Recently my partner has had a really low sex drive and I can always get myself into a place where I want sex, or sex-related things. I've been searching asexuality forums all night trying to find activities that aren't necessarily sex, but are still sexy. I haven't found anything. I've written her erotica, and tried everything I can to figure out what I can do with her that won't make her uncomfortable, and haven't found anything.

Did I mention we're also long distance and probably won't see each other for a long time?

Does anyone have any suggestions of things we can do?