The New Intimacy

Have you ever started a fight with your lover, just so you could have some of that hot 'make up sex' later?

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Contributor: Pipedream Products Pipedream Products
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Yes
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No
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118  (87%)
Not yet, but plan to
Happy Camper
1  (1%)
Total votes: 135
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Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I haven't, but I do know people that do this pretty regularly. I guess maybe my make-up sex isn't as good as other peoples, or I just really hate fighting
09/03/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Seems a juvenile thing to do; even my ex-husband Mr-No-Libido didn't bother doing this, and he was pretty damn childish.

(Deja vu - didn't we discuss this before?)
09/03/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
Make up sex is amazing!
09/03/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
I prefer to have hot sex without the hurt feelings.
09/03/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
No, never crossed my mind.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
We never have make-up sex. If one of us is hurt or angry we talk it out, and then have sex the next day or two later, perhaps. Neither of us can get in the mood after being so hurt.

I will say that we rarely fight, which is why it is such a big deal for us when we get into arguments.
09/03/2010
Contributor: Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
(EdenFantasys)
No. I love sex, and make-up sex can be pretty damn intense, but it's not worth the hurt and angry feelings for!
09/07/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
Nope, tho sometimes we do have makeup cybering after a scuffle (long distance relationship) but it's not planned.
09/07/2010
Contributor: silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
We've never really argued...gotten annoyed with each other...but we always talk everything out fairly quickly. I don't think I'd want to pick a fight with him just to have make up sex. Our sex is already pretty wild without that.
09/13/2010
Contributor: YvetteJeannine YvetteJeannine
No.

Personally, for me..it would be silly to start a fight just so Matthew and I could have fantastic sex...Fighting; EVEN WHEN it's ended by terrific "make-up" sex, puts stress on a relationship. To start fights just so you can have good sex..nahh..Not for me..I believe every nasty fight puts hairline fractures in a love..and eventually..with enough of them, the relationship will break...

Matthew and I already have great sex...Sex borne out of friendship, love, closeness, and mutual respect (*I* believe), is THE BEST sex..better, even than make-up sex!!!

Granted though, when fights DO happen (and NOT 'on purpose'), and you DO realize you love each other, and you DO realize that 'you' were wrong, then the passion CAN be wonderful. But..to start them just to start them..? No thank you.
09/14/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
I have, but only over silly small things that really don't matter
09/14/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
No. That's petty.

Our sex can be passionate and heated without the anger. I am aggressive either way, whether I'm happy or not. Depends on my mood.
09/23/2010
Contributor: mllebeauty mllebeauty
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
We never have make-up sex. If one of us is hurt or angry we talk it out, and then have sex the next day or two later, perhaps. Neither of us can get in the mood after being so hurt.

I will say that we rarely fight, which is why it is such a ... more
I hate fighting with my man. I would never pick a fight just for make up sex. I agree. After fighting, we don't feel sexual at all.
09/23/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
While make-up sense can be fun and all, so can regular not-making-up sex. It seems rather silly to go to that effort. I don't want my boyfriend mad at me, nor do I want to be mad at him.
09/24/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
There was a period of time where me and my boyfriend were very distant emotionally, and I think that subconsciously I would start fights with him in order to have some sort of feeling running through me, since I wasn't feeling anything from the relationship. It didn't always end up in make-up sex, though, so I didn't vote.
09/24/2010
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Nope
10/05/2010
Contributor: Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
I can see this going badly
10/06/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Just for fun.
Nah, the thought doesn't really turn me on. I don't ever enjoy fighting with him, and sex never fixes it between us - It's better to talk it over and get our feelings out completely, and of course, apologize.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by YvetteJeannine
No.

Personally, for me..it would be silly to start a fight just so Matthew and I could have fantastic sex...Fighting; EVEN WHEN it's ended by terrific "make-up" sex, puts stress on a relationship. To start fights just so you can ... more
I completely agree with this statement. You really put my thoughts into perspective, and that's a tender relationship like mine right there. I prefer the love, friendship, closeness, and everything else, much rather than the fighting just for hot make up sex.
10/07/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I haven't, but I do know people that do this pretty regularly. I guess maybe my make-up sex isn't as good as other peoples, or I just really hate fighting
Same for us. I just hate arguments so much, sex is the furthest thing from my mind all I want to do is reconcile in a non sexual way.

I have had make up sex once and it was very hot, but I would never want to start an argument for the sake of having hot sex...we already do have good sex.
10/27/2010
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I am guilty of this, lol... Make up sex is just so amazing for us, lol... sigh...
10/27/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
nah, runs the risk of saying something that could cause real damage to the relationship. It's just not possible to have a "benign" fight, IMO.
11/01/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Now if we were already fighting to begin with.... make up sex is great... just don't see the point in starting a fight just to have sex. Could get blown (no pun intended) way out of proportion.
11/01/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
no never
11/04/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
No. Why put your partner through stress and hurt feelings, not to mention put unnecessary strain on the relationship that you might end up regretting in the future? That isn't very loving. Also it takes away from the awesomeness of real make up sex. If I was with someone who played games with my head I'd leave them.
11/06/2010
Contributor: Unconventional Unconventional
I get in volatile moods, but not for the sole purpose of having sex with him later. Not that I'm aware of anyway...maybe subconsciously, because sex after we work out the issue is always amazing. I think it's just better because if there is a fight, it's likely caused from an explosion after I've bottled up something for a long time. The feeling of relief of getting it off my chest adds to it, I think. The sex isn't there to fix the problem, it happens after the issue has been resolved.
11/06/2010
Contributor: RadRach RadRach
guilty as charged
11/06/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I have...but not in this relationship. With exes back in the day I did..but clearly that relationship was not meant to last..hence him being my EX, so I fully admit I played games back then..and so did he. We were horrible to each other and I know now that it wasn't love or neither of us would have acted that way, it was just a very toxic relationship. In my marriage I wouldn't want to go through the fight and wouldn't want to cause him the pain of a fight just for hot sex. If we want hot sex we just have hot sex, no fight necessary
11/06/2010
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
I can't stand fighting.
11/07/2010