His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
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(3)I am personally offended by this
Is he gay
justmeb
12/07/2010
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The relevant question is, does he enjoy having sex with men? And even then, he might be bisexual, rather than gay. Tastes in fashion, sports, entertainment, and other things has very little to do with sexual preference.
12/07/2010
I am not really sure who 'he' is but if he is your boyfriend, friend, relative you should probably just talk to him.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes.
12/07/2010
there is something called metro.. its not gay. but it acts gay
12/07/2010
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
Jobthingy
I am not really sure who 'he' is but if he is your boyfriend, friend, relative you should probably just talk to him.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed ... more
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed ... more
I am not really sure who 'he' is but if he is your boyfriend, friend, relative you should probably just talk to him.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes. less
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes. less
My boyfriend likes some very sensitive things, but he's quite straight.
I also appreciate some "manly" things
12/07/2010
being gay is liking the same sex. it has to do with sexual pref not life pref!!
i like all sort of girly stuff but im not gay :/ i dont like guys but i like cross dressing. that doesnt make me gay, i dont like men.
i like all sort of girly stuff but im not gay :/ i dont like guys but i like cross dressing. that doesnt make me gay, i dont like men.
12/08/2010
I was pretty sure you asked this earlier. No. Plain and simple. Colors, stuffed animals, boas, hell even wearing heels and a hot dress would not make him gay. Now, if he was attracted to men (sexually, emotionally and the like) then he might be gay. MIGHT, not would.
I love baseball and motocross...that doesn't make me a lesbian. It is what it is. He likes funny movies, the color pink, and Katy Perry (who, when I polled the guys I knew, very popular with men in general).
I love baseball and motocross...that doesn't make me a lesbian. It is what it is. He likes funny movies, the color pink, and Katy Perry (who, when I polled the guys I knew, very popular with men in general).
12/08/2010
You really can't judge if someone is gay with just a few likes and dislikes or colors and movies.
12/08/2010
Based on those things alone...no.
12/08/2010
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This ^ .
Originally posted by
Jobthingy
I am not really sure who 'he' is but if he is your boyfriend, friend, relative you should probably just talk to him.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed ... more
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed ... more
I am not really sure who 'he' is but if he is your boyfriend, friend, relative you should probably just talk to him.
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes. less
However just because someone likes Katy Perry and likes a chick flick does not at all mean he is gay (as we pointed out in the last forum question you asked in regards to the same topic). I am sure 'he' would not appreciate being stereotyped because of his likes and dislikes. less
12/08/2010
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And this ^. Lol
Originally posted by
Illusional
Agreed.
My boyfriend likes some very sensitive things, but he's quite straight.
I also appreciate some "manly" things
My boyfriend likes some very sensitive things, but he's quite straight.
I also appreciate some "manly" things
12/08/2010
yeah the kate Perry thing isn't really something that should be making you ask the question.
12/08/2010
I'd be questioning his sexuality a little more if he asked you to ram a giant dildo in his backside...and even then if it's a woman doing it, he still may not be gay!
12/08/2010
I put maybe cuz seriously there's nothing listed that indicates what this individuals sexual preference is. You have stereotypes and that's just silly to try and judge a person by. How about you just ask them?
12/08/2010
My dad likes Sex and the City, and he's not gay. Really, I'd say liking "feminine" things does not make a person gay.
12/08/2010
No - sexual orientation has to do with sexual attraction.
12/08/2010
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Immaterial. The question is which sex does he want to be sexually intimate with, not what activities he likes.
Originally posted by
Lindz86
I'd be questioning his sexuality a little more if he asked you to ram a giant dildo in his backside...and even then if it's a woman doing it, he still may not be gay!
12/08/2010
i couldn't determine that on those things alone but if he also likes sleeping next to and being intimate with women id feel pretty silly for thinking he was gay!!! lol
12/08/2010
Has he expressed a desire for men? Sexually or non, just a real desire...or is does he want to be with a man? Those are what should make you wonder if he's gay.
I work with a lot of guys who seem like they're gay (not so much to me, but I get asked by new coworkers all the time if they are), but their girlfriends don't seem to think they're gay. One of those guys shops with me routinely and even picks out my shoes...the most I think is that I freaking envy his fashion knowledge.
J worked with a guy (and was great friends with him too) who loved to watch Buffy and 7th Heaven, he knew all the female trends and dressed very feminine...hint hint...he knew how to hook a girl because he taught himself to think like one (well the stereotypical one anyway...apparently I baffled him to no end).
