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Contributor: Choolz Choolz
Who likes to or doesn't like to spoon after sex? I personally don't at all. I want to roll over onto my side and pass out lol. For me it's like, thanks, that was great, I loved it but now I want to fall asleep. I will cuddle any other time though.
I just don't like being held or grabbed when I'm trying to sleep and he always wants to cuddle.

I've always heard it's the girls who want to cuddle after & the guys are the ones who want to avoid it.
Wondering if I'm the only girl who doesn't like it.

I apologize if this was already asked before.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I love to cuddle after sex
bunny love , Chilipepper , NaturalWoman , Tasty Latina , Crash , Darling Jen , Waterfall , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Miss T , Coralbell , Gunsmoke , markeagleone , Redboxbaby , potstickers , Anjulie , RonLee , liilii080 , ellejay , darthkitt3n , Serenesub , PiratePrincess , Totogrl , Happy Camper , jjonk , Lio , ihavenipples , Fannybutts , jankit , Adriana Ravenlust , ColorSplash , honeybee7484 , Purplecupcake99 , ScottA , ZenaidaMacroura , CSEA , gladiola , soyandapplecrisp , SexyStuff , Fuck it. , Valentinka , al16 , cobiffle , Lilbee , eggiweg , tammyandy69 , AngelicaU , Mattie Omega , Nicky , SiNn , Erotica Explorer , BlueDog , ID42 , SugarAndSpice , Sebmissive , MissMod , *Ashley* , AW00 , joja , MaryExy , amandaco2011 , starsNairguitars , KennyMister , Willis2011 , sassyNsensual , Kelly'sKitty , charcat , Curves , ac0313 , Dyma , 0 , sexygoddess , AdmNeg , Pablo F Lleras , lovemuscle n cookie , M121212 , indiglo , bayosgirl , Lucky21 , ss143 , Screen Door , angel142stx , LovelyBeauty , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Moein , Sinfully , oldman , GonetoLovehoney , britk , mandaj , Gingy , Howells , Stinkytofu10 , HannahPanda , MissCandyland , InNeedOfABuzzzz , LovesAPoet , Peggi , SexyMojito , aliceinthehole , queergaze , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , CollegeFun2014 , hatman , sexxxkitten , northstar , nope , gsfanatic , lilly555 , Daemonin , Peaches2000 , Mwar , hem , Supervixen , Thumper Logic , Rory , solitudinarian , mlmac , Swish , chelly411 , lovebites , nova2014 , AliMc , damnbul12 , (k)InkyIvy , sugar&spikes , Squirtz Starz , pyratess , charleswifey , Andrey2052 , Trysexual , padmeamidala , Flan-Flan Shazam , Velocity , J5ive , Beautiful-Disaster , SadoMas
136  (68%)
I'll cuddle for a few minutes, until he/she falls asleep
Cream in the Cupcake , sbon , Mr. & Mrs. Peg , sexyintexas , moonch1ld , Kaltir , Lady Marmelade , jaimijacklin , Shellz31 , mrs.mckrakn , FREE MR PERRY , cburger , Kilgorescowboy , xoflxokcxo , LivingandLoving , Miss Anonymous , EJ , Marziba , RTC , Darklyvan , pixxie87 , *Camoprincess* , mpfm , hhh , Passion plum
25  (12%)
I don't really mind but I don't initiate the cuddle
Eliza , Vaccinium , Jimbo Jones , REDRUM , Tart , Mr.RightNow , DeliciousSurprise , HangsLikeCabbage , CarmenGore262 , LennaKieran , jay28 , K101 , SweetSouthernGirl , frisky069 , yrnw , bmweida , lcl169 , Lickable Lollie , Caus , badk1tty , skeeterlynn , Isola
22  (11%)
I don't like it
Choolz , Red Vinyl Kitty , Queenbee35 , (Re)tired Stripper , Hot'n'Bothered
5  (2%)
Other
Stephanie Marie , IrishLassie , ud328 , That Guy , tickle me pink , MrRainybowbow , Retro , LostBoy988 , Tangerine , Falsepast , PassionQT , SavingMyself
12  (6%)
Total votes: 200
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Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I do NOT like cuddling after sex. Usually my skin feels so sensitive that I do not even like to be touched right after I cum.
02/26/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
I usually love to cuddle. However, sometimes I just lay there with a dazed look on my face and then lay on the floor because "I want to be close to the earth."

