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Phone vs. Sexting

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Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda 12/04/2011

I'm in a long distance relationship and of course, actual sex always prevails over anything digital or just text.. but we have to make it work. Sometimes, I prefer sexting over phone sex. Nothing beats hearing her, but at the same time, sexting has that quality edge to it. I'm not sixteen anymore and trying to hide the screen from my parents, and I'm legally able to use my phone to take racey pictures or send naughty texts. Sometimes I just prefer it.

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Phone sex or sexting? (23 posts)
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I love phone sex, definitely phone sex.
SexyTabby , jedent , Drakoni , eeep , Shellz31 , Tripod95 , dv8 , potstickers , Do-Re-Mi
9  (18%)
I would go with sexting, it's much sexier.
Chirple , dhig , shcoo , Peggi , LavenderSkies , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Breas , yesmaam , Mr.Zombie , mpfm , freshbananas , MissCandyland , Fuck it. , whitknee , Howells , aimtoplease , mastersonv
17  (34%)
I like a bit of both, and can't choose one.
klyte , SiNn , deletedacct , ellejay , Jon S , Daemonin , CreamySweet , Eva Schwaltz , Terri Strickland , 12345678 , geliebt , Katelyn , sexydelphia , inmytoybox , Jake'n'bake , kittychilla , butterflygirlxo , LovesAPoet , switzerland , Bignuf , mandaj , Cherrylane , favoritemelody , southern woman
24  (48%)
Total votes: 50
Poll is closed
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Contributor: klyte klyte
A bit of both is good.
12/04/2011
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
texting leaves a trail, where a phone doesn't at least not as much.
12/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
well since my better half and iar esometimes apart theyboth r fun
12/04/2011
Contributor: Chirple Chirple
I'm self-conscious about my voice and am much more comfortable writing something out.
12/04/2011
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
I definitely have the voice for phone sex and I enjoy using it on Hubby but I don't text at all so no sexting.
12/04/2011
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I prefer sexting because there's less pressure to "perform" - there's no fumbling for what to say. And I feel like I can be more imaginative when reading words instead of hearing them.
12/05/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
don't really do either anymore, but back in the day it was all phone.
12/05/2011
Contributor: eeep eeep
Both are fun, but I like phone sex better. It seems much more intimate, and hearing someone talk dirty is a big turn on for me.
12/05/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
Sexting
12/05/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
I do more sex texting and pic sending then I do actual voice to voice. I have a bunch of guys who I share with LOL. I like the voice to voice for web-camming though....
12/05/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by T&A1987
texting leaves a trail, where a phone doesn't at least not as much.
That's a good point!

I personally would prefer sexting though because when it comes to phone sex, I feel like an awkward nerd when I try it to sound dirty. It all just sounds too fake to me.
12/06/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Skype?
12/06/2011
Contributor: Tripod95 Tripod95
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Originally posted by klyte
A bit of both is good.
I prefer phone sex but a bit of both is good. THough now with video chat oth are made sort of irrelevant.
12/06/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I'm not a super big fan of either, but I like sexting just a bit more. But phone sex is still fun =P
12/06/2011
Contributor: freshbananas freshbananas
Sexting is fun when he is at work, know he misses me then
12/06/2011
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
a bit of both is good
12/06/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I like sexting more. We're not apart often enough to talk on the phone much, but we can send pictures while the other is out doing something.
12/11/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
ehhh. i like phone sex, love hearing him moan and dirty talk and everything. although i think we've had sex trough im more than phone.. we're starting to do phone more, which makes me happy.


i've mentioned camming, but he's still a bit shy about it..
12/11/2011
Contributor: whitknee whitknee
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
Sexting all the way
12/11/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
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Originally posted by klyte
A bit of both is good.
Agree!
12/11/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
Um...I chose "can't choose one", but that is NOT because "I like a bit of both", but because BOTH are incredibly risky. Folks..your phone is a RADIO. Your wireless system on computers is a RADIO. It means OTHERS can pick up/see what you send. MOST encryption is a joke to a professional. Furthermore, you NEVER know where these words or images will show up. Usually it will be where YOU don't want it. Phone sex or Sexting is a risk we have told our daughter NOT to take. Now, her Fiance, who is a computer/internet security expert tells her the same exact thing, for the same exact reason.....so we are finally backed up and happy about it.
12/11/2011
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Just wondering what the general consensus to this question would be.
sexting would be better for us
01/03/2012