How do you feel about gay marriage?

Contributor: brittany8612 brittany8612
I'm all for it. Love is love, man
06/03/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I think it will do more for the sanctity of marriage than a lot of hetero marriages these days!
06/18/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
I'm all for it, no one should interfere when two consenting adults who love one another want to marry. And no once has the right to force their religious beliefs on others.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I support gay marriage 100%
06/18/2011
Contributor: big b big b
call it something other then a marriage
06/18/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
If two people want to bind themselves legally to each other, I don't think it should matter whether they are both the same sex or not. I think for now, because the term "marriage" is so firmly associated with religion, that it might help move things along if the government would make a complete separation between church and state. The religious term "marriage" and its variations should be removed from the current laws and the non-religious term "civil union" and all its variations should be used to indicate a legally binding commitment between any two people, whether straight or gay.

Churches could still perform "marriages", but for it to be legally recognized, the couple, whether gay or straight, would have to file a "civil union" license with the state.

I know that some people object to not being allowed to use the term "marriage", and I can understand wanting to use the same word that was used by one's parents and grandparents. But if by using the term "civil union", gays can get the same sort of benefits that "married" couples get, then at least it's a step in the right direction. And by using the term "civil union" for both straights and gays, it makes everyone equal, at least in legal terms.

As for getting the various religions to recognize gay marriage, that is a different subject entirely.
06/18/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I grew up in a very freakishly republican political household and went to church every week. Since becoming an adult and my own person, I have seen and heard things from my parents that make me wonder how in the hell they are my parents. I didn't grow into the family traditions of racism and bigotry, superiority and hate. And I am damn proud of that fact. I don't just agree or believe in marriage for the GBLT community. I believe in marriage for all loving couples. And here's a little sign that explains a bit more about my stance. link
06/18/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
All for it, most definitely.
06/30/2011
Contributor: Maeby Maeby
I support the right of two consenting adults to be married. There's no reason, in my opinion, that homosexual couples should be excluded from the benefits of a legal union.
06/30/2011
Contributor: Kinkypixie Kinkypixie
If the people getting married are happy and in love then their rights should not be taken away from them.
I like to keep it simple; love is love.
07/31/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Recently I found this article here and I thought it worth sharing on here, to see what others think about it.
08/02/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
100% all for it. I do not think religion should have any say in this matter, I truly believe in separation of chruch and state. I think religion has too much power and needs to be stopped, seems like they have say in everything. The law says separation between chruch and state and I have yet to see this.
08/02/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Husband says they should get to suffer like the rest of us, of course this is a joke.
08/02/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Friends of ours are getting married this weekend and they've included a hand-fasting ceremony as part of it. I thought that was pretty cool.
what is hand-fasting? sounds interesting...
anything done before christianity and then adapted to suit it is intriguing to me.

08/02/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Though my wife is in favour, I disagree with the concept of gay marriage as a religious ceremony, assuming that the religion/church traditionally opposes homosexuality and I don't feel that a minister or church who is uncomfortable with the concept of it should be forced to perform the ceremony.

However as a civil union I have no issues with it. In a modern society that preaches about "equality under the law" it is only fair that gay couples should receive the same advantages and disadvantages that a marriage would provide.
08/02/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
All ppl are entilted to happiness. I'm not gonna be the one that says someoneelse can't be happy. Yes it may be wrong in god's eyes, but no one is perfect. We all sin one way or another.
08/07/2011
Contributor: BabyL0ve BabyL0ve
There is nothing wrong with gay marriage. I am all for it!
08/10/2011
Contributor: Liz x420x Liz x420x
all for it even though I don't really believe in marriage as is, but I still think gays and lesbians should definitely have the right to be able to marry if that's what they want.
08/10/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
It doesnt effect anyone unless they are the ones getting married so its no ones business. Im all for gay marriage, marry whos going to make you happy.
08/10/2011
Contributor: authorzero authorzero
There really isn't a good reason not to legalize it. Why shouldn't consenting adults be able to make decisions for themselves? Why are so many people so obsessed with what others do in the privacy of their own bedrooms?
08/10/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Quote:
Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I was reading over at the SF Gate this morning (cuz that's where my favorite columnist writes. Have you checked out Mark Morford? link You should. He's smart and funny and snarky as hell and I want to have insane sex with his brain) and, ... more
As someone who is gay married, I obviously support it. My family isn't necessarily on board, but they've all been pretty good about it. At least now. They weren't at first, several years ago when we started dating. But now my partner and I stay the night at my grandparents house, sleep in the same bed while on vacation with my family, and my family treats her just like they would a daughter. Its great. I'm glad the world is changing, even if its this gradual change.
08/12/2011
Contributor: InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
I'm a very religious person but I'm not a bible toting, read every word, take it however you feel kind of person. I believe anyone can love anyone, whether it's a homosexual or heterosexual relationship, interracial, whatever....You love who you love and you should be able to spend your life in a legal marriage to whomever you please.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I am for it. Live and let live.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Looking back, I've read a lot of people are all for it - which is great - but I'm quite curious as to why people are against it. This hasn't really been explored in this thread, other than 'religious reasons' which isn't all that specific. This poll was made anonymous specifically so those who are against it wouldn't have to express themselves and be attacked because of it - which I understand and agree with. However, that doesn't really help me understand why people are against it. Sorry, I am a curious bugger.

So I'm putting this out there, asking - if you're not comfortable in answering my question in public - if you could PM me (and I promise you won't hear a peep out of me in reply, other than a 'thanks for the info' reply) as to why you believe so.

Thanks
08/19/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
all for it
08/19/2011
Contributor: LuciFaery LuciFaery
I've never understood the arguments that allowing gay marriage will make hetero marriage insignificant. How can people you've never met getting married POSSIBLY affect you? Marriage is a human right, not a heterosexual privilege, so I am all for gay marriage. I would one day like to be able to marry a woman I love without having to jump through hoops.
08/24/2011
Contributor: Katastophy Katastophy
I strongly believe that everyone should be allowed to love and be with whoever they desire. I don't understand why some people feel like they need to interfere with other people's personal choices and happiness when it doesn't concern them in any way.
09/07/2011
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
I probably should have included an "other" answer. Feel free to list your "other" type thoughts here.
Other. If that is what makes them happy, complete. Fine. And, government, businesses and religion have overstepped and controlled for too long. Association with those who love, inspire, think ...ect is your choice as part of human nature. The problems arose when those who dare to be different received the wrath and vehement and ostracizing from our quote un quote culture and spiritual beliefs. Consenting adults do not need a to oblige society. Government must make equal the choices and fundamental availability. A License, blood typing for heteros from marrying and giving birth w/in family. Businesses have no right to control what an individual or employee do afters hours. Nodda! Religions: lets keep it simple. Believe in who, what and how things came to be. But, do not impact my right, life or choices based on Stories, Hypothesis and Conjecture. The only fact is that we have the ability to create, live and experience life. And, if and when it actually ends; no one one has come to tell me yet that it is over. So I will just keep being who, what I am. Equal to my specie till proven otherwise. And accepting of life and the human experience.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Love is love, whether you are two females, two males, or a man and a woman. I don't see any reason why we should forbid two consenting adults who are in love from getting married if they want to be together. It just doesn't make much sense to me, but I guess people really had to fight for the right to interracial marriage as well. I'm for marriage equality.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Sekhmet Sekhmet
All for it !! Was at DE Pride and signed anything and everything I could get my hands on. Proudly display my HRC stickers and glad to see DADT finally gone.
09/29/2011