Really intense orgasms make me weird. haha.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
Sometimes I do, Sometimes I don't.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
Quote:
Originally posted by bunny love
I usually love to cuddle. However, sometimes I just lay there with a dazed look on my face and then lay on the floor because "I want to be close to the earth."

Really intense orgasms make me weird. haha.
I love this. <3
02/26/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I don't always like to cuddle, but I usually will just for a little bit.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I fecking MISS it. And the sex, too.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
We don't do it every time, but we do cuddle after sex on occasion. When we do, it only lasts a few minutes until she wants to get up and clean up. She has absolutely no interest in falling asleep in a puddle of my jizz.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Crash Crash
We cuddle but I usually fall asleep while spooning so it works out.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I usually like cuddling after sex its a nice way to fall to sleep.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I used to hate it, I've now been converted.
02/26/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Im odd, because Im like the stereotypical guy who will just roll over and fall asleep after sex. however depending on the session, I will enjoy cuddling after sex. I love cuddling more when we are getting ready to go to sleep.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Mrs. Peg goes to sleep waaay before I do. If we have sex before she goes to bed, I cuddle for a while until she is ready to sleep. If it's day-loving...well we lounge in bed long afterwards.
02/26/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Choolz
Who likes to or doesn't like to spoon after sex? I personally don't at all. I want to roll over onto my side and pass out lol. For me it's like, thanks, that was great, I loved it but now I want to fall asleep. I will cuddle any other ... more
I love to hold my wife after we make love. It's the best feeling in the world being close to her and so relaxed.
02/27/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by Choolz
Who likes to or doesn't like to spoon after sex? I personally don't at all. I want to roll over onto my side and pass out lol. For me it's like, thanks, that was great, I loved it but now I want to fall asleep. I will cuddle any other ... more
I can do with it or without.
02/27/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I kinda enjoy cuddling a little bit afterwards but not up until the point of sleep. Sex usually wakes me up a bit so I don't have the urge to pass out right away.
02/27/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I'll cuddle any time anywhere but I try to cut myself off because my partner is less cuddly than I am.
02/27/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
We both love to cuddle afterwards. We give each other a couple minutes to cool down, cuddle for a bit, and then get on with the day, or fall asleep
02/27/2011
Contributor: Choolz Choolz
So it looks like most of you do, glad though that I'm not the only one who isn't crazy about it.
Maybe I should stop being so mean to my hubby and cuddle a little bit lol!
02/27/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I always love cuddling. If we do it right before he has to leave, he'll stay a little longer just to cuddle for a little. It's my favorite way to end activity.
02/27/2011
Contributor: jjonk jjonk
befor and after
03/01/2011
Contributor: ud328 ud328
Sometimes I want to, sometimes she wants to, sometimes neither of us do, sometimes we both do. We're pretty communicative about it so nothing is ever a shock and we don't take it personally. Though more often than not I wake up around 3am with her arms flopped on top of me nuzzling up to my neck. She calls it "rogue cuddling". I call it truth in sleep.
03/01/2011
Contributor: Queenbee35 Queenbee35
I go straight to sleep after sex.
03/02/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Choolz
Who likes to or doesn't like to spoon after sex? I personally don't at all. I want to roll over onto my side and pass out lol. For me it's like, thanks, that was great, I loved it but now I want to fall asleep. I will cuddle any other ... more
Lol I love it!! It feels so great and normally we start playing around wrestling, or falling asleep in each others arms, as he snores
03/03/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by ud328
Sometimes I want to, sometimes she wants to, sometimes neither of us do, sometimes we both do. We're pretty communicative about it so nothing is ever a shock and we don't take it personally. Though more often than not I wake up around 3am ... more
lol yes, same here! And normally we have great intentions and then we just really want to sleep lol
03/03/2011
Contributor: gladiola gladiola
We cuddle, then promptly fall asleep!
03/03/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
some cuddling initiated by her
03/03/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
We usually cuddle up together and either watch a movie till we fall asleep or play video games together.
03/04/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I love to cuddle but usually clean up first.
03/04/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
Quote:
Originally posted by ud328
Sometimes I want to, sometimes she wants to, sometimes neither of us do, sometimes we both do. We're pretty communicative about it so nothing is ever a shock and we don't take it personally. Though more often than not I wake up around 3am ... more
That's cute and reminds me of us, except we normally both want to cuddle afterward. I'll fall asleep being the little spoon and wake up the being the big spoon.
03/04/2011