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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Would you feel comfortable sharing "tongue" with someone you just met? Is that something you wait till you are in a "deeper relationship" before doing? What is the group think on this?

I will be happy to share tongue on the.......
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
First date
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Second date
SiNn , Sunshineamine , TameTemptress , shcoo , Adriana Ravenlust
5
Third date
SiNn , lick123 , Eva Schwaltz , Sunshineamine , cheetahpita , ashxxx , Adriana Ravenlust
7
Further out then that
Miss Anonymous , Jesse , married with children , That Man from Mars , Kdlips , Sir , Howells , ID42 , ColorMeCute , liilii080 , sarki , Shellz31 , shentel , padmeamidala , TheeGirlNextDoor , froggiemoma , SiNn , Rossie , shySEXXaddict , ThoughtsAblaze , ss143 , potstickers , LavenderSkies , bayosgirl , Vanille , ashxxx , mpfm , SexyStuff
28
Never
Other...please explain...
Cedarlooman , Sabrinna , PiratePrincess , Eliza , MaryExy , cherryredhead88 , xoflxokcxo , ~LaUr3n~ , darthkitt3n , Darling Jen , The Curious Couple , Airen Wolf , Lio , ~KillerQueen~ , ToyBoy , sexyintexas , irishlove , tickle me pink , curmudgeoncat , idunshire , Rin (aka Nire) , thebest , SiNn , BBW Talks Toys , lovemuscle n cookie , Pixel , Noira Celestia , kokopelli , CreamySweet , cocomo , Princess-Kayla ♥ , socceras , potstickers , ily , LavenderSkies , Cherrylane , duff
37
Total votes: 127 (112 voters)
Poll is closed
06/15/2011
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Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I have no problem tongue kissing on the first date. But really there have been times that I have been kissing someone within hours (and every once in a while minutes) of meeting them. If someone is attractive enough to me to go on a date or even spend several minutes of flirting with, I am game for kissing them. It is pretty far down on the list of risky things you can do, imo.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Kissing is personal for me, so I don't kiss on the first or second date.
06/15/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I think it would depend on the relationship. If it was going really well, I wouldn't have a problem with kissing or using tongue.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I would kiss (including tongue) on the first date. I would do it even if we had just met and hadn't been on an actual date, but I was interested in them.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
Definitely did this before a first date... I don't think kissing is that big of a deal. I understand how it becomes personal and romantic when you've been with someone for a while, but it's also just really fun.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Jesse Jesse
i would wanna trust the person more.
06/15/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
It depends on how I feel. If there was great chemistry and we hit it off really well I might, but I have yet to have a guy make me want them that bad, that soon.
06/15/2011
Contributor: xoflxokcxo xoflxokcxo
It depends on how I feel about that person. Maybe I'm weird but when I'm really into some one that I think I can have a long relationship with, then I wait before I kiss w/tongue. But if I'm in a fun and flirty mood, then I have no problem not waiting.
06/15/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I don't like rules. Depends.
06/15/2011
Contributor: M.H1 M.H1
as long as i know the person enough i can on the first date
06/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
The way a man kisses with his tongue can tell you a lot about him.

I was really attracted to my husband the first time I laid eyes on him. Within hours of meeting him I was kissing him. I learned in a matter of minutes that my husband was an attentive lover, liked to indugle a woman in pleasure for as long as she wished, and that he was a tender and passionate person.

Kissing with tongue can up the ante a bit or if you are on the fence, it can seal or break the deal.
06/15/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I think it definitely depends.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Would you feel comfortable sharing "tongue" with someone you just met? Is that something you wait till you are in a "deeper relationship" before doing? What is the group think on this?

I will be happy to share tongue on the.......
Personally, I need to get to know the person before a first date. If they have good hygiene and smell nice I'll play tonsil hockey on the first date!
06/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I remember my first tongue kiss with my first boyfriend (I was 13) and I was so disgusted by his sloppy, soaking wet, whipping tongue forcing its way down my throat that I broke up with him the next day. Makes me gag thinking about it.
06/15/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
If there is attraction and chemistry I have no problem doing that on the first date.
06/16/2011
Contributor: big b big b
why not
06/16/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I'm not one to share that kind of intimacy very soon. For me, it's something that the person must earn, and something I must earn from them.
06/16/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
I would kiss (including tongue) on the first date. I would do it even if we had just met and hadn't been on an actual date, but I was interested in them.
similar. If I met a girl and found her interesting, attractive, and clean smelling, I'd have no problen kissing her and using tongue...
06/16/2011
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
it have to be someone im whit for a long time
06/16/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Would you feel comfortable sharing "tongue" with someone you just met? Is that something you wait till you are in a "deeper relationship" before doing? What is the group think on this?

I will be happy to share tongue on the.......
Mmmm, too many years of marriage, and won't likely ever have to address this again, but I can certainly say that back when I was single 25 years ago I tongue kissed plenty of girls on the first date.
06/16/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Kissing, and intimacy in general, is a thing done when I am on a certain level with someone. When I kiss someone, I generally go all out. It's not just a little peck on the cheek or on the lips. If I am kissing a person, it's usually very passionate and intense. So I do that when I'm ready for it.

With my girl, it was our first time seeing each other, but we had been in a relationship for two years at that point. With my most recent ex, it was one of the first days at his house, we were on his bed. We had been seeing each other about a month and a half at that point.
06/16/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I agree, it absolutely depends on the person and situation. I think that kissing is very intimate, sometimes as intimate as sex so I really need to have feelings for this person first.
06/16/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
To me, kissing is something very personal. I can be very attracted to someone and have no wish to kiss them until we have some sort of bond. I dunno, it's just more intimate than most other casual contact.
06/16/2011
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Would you feel comfortable sharing "tongue" with someone you just met? Is that something you wait till you are in a "deeper relationship" before doing? What is the group think on this?

I will be happy to share tongue on the.......
I personally don't see how french kissing is romantic. It just turns me off. However, if we're in the mood and getting frisky, I might just suck on my boyfriend's tongue...he gets a little preview of what's to come He really enjoys it.
06/17/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Tongue is fine on the first date is there's the right chemistry.
06/21/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Yup, kissing isn't super personal to me, I'm fine tongue kissing people I've just met.
06/22/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
It all depends on how well I know the person. My husband and I started our relationship long distance so by the time we met in person we knew each other extremely well. Technically it could have been considered a "first date" but it was very different than, say, a first date with someone you had never met.
06/22/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Would you feel comfortable sharing "tongue" with someone you just met? Is that something you wait till you are in a "deeper relationship" before doing? What is the group think on this?

I will be happy to share tongue on the.......
I have and would, but obviously I would have to know them enough and feel they were "clean" and had good hygiene before going there. If I feel good enough to kiss them at all, then tongue is not that big a leap.
06/24/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
Like others have said, it depends.
06/24/2011