Fantasizing about others

Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
Just curious to see how many people actually fantasize about being with some one else during sex.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
All the time
2  (3%)
Some times
38  (52%)
Never
33  (45%)
Total votes: 73
Poll is closed
05/19/2011
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Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
When you say someone else, do you mean someone other than your significant other?
05/19/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
Now I feel really stupid, I thought you meant fantasize about "being with someone else during sex" as you were masturbating. But now I understand, and no I never have surprisingly enough.
05/19/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
nope i dont
05/19/2011
Contributor: Nando Nando
Sometimes.
05/19/2011
Contributor: Leila Eden Leila Eden
I haven't done that before. I am always in the moment with my partner!
05/19/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
No, not while I'm having sex with hubby. I always thought that must be very difficult to do. And what if you accidentally called out another person's name? LOL!

Now, when I'm alone fantasizing....
05/19/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
I don't either, never had.
05/20/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
With some of my exes I did. But not with my hubby, he is always the main person on my mind.
05/20/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
NEVER! & I never would! My partner and I both see that as an immoral and unfaithful thing. We are 100% monogamous and we choose to be that way. If we wanted to screw every other person we really wouldn't have any business being together. I would never and have never fantasized about having sex with another man. If I did, I would immediately confess and give him the option to leave me. We are both Christians and as it states in the bible "You have heard that it was said 'you shall not commit adultery' ; but I tell you that everyone who gazes upon a woman with lust after her has already committed adultery in his heart." That's not to say we're perfect by far, but we try to live the best we can. We both have strong feelings on the subject and we both choose to be with only each other meaning he prefers to only see me in all aspects i.e. fantasize, look at, etc. Same with me. Even though the bible verse is referring to man, I see it no better if I, a woman looked at a man with lust or fantasized about another man. I will not do it and I have never had a hard time resisting. I've never been tempted to lust after others.
05/20/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Corny I know but all I ever think about is my man.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I never have, but that doesn't mean it won't happpen at some point.
05/21/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
It doesn't happen a lot, but I will admit it has on occasion. I don't make a point of doing it, but it I don't feel particularly bad about it either. Usually it happens when I am nor particularly horny, or we are just doing the plain old vanilla predictable sex and my mind wanders a little bit. Like I said, not very often.
05/25/2011
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I never do. It would probably just make me feel guilty. To tell the truth, though, I don't have any desire to fantasize about others during sex. I love my boyfriend, and I want to have sex with him, I want to have sex with HIM.
05/25/2011
Contributor: snook1136 snook1136
Do you mean like a three-way or something?
05/27/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Quote:
Originally posted by snook1136
Do you mean like a three-way or something?
I think about that quite often. Especially when I'm being double penetrated by his cock and a toy.
05/27/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Not so far
05/30/2011
Contributor: lemony lemony
It's not something I consider, why else would I be intimate with that person if I'm not interested in them?
06/12/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Never and I can't see that I ever will. If I'm fantasising about others, what's the point in being with the partner.
07/10/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
human beings kind of have that tendency... it's not that we're not satisfied with whom we're with, but it's always fun to experiment. i do from time to time
07/10/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Does fantasizing about a completely different set of two people having sex count?
07/10/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Scott Ghost
Just curious to see how many people actually fantasize about being with some one else during sex.
I sometimes do.
07/10/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Quote:
Originally posted by UnknownGirl
I think about that quite often. Especially when I'm being double penetrated by his cock and a toy.
This.

Also, whenever he's using a dildo/vibrator on me I like to think I'm with someone else. Usually no one in particular, but someone.
07/10/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I've never thought of anyone else but my partner when in the moment.
07/10/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I have never...
07/11/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I never think about anyone else i think if your are with someone and thinking of having sex with someone else then maybe thats no who you should be having sex with! now thinking about to other people getting it on totally different thats like porn! But better since you say what goes
07/16/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Not with my current boyfriend, but previously yes (I was fantasizing ABOUT my current boyfriend! )
07/16/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
Nope, I just enjoy the moment I'm in and love looking at her naked body
08/01/2011
Contributor: AAAToyGirl AAAToyGirl
I didn't vote one way or another, because my answer doesn't exactly fit... I don't fantasize about being with someone else, but sometimes in doggy style, I pretend my husband is one of the mechanical fucking machines. lol o.O
08/01/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never fantasized about anyone else during sex. My fiancee is the girl of my dreams, so why wouldn't I think of her?
08/01/2011