What was the first thing that you noticed and drew you to your current partner?

Contributor: D&&JForever D&&JForever
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Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
It was his kindness and humor. He is a very funny guy with a big heart. I guess I just got lucky. He is prefect in every way.
01/17/2011
Contributor: clp clp
We met on the internets; his dorkiness and compassion is what initially brought me in.

Physically, though, he is the MOST gorgeous blue eyes, great chipmunk cheeks, grand smile, and funny little expressions that cut straight to the heart.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I was drawn by the warmth of his eyes and his smile that was flanked on either side by the deepest, most beautiful dimples. When I met him, I was working at a gym that he frequented on a daily basis, so he was very built. Plus, he had a pretty (though definitely masculine) face, dark hair (and eyes), and gorgeous olive skin. But it was the warmth in his eyes and his deeply dimpled smile that got me!
01/18/2011
Contributor: Destri Destri
I met my hubby online, so it was his personality and his amazing sense of humor that attracted me to him right off.
01/18/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
His face and his sense of humor.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
As a 20-something my wife was a 9 physically, 10 mentally and 5 sexually. After 22 years her sexuality is up to an 8 and still getting better!
01/20/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
His personality drew me in. We met in a room with pretty poor lighting and we couldn't really see each other all that well. We made the biggest connection through talking and such and I found out that he's pretty darn awesome.

So yeah, personality definitely attracted me to him.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Persephone's Addiction Persephone's Addiction
His intelligence, definitely.
02/02/2011
Contributor: Miss T Miss T
His personality, & intelligence. Not too mention he is the sweetest most compassionate man I have ever met.
02/02/2011
Contributor: A Good Girl A Good Girl
Every other girl in the room was gaga over his wingman, but I thought he was the better choice
02/02/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
All of the above! Before I got to know his personality, it was his eyes and smile though;-)
02/09/2011
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
I should have just put a combination of everything. I found him on ICQ, looking up local people my age when I moved here. His username was Triskal, which I thought sounded really cool, so I messaged him. We talked and talked and talked. He sent me a picture of himself and apologized for not having a shirt on in it (I did not mind at all ). He was just perfect, physically. He's got soft brown eyes, and beautiful skin. He had long black hair (that's peppered with gray now and shorter). He has this clever little smirk. He was so funny and we got along so well.
02/09/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
My husband's personality was what I found most attractive when I first met him as a teenager. He was always saying or doing things to make me laugh and cheer me up when I was down. We were best friends for 2 years before we started dating. After 24 years of marriage, he is still my best friend and I still love his personality!
02/09/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
Well what drew me to my hubby was his user name on Yahoo chat. .
We met on there and starting chatting and really hit it off. 13 months later he moved countries so we could be together and 10years later we still are.
04/03/2011
Contributor: teeny <3 teeny <3
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
He was checking me out and trying to be sneaky about it.
04/03/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
it was pretty much everything. But I walked up to her at first because of her body.
04/04/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I was introduced to my husband for the first time over the phone and I instantly fell in love with his voice. What really drew me to him was his personality, though.
04/04/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
I disliked him! I thought he was a smart-ass, but he was cute. He is on the radio, so I think he expected I knew that. I thought he was a complete douchebag, to be frank! But something about him. He was funny, and kind to co-workers. Our first night together was supposed to be a one-time thing (I'm not into those actually, it was rare, so I was surprised at myself for my change in habit). It'll be two years soon. I liked the way we spent literally the entire night together being funny. He sang the "Fresh Prince" theme song---all the words!---and I was smitten.
04/05/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
Smile
04/11/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
Honestly? He was a pain in the ass, i just got out of a relationship and here this guy was begging me for a chance and sure enough i gave it to him. Im glad i did though were great together.
04/11/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I met my partner when I was in high school. We didn't start dating then, but I knew about him. He was part of the same circle of friends as I was & I actually was dating a friend of his at the time we first met. The night we did actually have a conversation/meet was at a graduation party at a friends house. I had a killer migraine & was nearly sick so I wouldn't drink & he asked if I wanted to ride with him to the store. I thought it was a little creepy so I said now & a while later he showed up with a BC powder for my migraine! How sweet! So, I gagged as I took the powder with a beer & then started drinking pretty heavily. Soon, I was pretty lit & started chatting. There was an older man there who was a lot creepy actually he was a friend's ex-father in-law & he kept insisting on "helping me to the powder room to pee!" & as he pushed me through to the powder room, I brushed my current BF's arm & gave him an "I'm scared!" look & he took over from there & told the man I could make it own my own. Well, the next day he'd gone home as did I, but I really wanted to see him again so I went back to the friend's house to see if he was around. He wasn't.

When I got back home an old friend called & said he'd been looking all over for me since we met the night before & wanted to see me! How cool? So to another party we went. We actually hooked up the second night & we've been together ever since!

I didn't know a lot about him when we first hooked up & wasn't sure that I wanted it to be a relationship, but as I got to know how kind hearted he was, I was extremely drawn to him (I mean it actually turned me on!) I never told him just how much I liked it that he was so kind & always stopping to give an old lady a ride until 2 days ago! He had stopped us to give an old lady a ride to the grocery store (we didn't know her) and back home which took an hour. As we were driving her hat flew off & landed on the road. He stopped, got out & gave her hat back. & this is 5 years of us being together & I told him those 2 days ago that it really turned me on that he was always going so far out of his way to help people. He said "I'll drive old people all the way to Atlanta if it really turns you on!" Ha Ha.

I was attracted to him mostly because there was something mysterious about him & he was very nice looking, then even more attracted to him when I learned how precious he was! Any man who'll give my cat CPR, is a real good man in my eyes! Lol. (He actually gave my kitty CPR when we were first together)
04/12/2011
Contributor: mariedoll mariedoll
I remember we were at a party and he was sitting on the couch dressed in black. There was something about him...
05/24/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
he was such a nerdy nerd.
05/24/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
He was so funny!
05/24/2011
Contributor: tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
He has the deepest bluest eyes I have ever seen. I hated blue eyes before him. I thought I'd never see a prettier pair until we had our son!!! His are even more beautiful! So much deeper! Like a sea at storm!
05/26/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
When I first met my guy, I had a very clear "he's cute, but I'm not blown-off-my-feet attracted to him" conversation in my head. Then he mentioned his time living in Massachusetts (I'd just visited the area the year before and LOVED it), and the rest is history. We bonded over literature that night, and as I began to grasp his whole personality, he became attractive on a physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual level.

Oh, and he has the best hair and great guitar-playing skills. Two gloriously sexy qualities!
06/12/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
My husband has a sexy smile!
06/12/2011
Contributor: DTV88 DTV88
i loved everything about him
06/13/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
His green green eyes
and his personality ofcourse.
He is everything I've ever dreamed of having
06/14/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
When you met your current guy/girl what was trhe first thing that drew you to them?
His kiss.
06/14/2011