Do you prefer giving your lover a massage, or getting one? Or BOTH?
What's better, giving or getting?
08/24/2010
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My guy likes giving massages and I like getting them.
08/24/2010
I had to select both because I love a good massage but also love to give them to my hubs!
08/24/2010
I'm a giver I love to please my man.
08/24/2010
I said both, but I probably prefer giving a bit more than getting one.
08/24/2010
I like to get but am not very good at giving them....
08/24/2010
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture.
08/24/2010
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OMG That must have been sooooo CUTE! My guys do things like this all the time. I will try to wake Arch and he will agree with me that he needs to get up and then insist on me giving him about 3 hours. It's always 3 hours...no idea why.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The ... more
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The ... more
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture. less
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture. less
08/24/2010
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Hahaha too funny!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The ... more
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The ... more
I am told by My Man I give the best massages. I think I just KNOW him so well. I occasionally get a massage, but he's often too rough, and I don't want a rough....massage.
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture. less
I often massage him to sleep, more often than not.
The other night, I was sitting in the chair in our bedroom, massaging him with my feet, his neck and back etc. He fell asleep and fell over on the floor. (very sophisticated, My Man) And after trying to wake him up, which is like trying to wake the dead, I went to bed. I looked over and saw he was snuggling something, under his head. He had fallen onto my bra, which I tossed onto the floor, and the cup was cradling his head, and he was snuggling like it was his Lovey. Very cute. I wish I had thought to get the camera or my phone to take a picture. less
08/24/2010
Because of a skiing injury, my hand tends to cramp up very quickly but I love to get a massage when we have the time!
08/24/2010
I absolutely love both. My boyfriend has pretty frequent back pain, so it's a great way to help him sleep or unwind when he's had a bad day. I love sitting on his butt and talking to him while I touch him.
For getting, my favorite time is right after an orgasm. Best afterplay ever.
For getting, my favorite time is right after an orgasm. Best afterplay ever.
08/24/2010
I'd prefer to get a massage, but I don't mind giving them.
08/24/2010
I do a lot more giving than receiving - but enjoy both.
08/24/2010
I enjoy giving a good massage but part of why I offer them is because I want him to learn a thing or two!!!
08/24/2010
I have more fun giving them than receiving. The wife just does not have the hands for it.
08/24/2010
I am pretty good at giving massages, if I do say so myself. lol My husband on the other hand is terrible. I wish he was better at it because I love getting massages.
08/24/2010
fortunately, he likes GIVING more than getting, and i'm the opposite way.
08/25/2010
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Guide him - if he has an interest I'm sure he'll be a quick study!
Originally posted by
SydVicious
I am pretty good at giving massages, if I do say so myself. lol My husband on the other hand is terrible. I wish he was better at it because I love getting massages.
08/25/2010
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Likewise my wife's hands are rather small and not very strong. We bought the JimmyJane Contour 'M' massage stone. It lets the massager use their weight and not tire out their hands.
Originally posted by
ToyTimeTim
I have more fun giving them than receiving. The wife just does not have the hands for it.
08/25/2010
I'd rather give a massage than get a massage, but I'm selfless like that.
08/25/2010
I'm better at it than my husband but he is getting better with practice
08/31/2010
I love both but I much prefer getting a massage.
08/31/2010
I love both, but I tend to give more than I recieve. My man works very physically and he tends to get sore muscles so I am constanlty massaging him. I'm such a good girlfriend, lol.
08/31/2010
I do like to give them but I get upset when it takes forever to get one in return!!
09/04/2010
A set of strong hands works wonders for me.
09/11/2010
I love, love getting massages. Unfortunately, I am not good at giving them. My wife says that I am too gentle and that I need more practice.
09/11/2010
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I came to bed after going to the bathroom the other night, and My Man had rolled over into my spot, I CANNOT sleep in his spot. (And I hate his alarm clock, which I bought him.) So, I kept nagging him to MOVE! Eventually, he rolled over and then said, sound asleep, "I'll need a charge number for all that work. Do you have it?" (He has to use "charge numbers" for his projects at work.) So, I said, "Yeah, charge 846." He said, "OK, thank you." and went back to sleep.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
OMG That must have been sooooo CUTE! My guys do things like this all the time. I will try to wake Arch and he will agree with me that he needs to get up and then insist on me giving him about 3 hours. It's always 3 hours...no idea why.
Funny men. Three hours. yeah. That sounds like what I think when My Man's alarm goes off at 4:30 AM.
09/11/2010
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Yeah, he's classy, ain't he?
Originally posted by
Fanny
Hahaha too funny!
09/11/2010
My guy has huge back muscles so it takes me a lot of work to actually give him a good back massage. So I usually like to get one if I give him a massage. I usually start and half the time he falls asleep and never returns the favor lol. But when he does he goes too deep where it hurts so I just find it more rewarding to see a smile on his face by letting him relax and get a good massage.
09/11/2010
I love getting them and I would love giving them more if my hands didn't get sore from it. Oils help a bit there though.
09/11/2010