Or, you know, you could just ask him (nicely...maybe...hope fully you won't offend him).
I work with a lot of guys who seem like they're gay (not so much to me, but I get asked by new coworkers all the time if they are), but their girlfriends don't seem to think they're gay. One of those guys shops with me routinely and even picks out my shoes...the most I think is that I freaking envy his fashion knowledge.
J worked with a guy (and was great friends with him too) who loved to watch Buffy and 7th Heaven, he knew all the female trends and dressed very feminine...hint hint...he knew how to hook a girl because he taught himself to think like one (well the stereotypical one anyway...apparently I baffled him to no end).
Or, you know, you could just ask him (nicely...maybe...hope fully you won't offend him).
12/08/2010
My ex's favorite movie was Dirty Dancing. Of course his second favorite was Terminator 2. You could just as easily be asking questions over sexuality when a man is obsessed with Schwartzy and Muscle mags. The crap a guy likes has little to do with what he wants in the bedroom.
I like watching MMA and Action movies, I would probably not date a guy who looks like an action star. Too many muscles freak me out. I couldn't handle going to the strippers, or receiving a fantasy phone call, this does not mean I don't fantasize.
I hate Katy Parry, and actually most female vocalists. Not THEM but I am not a huge fan of most female vocals. What does that mean? What would you think of me knowing all of this information?
My point is that if you limit a persons likes to anything that could be used to question one aspect of them or their personality, you can pretty much surmise anything you like from it. However you wont actually know anything unless you talk to them about it.
I like watching MMA and Action movies, I would probably not date a guy who looks like an action star. Too many muscles freak me out. I couldn't handle going to the strippers, or receiving a fantasy phone call, this does not mean I don't fantasize.
I hate Katy Parry, and actually most female vocalists. Not THEM but I am not a huge fan of most female vocals. What does that mean? What would you think of me knowing all of this information?
My point is that if you limit a persons likes to anything that could be used to question one aspect of them or their personality, you can pretty much surmise anything you like from it. However you wont actually know anything unless you talk to them about it.
12/20/2010
You can't tell by what he likes. If you try, you're just stereotyping. My boyfriend's favorite movie/show was Le Mis and he definitely isn't gay. The only way you can know is if he actually likes doing sexual things with guys. And even then, he might be bi or pansexual. You never know until you ask.
12/20/2010
My husband enjoys all the things you mentioned and I can very much assure you he isn't gay.
Also, I know I guy that loves football, violent video games, and movies where shit blows up real good and he is very much gay.
I guess the old saying "you can't judge by it's cover" is appropriate here. The only real clear-cut indicator of whether he is gay of not would be if he's attracted to men.
I also can't help but feel that this a very thinly veiled way of you asking about yourself.
Also, I know I guy that loves football, violent video games, and movies where shit blows up real good and he is very much gay.
I guess the old saying "you can't judge by it's cover" is appropriate here. The only real clear-cut indicator of whether he is gay of not would be if he's attracted to men.
I also can't help but feel that this a very thinly veiled way of you asking about yourself.
12/21/2010
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Ummmm he's gay if he likes all those things and more importantly likes having sex/love relationships with men. If he likes all these things and likes having sex with women he's straight. If he likes all these things and likes having sex with men and women he's bi-sexual. If he likes all these things and doesn't like/doesn't need sex with anyone he's asexual.
Originally posted by
justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
Liking the things you mention says more about his personality than it doesn his sexual persusion.
12/25/2010
well, maybe if he also liked lady gaga..
01/12/2011
Unless he likes to have sex with other men, then no. It's confusing how so many women say they want sensitive men that they can relate to better, but then want to slap a gay label on them as soon as a guy admits to liking anything that isn't considered manly.
01/12/2011
Is that it? Just those things? Is he attracted to men?
01/12/2011
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Agreed.. it all comes down to the question of does he want to have sex with men.
Originally posted by
ToyGeek
The relevant question is, does he enjoy having sex with men? And even then, he might be bisexual, rather than gay. Tastes in fashion, sports, entertainment, and other things has very little to do with sexual preference.
01/13/2011
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his favorite color being pink isn't that big a thing, but the other 2 are kinda iffy
Originally posted by
justmeb
His fav color is pink, his fav song is I kissed a girl and his fav movie is sex and the city???
05/02/2011
maybe so
05/04/2011
maybe, there are a lot of closeted guys but there are also a lot of men who just love more feminine things
05/04/2011