I have been going out to a very busy, fairly large bar lately. I am gregarious. I tell stories, jokes and I can actually listen to a conversation w/o my eagerness or anatomy protruding and ruining my chances. I am having so much fun. I cannot afford to go out every week. But, $40 bucks covers my take for a night, I even eat a lil something (just Food, so far). And, I am safe to drive home. Drinks are not cheap and I tip $1 or $2 for every drink. If something would come up. I would handle it as it goes. I always pack common sense, I don't get drunk, No is NO. I am no Don Juan, Ho. I think if I per sue this like an adult, with respect. It will improve my chances of meeting someone that I could enjoy spending time with. Now, I like the place, the people, music, karaoke, some dancing and the people watching. Hey, I am no Movie Star. I am clean, respectful and I make them laugh. I also pack an open mind. You can't make someone like you,you get one chance for a first impression. I figure if we don't hit it off, she may tell another gal that I made her laugh or I was polite. Good word of mouth may lead to someone else that I hit it off with. Let me know what you think, or what you do. I am learning with every post. I love this stuff. I am so glad I took this step. My next step is a Nat'l coffee/bakery shop. They have wi-fi and I can go for a few hours at different times of the day. I can do that for $15 I tend to like women from 30 to sixty (I am 46). Beer, Scotch, Coffee, Tea and Me.