have you asked what it is?
your partner's fantasy
02/03/2012
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My SO is so vanilla that he claims not to have fantasies. Says he prefers reality.
02/03/2012
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Yeah, mine said that to me when we first got together. Eventually, I introduced concepts he was unfamiliar with and asked if he had any interest. We'd talk about it and discuss fears and objections or outright "NOs" concerning the act...
Originally posted by
Ms. N
My SO is so vanilla that he claims not to have fantasies. Says he prefers reality.
Now? I can't shut the guy up (and believe me I don't want to).
02/03/2012
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I have opened him up a bit to spanking (though he prefers hands to paddles), and have gotten a *maybe* on light bondage. But fantasies...nothing yet. We'll keep working on it
Originally posted by
Ansley
Yeah, mine said that to me when we first got together. Eventually, I introduced concepts he was unfamiliar with and asked if he had any interest. We'd talk about it and discuss fears and objections or outright "NOs" concerning the
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Yeah, mine said that to me when we first got together. Eventually, I introduced concepts he was unfamiliar with and asked if he had any interest. We'd talk about it and discuss fears and objections or outright "NOs" concerning the act...
Now? I can't shut the guy up (and believe me I don't want to). less
Now? I can't shut the guy up (and believe me I don't want to). less
02/03/2012
We tried his first couple, now we are getting ready for the next one.
02/04/2012
We are completely open and honest with each other about our sexual fantasies.
02/04/2012
Yea we are both pretty open about our fantasies with eachother. We've fulfilled quite a few too...
02/04/2012
Yes but I think she's too embarrassed to tell me. She says she doesn't have any but we'll see about that.
02/06/2012
We both always ask what each others fantasy is
02/06/2012
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Sounds like my boyfriend! The worst thing is to go from one guy who is crazy about every kind of sex to a guy who can't even say the word "sex" out loud!
Originally posted by
Ms. N
My SO is so vanilla that he claims not to have fantasies. Says he prefers reality.
02/06/2012
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Same - my SO is strictly vanilla. I have tried dozens of times to get her to reveal something interesting. She just claims to be 100% satisfied with things as they are. Frankly it's frustrating!
Originally posted by
Ms. N
My SO is so vanilla that he claims not to have fantasies. Says he prefers reality.
02/06/2012
I ask him all the time!
02/10/2012
He reads stories about mind control. I didn't even know that was a thing until he told me about it.
02/11/2012
Yes, but they are really vanilla. He was apprehensive to tell me about how he wanted us to use toys.
02/11/2012
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My wife is also - sooooo vanilla - toooooo vanilla - she will not admit to any fantasies or even masturbating.
Originally posted by
MissCandyland
Yes, but they are really vanilla. He was apprehensive to tell me about how he wanted us to use toys.
02/11/2012
We are very, very open with our sexuality. I know his fantasies and he knows mine, and we try to accommodate them when we can.
02/11/2012
My girlfriend is pretty open with me.
02/11/2012
Yes. I ask frequently as fantasies can change all the time.
02/11/2012
I just asked my husband and he said (in his Nigerian accent) "I fantacise about....doing eet in de airport." Um, ok.
02/11/2012
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Apparently to both of my guys I am their fantasy each of them. Course in Sigel's fantasy version of me I am well able and totally willing to be a complete sex doll and in Arch's fantasies I am at least 10 foot tall and truly bullet proof.
Originally posted by
Modern^Spank^Anthem
have you asked what it is?
I have actually written specifically targeted erotica for them on these matters. It was quite fun and eye opening.
02/11/2012
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Now that is an interesting fantasy...and accent
Originally posted by
bayosgirl
I just asked my husband and he said (in his Nigerian accent) "I fantacise about....doing eet in de airport." Um, ok.
02/11/2012
he is pretty open. He always asks mine but my fantasy is fulfilling his...doing anything dirty he wants!
02/15/2012
bsgs
i ask my wife all the time, she seems too shy to bring them up, because shes worried i wont like them, but i keep telling her i am up for anything
02/15/2012
My girlfriend is pretty open with me. She has shared one that I have been planning on the right way to pull it off for a few months, I just hope that it comes off as planned.
02/15/2012
I used to ask my wife all the time what her dreams were. However, if she tells me, then she has to think of a new fantasy to masturbate too. So, I stopped asking so she wouldn't have to worry about it anymore.
02/15/2012
I ask my GF often what she dreamed about, what her fantasies are, and if any of them are feasible to act out in real life, then we do it!
02/15/2012
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Same here, we've been together over four years and he still says he dosent have any
Originally posted by
Ms. N
My SO is so vanilla that he claims not to have fantasies. Says he prefers reality.
06/15/2012
I don't have to ask, I'm told all the time what it is! LOL To dominate me and he's always had this thing about peeing in me....I haven't let that happen though, as a matter of fact I just posted in here about that.....
06/15/2012
we have recently opened up to each other to figure out each others fantacies. now that they have been fullfilled. now it is time to make some new fantacies.
06/15/2012
we like to share our fantasies with each other
06/16/2012
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