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What are some of things you have added to the bedroom to add spice to your committed long term relationship?

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Contributor: LuvMyHub4eva LuvMyHub4eva
What are the most common ways to had fun and spice to a couples love life?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
A - Bondage and/or anal play
55
B - Outfits,adult games, or role play
50
C - Toys (vibrators, didos, masturbaters)
70
D - Other
26
Total votes: 201 (80 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
More than one selection is allowed. I voted for A, B & C - and should have checked D - we do a lot of things to mix things up.
11/09/2010
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I say all of the above works. Not all at once necessarily, but maybe!
11/10/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I voted for costume/role play bcs that is the MOST COMMON! We have doen the others but to get things revved up costumes/lingerie do the thing for us.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
Bondage, outfits, and role play. But no one I've ever been with has ever wanted to do bondage more than a few times.
11/11/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
All of the above and tons of others!
11/11/2010
Contributor: hive83 hive83
All of them plus what ever i can think of.
11/13/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Why are bondage and anal together?
11/13/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Why are bondage and anal together?
I was wondering the same thing...
11/13/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I voted B and C. My boyfriend really likes it when I dress up for him, though I don't do any of the role playing stuff. We also like using toys sometimes, too, though some of them we are just getting introduced to using.
11/13/2010
Contributor: Timaree Timaree
here's a great column on throwing role playing into your relationship- for both first timers and veterans: link
11/17/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
All of these are great!
12/09/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
We keep things mixed up. We don't have any children so it's pretty much Porn Central here. We're either taking pictures and posting them on adult websites, recording videos and posting them on adult sites, watching porn, searching for new films, ironing out the kinks (hehehe) of our roleplay scenes. Yep, sex ALLLL da time.
12/10/2010
Contributor: mariah mariah
all of it!
12/10/2010
Contributor: married with children married with children
Quote:
Originally posted by LuvMyHub4eva
What are the most common ways to had fun and spice to a couples love life?
what ever comes to mind in the moment.
12/10/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
All of the above. Clicked other because we use cameras (still and video) as well.
12/10/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
all of the above. and it's all fun
12/11/2010
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
Why are bondage and anal listed together? Not the same thing. But I've done most of those and had a good time
12/15/2010
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
All of the above, plus a little erotica and porn.

...oh yeah, don't forget the romance. (I tend to forget that one)
12/15/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Good point, Mr. E.

Mostly toys, anal and costumes.

Plus he is very romantic and sensual.
We've not lost our spark or anything, but he loves the fact that I review pretty new toys.
12/15/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I don't understand why bondage and anal are together?? But yeah, A (for bondage) and C.
12/16/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I voted for them all. Other would be the Liberator shapes.
12/19/2010
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I voted for all of them. I also wrote my wife a 300-page erotic "choose-your-own-adven ture" style novel that uses all of the choices in the poll-- and others-- to create some pretty interesting evenings out on the town and in the bedroom (and basement, and dining room.....). Hopefully it will do what it is intended to do.
01/09/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
My wife and I have added dildos, vibrators, handcuffs, liberator sex furniture, cameras, masterbaters, ben wall balls, blindfolds and light bondage, and have even completely taken out the old bathroom in our house and replaced it with one with a jacuzzi, huge shower and rails mounted all over the place so that we would have stuff to hold onto while doing crazy positions. That stuff is the best money I have ever spent.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Mommy2 Mommy2
We have incorporated toys!
04/16/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
All of the above, plus some other things. We love sex it is what we are good at, well that and arguing! LOL but we like to do that to, I keep him in check and he likes my over opinionated womanly-ness.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
Toys, outfits and games.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Trepier Trepier
A little bit of everything on the list. Usually in a combination.
03/16/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
Quote:
Originally posted by LuvMyHub4eva
What are the most common ways to had fun and spice to a couples love life?
All of the above and more
09/19/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
All of the above.
09/19/2012