My husband and I have recently gotten some news that I think slightly ruins our sex life and I am not sure how to get it all back. I have showed him various things off EF thinking that it could help us get back to where were, but nothing seems to help. It almost seems as if he is just being way to picky and not interested into new things. I figured by telling him that I wanted to try the various BDSM things out there he would jump on it, and want to try it himself and it just doesn't seem like he is much into anything new. Don't get me wrong we have a great sex life, but I would like to be spontaneous about things every once in a while. Does anyone out there have any ideas?