would already be consenting together.

Great answer.
I'm so pale that they'd have to shoot it in infrared.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Eeyor89 Eeyor89
I don't mind making tapes of me and my partner. But they are only for us to enjoy lol. (maybe a friend too, but who knows .. )
08/18/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're too old fashioned - there will never be a tape to release.
08/18/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nope, Never.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Nope. Not even going to make any tapes for them to be stolen or passed around to begin with!
08/18/2010
Contributor: deadpoet deadpoet
I don't think so. My life is my life.
08/18/2010
Contributor: *Keona* *Keona*
It seems like something fun to do but I'd be worried that no matter how tasteful it was done people would still make it into something else. Plus I don't know how comfortable I would be with being out in public shopping and having people walk up to me telling me their favorite parts about me having sex.

I'd let a select group of people see my tape though just not the world.
08/18/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Seeing as I have a clips4sale and a website in the works, I already have released my personal sex life via video clips and pictures.. It doesn't bother me in the least, in fact I enjoy the rush I get from being so voyeuristic. Plus, I figure if I can make money from it and eventually not have to have a boss to work for, why the hell not? I enjoy it and so does my man, so that's all that matters to me!
08/18/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I know I've got one floating around out there somewhere, although he swore it was for personal use. It better be! And if not, I was really working the camera. Ha Ha!
08/18/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
Sex Tapes were created as a revenge tool, selling them cheapens the whole concept!
08/18/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We're too old fashioned - there will never be a tape to release.
I have to agree. There would never be a tape to begin with.
08/18/2010
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
i like cash
08/18/2010
Contributor: NightNight NightNight
I couldn't let something like that leave my hands.

However... I am a intrigued by the idea of being filmed professionally and then keeping it for myself!
08/18/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I don't know if one of our tapes would be "released in a tasteful manner and as a way to show how real people have sex". The release might be tasteful, but I don't know how mainstream the material would be
08/18/2010
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Quote:
Originally posted by beautifulpierced
i like cash
LOL!

See? My sentiments exactly.
08/19/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I'm afraid that, no matter how large a sum of money it would be, it would quite ruin sex for me. Knowing that someone would be watching it would stress me out and I'd feel like some kind of naked porn muppet. Even if it was super tasteful, I ... more
"...I'm willing to bet no one would want to pay for a vid where I giggle about sperm crawling into my ear canal and taking over my brain."

I wouldn't be too sure about that. lol

"...naked porn muppet" I'm actually getting a visual of marionettes doing porn. Weird!
08/19/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by Not here
Seeing as I have a clips4sale and a website in the works, I already have released my personal sex life via video clips and pictures.. It doesn't bother me in the least, in fact I enjoy the rush I get from being so voyeuristic. Plus, I figure if I ... more
Good point! I think I might be more tempted if I could make a living out of it. Food for thought. ;-)
08/19/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by Sammi
I don't know if one of our tapes would be "released in a tasteful manner and as a way to show how real people have sex". The release might be tasteful, but I don't know how mainstream the material would be
Ha! Love it.
08/19/2010
Contributor: Timaree Timaree
sex tapes are the new shortcut to fame for people who don't have any expectation of seriousness to their careers. check out a great column on the phenomenon: link
08/19/2010
Contributor: kck kck
No way! I especially wouldn't do it as a retaliatory act.
08/19/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I'm not sure I could ever do it. So I'll stick with no for now, lol
08/19/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
I'm afraid that, no matter how large a sum of money it would be, it would quite ruin sex for me. Knowing that someone would be watching it would stress me out and I'd feel like some kind of naked porn muppet. Even if it was super tasteful, I ... more
ROFL I dunno I'd probbly pay to see that...but I'm weird that way. Could you imagine if that was a real worry? The conversations we'd be having here at EF...

I'd do it for a goodly sum I think...I know the guys would, hell Sigel would probably pay for the thing if I'd just agree to it!
08/20/2010