Can you skip foreplay?

Contributor: thebest thebest
fun but not needed
07/09/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Foreplay can be very frustrating to wait through.
07/09/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
never skip, that builds up the fun
07/09/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
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Originally posted by Pinkhare
sometimes the excitement of a quickie is all the foreplay needed but for the most part .. I love it
yes! Sometimes I just want to bend her over a table or couch and take her from behind and she loves it too. Most of the time, we will take hours during our sex sessions because there is lots of foreplay, working up to intercourse, then the orgasms...
07/14/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Shellz31
If a partner wants to get lazy and skip out on the foreplay, then he damn well better dish out the mindplay - otherwise he can go handplay by himself!
LOL. +1
07/14/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
I dont think less foreplay is needed.Its that you are comfortable with someone and start getting a routine down unfortunately,and then it just ends up being ok here I am..lets screw.Foreplay is important and needed I believe.It keeps sex interesting and leading up to the act exciting!
08/12/2011
Contributor: Marziba Marziba
We get turned on cuddling each other, so most of the time we skip foreplay because we're ready for the main event.
08/16/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee and I can skip foreplay easily, but that's usually because we're turned on by cuddling or something else. Though we can skip it, we don't 95% of the time.
08/17/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
Sure can lol
08/18/2011
Contributor: KinkBiLove KinkBiLove
Sometimes i get horny from just looking at my boyfriend , then foreplay isn't needed ! i just get to "raping" him ! haha
08/18/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
Sometimes you just don't need any buttering up...
08/18/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
After a bit you learn what turns you and your partner on so the need for extended foreplay is shortened. Lets face it after a while you know what you want, what your partner can do to your body and mind, and you can ask for it easier because you start to speak the same language.
'Course you have to be careful not to get in a rut....
08/18/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Oh no...not sad at all. SAD is couples who no longer WANT each other after years. We LOVE each other and when time does not allow a lot of hugging and kissing and play, we STILL want each other enough for a quickie here or there and let me tell you, ... more
~Agree! I can't imagine living like my parents who actively try to find activities that keep them away from each other. They say they have satisfying sex but really how satisfying can it be is you really don't like your partner? I resent the hell out of anything that takes me or my guys away from each other. They are my best friends and my lovers...makes it all amazing!
08/18/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
If I'm all kinds of revved up already we sometimes skip out on foreplay but for the most part foreplay is always a huge portion of our lovemaking and we both prefer it. THANK GOD I have a man that is down to please.
08/18/2011
Contributor: InNeedOfABuzzzz InNeedOfABuzzzz
Sure you can skip it occasionally when you're just crazy horny and can't wait anymore...but just because you get deeper in a relationship doesn't mean you should skip out on it. The sex won't ever be as good if you don't keep the spice in it!
08/18/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
It all depends on my mood
08/18/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
If both of us are in the mood, then I just go for it, although I'm really impatient with myself and sometimes I wish my partner would slow me down a little bit. So long as it's not a laziness thing, then it seems fine by me to occasionally skip it.
08/18/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Sometimes I am fine without it
08/18/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I can't ever skip foreplay on my GF. She needs time to get ready and besides, foreplay is a ton of fun
12/17/2011
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
When you live with your love for a longer time already, you get to know each other more and more, and get used to each other, things get more wonderful, and easier, it is totally natural, and the ideal way of things to go...

My personal example with my first love (and first lover he was as well, the very first):

for a half year we were dating

for 2 more years we were already mating diligently, but I could never manage to come with him (we were meeting secretly because of the big age difference and my parents always fucking around with us, it was extremely stressful, I couldn't relax, no way)

then within the first hour or so after arriving to him to live with him, I could come for the first time, not to mention it was vaginally and sudden, which was most mindblowingly surprising

and in the next year I learned more and more how to enjoy being with a man, learned to cum in a lot of ways, records:

coming by his hand 21 times (I still wonder if that was it for 21 times in a row, one after the other, but the physical reactions in me were nothing else but coming in my experience), right after that 2 more times by coupling sweet

5 times mating away, easy as pie, I just couldn't believe it...

Am kinda embarrassed writing about this in such a detail now, but I do hope that this is an excellent example of how natural and simple it can go, the key is to love each other truly, then it's like becoming one, you just get in tune with each other wonderfully... ^^
12/29/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Since our very first time, foreplay has ALWAYS been included except for a handful of times where he... surprised me and we skipped it. Those times are perfectly fine, but if he didn't like foreplay, I wouldn't be a happy camper like I am. It'd seem careless to me and lazy. Foreplay is a major part for most females since we're not usually automatically horny as hell. Lol. Plus it can be "romantic".
12/29/2011
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
It depends on where you are and how much time you have
12/29/2011
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
Foreplay is such a big part of the fun! Cannot skip it!
12/29/2011
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
Yes it can be skipped and it's common.
12/29/2011
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
I say yeah, eventually you just kind of get excited you have the time to have sex, let alone LONG sex. But I can't skip it entirely, especially after having a kid. That gets uncomfortable quickly.
12/29/2011
Contributor: Velocity Velocity
I think it's normal, but :/ its lazy.
foreplay makes sex more fun/pleasurable.
09/28/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I can take it or leave it, it is nice but not mandatory.
09/28/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Depends on how much time we have!!
09/28/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Yep, my gf actually pushes me to skip it and get to the main event. It does help when you get more comfortable and relax around your partner
09/28/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
As time has gone in my relationship, I've noticed less and less foreplay is needed. Is this a common thing in long term relationships?
I can but I'd rather not
09/28/2012