Could you & your spouce invite some one else in?

Could you & your spouce invite some one else in?

SAE09 SAE09
If you could would it be another man, another woman, or not at all?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yeah, the more the merrier!
24  (28%)
Not for us!
62  (72%)
Total votes: 86
Poll is closed
11/29/2011
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toxie m toxie m
Another man, maybe someday. Not right now, for sure. It's an option for the future. Possibly another woman at some point as well, but we're much more interested in another man, generally.
11/29/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
Not together.
11/29/2011
Rossie Rossie
Nope - definitely not for us!
11/29/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
That train left the station a long time ago. But, this is definately one of my Fantasies.
11/29/2011
Moein Moein
Impossible
11/29/2011
mandaj mandaj
i dnt share. if he wants to add he can have em
11/30/2011
tlaskowski tlaskowski
no way!
12/01/2011
Kendrir Kendrir
Not gonna be happening
12/02/2011
Sir Sir
No, I am not interested in such things.
12/03/2011
Envy Envy
Nope, I'm way too insecure and possessive.
12/03/2011
Trishcuit629 Trishcuit629
So far, we've invited another man in. We've found another girl, but we just need our schedules to match up. We made a deal that if we invite someone else in, it can't be someone who either of us has been with in the past, emotionally or physically. We also both have to 100% be in the mood for it at that time. We're pretty good at not pressuring each other about it.
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SAE09
If you could would it be another man, another woman, or not at all?
She. NOPE...not sharing. Just could not get past the drama and REAL heartache and headache that would cause. Old fashioned on that one.

He. NOPE...while it is a great guy fantasy, for me, I KNOW that the reality would probably be a WHOLE lot more headache then fun. Then AND indeed later.
I have a friend whose wife let him have a threesome with her girlfriend, and while it was NOT the problem that did their marriage in, it sure didn't help. Two years later, their marriage was toast.
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Trishcuit629
So far, we've invited another man in. We've found another girl, but we just need our schedules to match up. We made a deal that if we invite someone else in, it can't be someone who either of us has been with in the past, emotionally or ...
You don't get jealous, afterwards, of seeing your partner pleasuring someone else in the MOST personal of ways????
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
That train left the station a long time ago. But, this is definately one of my Fantasies.
Many Fantasies are BEST left in that realm, I have found, over the years. Reality has a way of being FAR more complex and brutal.
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SAE09
If you could would it be another man, another woman, or not at all?
AMAZINGLY good poll and question. Revealing too. Notice how, even in this very OPEN group, who obviously is into their "sexuality" and "toys"...etc, certain VERY "old school" rules apply? Fidelity and Monogamy being one of them??? VERY interesting.
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
Impossible
Hum. I am NOT going there either, but IMPOSSIBLE seems an interesting word to apply here. Of course it is POSSIBLE. Everything is POSSIBLE. It is that you CHOOSE 100% to not let it happen...but impossible means that it could not happen regardless of your choice and that is just not true. It IS possible...and you choose to make sure it is not on the agenda. I like to think about why people say what they do, and I can only guess that "impossible" just relates the highest level of saying "no way on this green earth"????
12/03/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
That train left the station a long time ago. But, this is definately one of my Fantasies.
I have to laugh. "That train left the station a long time ago" probably means you ain't no spring chicken. As I am writing this, and as we are texting friends on Facebook, about writing this, one of them just tells us about how, as a home health nurse, she came in to find her 69 year old "home care check" man, having sex with TWO woman...both in their 60's!!! She has a key and accidentally walked in on them. There was NO question what was going on...NONE at all. They were on the floor, and he was doggy style "banging" the one woman, while the other was standing over the other, in front of him, and he was doing oral on her!!!!!! Kind of hard to mistake that situation as anything but what it was.

Our friend said not a word and bolted for the door.

When she returned later that day, he explained that his GIRLFRIEND, one of the pair, had another friend who was a widow and they had been talking about what a good lover HE still was, so....being the open CHILDREN OF THE FREE LOVE 60's that they were, SHE INVITED HER FRIEND ALONG to his place and the rest, as they say, was history.

SO....AGE apparently does NOT play a roll in this game!!!!!!!!!!
12/03/2011
Trishcuit629 Trishcuit629
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
You don't get jealous, afterwards, of seeing your partner pleasuring someone else in the MOST personal of ways????
A little, but not enough to ruin the relationship. Honestly, I kind of like it. He's fantastic at making every woman feel beautiful, and I love other women to see how good I have it. In the end, I know that I'm the one he wants to be with forever, and I'm the one he's going home with. Besides, he's had to watch me be pleasured by someone else before as well, so we're in the same boat.
12/10/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
Quote:
Originally posted by SAE09
If you could would it be another man, another woman, or not at all?
I don't play nice in the sandbox.
12/11/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
No way, not into that.
12/19/2011
Liz2 Liz2
Can't answer as the two choices preclude my thinking. I have been involved in a threesome, another female but the stress, emotions and anxiety of this relationship exhausted me physically and mentally. Don't know about going there again...........
12/20/2011
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
It would depend on what the wife would say, but I've been wanting to have her be with another man for years. Not sure it will ever happen though.
12/28/2011
chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
not at all! wouldnt even consider it
01/19/2012
leelee leelee
NO way... just not for us. We thought about it before and just couldn't do it. We both are the jealous type and it would just wreck our marriage if we did..
01/31/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
probably not
02/01/2012
Entropy Entropy
The other person would need to be a bisexual or straight male, and desire domination from a woman...but yeah, totally could work.
02/01/2012
Baby-Baby Baby-Baby
Quote:
Originally posted by SAE09
If you could would it be another man, another woman, or not at all?
Sure why not? An extra set of hands, a mouth, etc you get the point.
02/04/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Not the best idea
02/04/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
Another woman but only one that I approve of. I have understandable trust issues with him right now.
02/04/2012
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Unique posters: 55